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    Question Does anyone know if doing Domme, or Fetish outcalls is legal, or illegal?

    I've been doing an exhaustive search both online, and with asking attorney friends. Nobody gives a straight answer.

    I would only do body worship, foot fetish type sessions. There is a demand for it in my area, but im not sure of the lgalities of it.
    Ive been getting escort type clients fromgirls i know, but escorting is def. Not my thing. I hate it, as a matter of fact.
    Can anyone lead me in the right direction regarding resources that can tell me. Oh, im in southern california, if that makes a difference

    Thank so much in advance

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    Default Re: Does anyone know if doing Domme, or Fetish outcalls is legal, or illegal?

    Quote Originally Posted by Glamourmilf View Post
    I've been doing an exhaustive search both online, and with asking attorney friends. Nobody gives a straight answer.

    I would only do body worship, foot fetish type sessions. There is a demand for it in my area, but im not sure of the lgalities of it.
    Ive been getting escort type clients fromgirls i know, but escorting is def. Not my thing. I hate it, as a matter of fact.
    Can anyone lead me in the right direction regarding resources that can tell me. Oh, im in southern california, if that makes a difference

    Thank so much in advance
    'Body worship' is ambiguous and often means that a client will want to perform oral on you, i.e., it's prostitution.

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    Default Re: Does anyone know if doing Domme, or Fetish outcalls is legal, or illegal?

    It sits in a grey area - as stated above it clearly depends on what goes on in your sessions - in my experience I have never heard of a lady being set up / busted doing domme sessions - maybe it happens but I have not heard about it - same for bachelor parties - as @abarret said many of the body worship guys want to perform oral on you - The foot / no touch guys are hard to find anymore in my area --- are there any escort ordinances in your area to look at ?? if so you may fall into the requirements to get an escort license to operate legal or at the least to avoid getting cited - all of that said the cops can bust you for anything and then let the courts sort it out even if you have all charges dismissed the charges would still be on your record - I would screen them just like an escort screening to be safe

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    Default Re: Does anyone know if doing Domme, or Fetish outcalls is legal, or illegal?

    From the customer perspective, agree with the advice above on the meaning of "body worship" ... it is sometimes codewords for oral sex, but it sometimes isn't; I'd avoid the term if that's not what you're going for.

    I wouldn't presume to give you legal advice, but like Nikki, I haven't heard of dommes being set up and busted in LA. I think the somewhat encouraging news is that pro domination is a lot more public than areas of the sex industry like AMPs or escorting, it's an open secret (or not a secret at all) as to where the houses are, and they're still not getting busted. Plus, you will not be agreeing to a sex act verbally, and I'm having trouble imagining an undercover agent submitting to a paddling and cock whipping, just so he can maybe catch you doing something in a gray area like pegging. Unless, of course, he lies, which is always a risk.

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    Default Re: Does anyone know if doing Domme, or Fetish outcalls is legal, or illegal?

    The statutes of your jurisdiction are more than likely available online. Check them to see if anything you intend to do is proscribed.

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    Default Re: Does anyone know if doing Domme, or Fetish outcalls is legal, or illegal?

    You need to look up your local laws but even being armed with the facts "Legal" or "Not Legal" you should operate as if its not legal because i can guarantee that your local municipality is operating that way. In my state a couple years ago Dommes were being busted left and right. Call it low hanging fruit, many were picked off. Its pretty easy for any local jurisdiction to charge a Domme with prostitution. Strap on, body worship, nudity, touching, all for the exchange of cash, pretty much prostitution in the eyes of many. Hell some can even charge you with assault. True that the charge can often be thrown out once you get to court but you will have already been arrested, paid an attorney, been to jail blah blah... so its best to treat it as if it is Illegal and take the necessary precautions.

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    Default Re: Does anyone know if doing Domme, or Fetish outcalls is legal, or illegal?

    I would think it depends entirely on how you and he get yourselves off. If you don't touch each other in the forbidden zones, but just provide the mental stimulation for getting off independently, I don't think it is illegal sex. (For women the zone also includes your breasts, or at least nipples.)
    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

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    ^^^ What they said about being careful as if it is illegal. Heck in Massachusetts BDSM IS illegal (You can't consent to assault.)

    Quote Originally Posted by jennydemilo View Post
    <snip> Its pretty easy for any local jurisdiction to charge a Domme with prostitution. Strap on, body worship, nudity, touching, all for the exchange of cash, pretty much prostitution in the eyes of many. Hell some can even charge you with assault. <snip>
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    I had a guy who used to beg to be tied and put him in the trunk of a car and drove around - he also wanted to be abandoned in a park - he said he would write a note that said it was okay - lol - he had to settle for being saran wrapped and duct taped to a bar stool

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