Well ladies, it's been months since I've been a consistent poster, but what better place to get some stuff off my chest?
Work has been a huge struggle for me lately and I've suffered the financial repercussions; I have to move out of my apartment, as I can't afford to pay the rent on time. That, in itself, is an uphill battle since I DEMOLISHED my credit...I'm pretty sure I've found a decent place and now if I can just scrape together the first months rent and deposit, it should be mine.
However, that means one other problem for me: I have to spend money on a new place instead of a new car...a few weeks ago, my car CAUGHT ON FUCKING FIRE and I struggled with the insurance company, so I have to start from scratch and get a new one. I basically have the choice between being car-less or homeless, so I'll opt to live without a car for a few weeks.
Anyway.....meanwhile, I must tell you a bit of my back story. I was cheated on by my ex and ended up befriending his mistress. For two years, I have happily raised his child by myself, have ceased all contact as he was quite abusive and enjoyed a lovely friendship with a girl...we won't mention her name, but it rhymes with "whore-en."
Well, whore-en decided our friendship obviously wasn't too important to her, because when my psychotic ex decided to hit her up, she sparked an all out war between us by giving him my full address and revealing details of my life. I must remind you, this man is absolutely INSANE and I've avoided him like the plague for years. Thankfully, he hadn't chased after me....until now.
Rumor has it that whore-en has inspired him to make accusations that I am on drugs (I'm not) in order to seek full custody of my child, whom he hasn't had or wanted ANYTHING to do with since she was born. She has a great man who is raising her as his own and that's her daddy; I am terrified that a nasty custody battle may throw a wrench in that. I genuinely fear for her safety in his presence.
For this reason, I suppose it's a good thing that I'm moving....I'm hoping he simply won't take any initiative to do anything and I can go back to quietly living in peace. But I want to legally protect myself and my child from him.
I'm stressed out to the max, broke, heartbroken and worried sick so any advice is most welcomed :/



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and good luck with all of this!

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