So, when meeting a SD, do you name your price or work with what his budget allows? I'm relatively new to the game although I date wealthy men almost exclusively. I have a few prospects in mind now and meeting up with one tonight. Thanks ladies!



So, when meeting a SD, do you name your price or work with what his budget allows? I'm relatively new to the game although I date wealthy men almost exclusively. I have a few prospects in mind now and meeting up with one tonight. Thanks ladies!
Ideally, your price falls in line with his budget! That said, don't undervalue your time just because a certain SD has a budget that's lower than what you feel your time is worth. If your needs and his budget don't align, there's no sense in forcing it to work. That said, if he can offer you other, perhaps less tangible things than straight up cash that you feel make it worthwhile, that's a different story. There are plenty of potential SDs out there that you should never feel like you need to settle for less than you want though -- too many men out there think that this sort of arrangement can get them a private escort for cheap, so be on the lookout for ones who are just trying to take advantage.
On certain sites the allowance amounts are already built in so it's not something you have to even bring up. Honestly I feel the sites that kinda hide the amount or just leave it blank attract more members that pretend the site is for regular dating. SA has a list that goes from
Negotiable ( Any allowance amount)
Minimal ( Up to 1k per month)
Practical ( Up to 3k per month )
Moderate ( Up to 5k per month)
Substantial ( Up to 10k per month)
High (More than 10K per month)
On most profiles SDs tend to have "negotiable"
I would suggest don't waste time meeting any SD that doesn't want to talk about allowance offers. If he keeps putting it off then don't meet him. Try to have a phone conversation where you can get him to tell you in detail what he's seeking.
Also to add don't believe everything you hear. Many of the men on those sites are fakes.
Checks? Don't even waste your time.
" I'll deposit your allowance" Nope again don't waste your time.
If he avoids allowance discussions or says he either needs to get to know you better.. Run.
If he says something like well " I can't really offer anything until I get to see how good you are" = Scammer seeking test drive AVOID.
If he attempts to get you alone early on yet allowance offers haven't been discussed. Again avoid.
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