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    Yeah I met him in a normal situation. He gave me his card, after I mentioned I have an ebay store (lie) and then he mentioned he got divorced and has designer purses. So he called me back and began to tell me how we can sell these purses together. So i went into telling him I wasnt looking into buying for resale. So he went into teaching me the ropes of his business. Hes in marketing etc. Then when I made it clear I wasnt looking to pay, he said theyre not making him any use at his house so if I wanted to look at them and go from there, we could. So what do you guys think????

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    Default Re: I think I met a SD!!! Hes mega old. I only ever had one SD from club, help!!

    Hard to say. He might be a potential SD, though you haven't mentioned him actually offering you any sort of compensation. It could be that he just wants to lure you to his place with these purses to try to fuck you, so tread carefully and meet up again in public rather than at his place.

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    I said I never really liked purses which is why i wouldnt be interested in reselling, since i have no knowledge of them or interest in them. He then went to say I could just sell them to make money. So I was like yeah not really interested. Then he said, that he knew my time was important. I said sure ill look at the purses, and meet for appetizers. Where should I ask to meet??? restaurant? lounge? this will be in the day time. NOT going to his house. BTW im ready HO TACTICS. lol so im only a little bit into so, looking for pointers, red flags etc.

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    Default Re: I think I met a SD!!! Hes mega old. I only ever had one SD from club, help!!

    Just meet him @ a nice, classy restaurant. Look on Yelp for ideas, that's what I do. See how you feel when you meet/talk to him, does he make you uneasy? Etc.


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    Omg so he suggested this restaurant I frequent. Oh hell no!!! I'm like ahhh I don't like vegetarian food (lie) so then I didn't reply for hrs. He text me where we were meeting. I said take me shopping. He then mentioned an upper scale mall and said I better look nice. Guys I need tips! !!

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    Default Re: I think I met a SD!!! Hes mega old. I only ever had one SD from club, help!!

    I meet a lot of very high net worth individuals in my line of work, and the idea of one of them trying to enter into a business venture with a near-stranger centered around selling his ex-wife's purses seems ludicrous.

    I'm curious what makes you think that he has any money.

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    Default Re: I think I met a SD!!! Hes mega old. I only ever had one SD from club, help!!

    Quote Originally Posted by EricRRobert View Post
    I meet a lot of very high net worth individuals in my line of work, and the idea of one of them trying to enter into a business venture with a near-stranger centered around selling his ex-wife's purses seems ludicrous.

    I'm curious what makes you think that he has any money.
    I think he's just lonely. One of my guy friends I met through escorting gifted me some new items his wife was supposed to sell on EBay (I gave them to a friend who could use them.)

    There's nothing wrong with being friendly with him. If he is just divorced he might not be in a financial position to sugar but he might in the future....Don't burn this bridge.

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    Default Re: I think I met a SD!!! Hes mega old. I only ever had one SD from club, help!!

    ^ this is exactly what I thought. He may not be a full on sponsor but I'm sure he's willing to cover some bills here and there and possibly tuition (dreaming lol)

    I agree, he might just be lonely but not why go pick up b
    bitches At bingo night. If he wants to hang out with me he better make it worth my while. I asked him to take me shopping and he said OK just look nice. I wonder it he is thinks I meant take me shopping with my money.

    How do I go about maximizing his potential without burning the bridge?

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    Default Re: I think I met a SD!!! Hes mega old. I only ever had one SD from club, help!!

    I'm wondering if this verbatim step by step info. on such an open forum may hurt more so then help you. Who's to say he's not reading this?

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    Default Re: I think I met a SD!!! Hes mega old. I only ever had one SD from club, help!!

    emma, I have OCD. Please dont say that LOL Im going start on a crazy trip. I doubt it. If he is, well now Im cutting out the dancing and Im putting my wants on the table LOL

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    Default Re: I think I met a SD!!! Hes mega old. I only ever had one SD from club, help!!

    Quote Originally Posted by TheWeirdOne View Post
    emma, I have OCD. Please dont say that LOL Im going start on a crazy trip. I doubt it. If he is, well now Im cutting out the dancing and Im putting my wants on the table LOL
    Alright sweetheart..my bad.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheWeirdOne View Post
    ^ this is exactly what I thought. He may not be a full on sponsor but I'm sure he's willing to cover some bills here and there and possibly tuition (dreaming lol)

    I agree, he might just be lonely but not why go pick up b
    bitches At bingo night. If he wants to hang out with me he better make it worth my while. I asked him to take me shopping and he said OK just look nice. I wonder it he is thinks I meant take me shopping with my money.

    How do I go about maximizing his potential without burning the bridge?
    Older guys don't want to date women their age............ My boyfriend is now in his mid-50s and he knows how good he has it. I don't abuse his kindness b/c he is a truly good human. BUT in general any older guy is desperate to have a young girlfriend.

    Be polite to him but do explain you need him to buy the clothing. I get the feeling this guy need to be in the background until he decides to sugar for you. You can lay out your situation over dinner or coffee. The worst he can say right now is "no." .....You will never know if you don't ask...

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    Default Re: I think I met a SD!!! Hes mega old. I only ever had one SD from club, help!!

    Youre right. as blunt as this may sound he cant feel entitled to date me and not spoil me. LOL Ill do it today

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    Default Re: I think I met a SD!!! Hes mega old. I only ever had one SD from club, help!!

    [/QUOTE]The worst he can say right now is "no." .....You will never know if you don't ask...


    I'd like to see her goal met. Him saying no, fully aware of what she's looking for in a S/D. concerned me as a caution. But you're right Snuffle, inevitably the subject needs to be addressed. If he's serious, he'll say yes and by her outsourcing, she did everything to get the best on advice and preparation making that more of an accurate cautionary move.
    Last edited by emma383; 04-29-2015 at 10:35 AM. Reason: Wanted to add how smart these ladies are, but I think they know this.

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    Default Re: I think I met a SD!!! Hes mega old. I only ever had one SD from club, help!!

    It's a little odd he's offering purses instead of cash / real shopping but maybe you can just jokingly say " let's have coffee , if you are still letting me choose a purse can you bring a couple to pick from ?" .

    It's hard to groom an SD for sure.

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    Default Re: I think I met a SD!!! Hes mega old. I only ever had one SD from club, help!!

    Quote Originally Posted by EricRRobert View Post
    I meet a lot of very high net worth individuals in my line of work, and the idea of one of them trying to enter into a business venture with a near-stranger centered around selling his ex-wife's purses seems ludicrous.

    I'm curious what makes you think that he has any money.
    This. "Here, do you want my ex wife's shit?" doesn't really scream 'sugar daddy' to me.
    Quote Originally Posted by camille27 View Post
    i am losing my fucking mind and i really just want this chloroform dream because i think that would just get me right with jesus.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DesuvsDeath View Post
    This. "Here, do you want my ex wife's shit?" doesn't really scream 'sugar daddy' to me.
    Yup. I know this might burst your bubble but it should. Its quite a fucking jump from "want my ex wife's shit" to "wanna be my sugar baby?"
    He sounds like a time waster. I wouldn't give him the time of day.

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    Default Re: I think I met a SD!!! Hes mega old. I only ever had one SD from club, help!!

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    I agree, he might just be lonely but not why go pick up b
    bitches At bingo night. QUOTE]

    Because he's recently divorced and is probably tired of nagging basic marrying-kind bitches. He wants something young, hot, and fresh (YOU!)

    My advice? Milk it slowly but steadily. He's not a damn fool. He knows what you're after and if you DO have your Ho Tactics down, you can master this situation. Go shopping with him after meeting for lunch/dinner, but have some of your own money just in case he did mean for you to buy your own. This is the BEST way to feel him out. Start with something inexpensive and build from there, each time gushing about how sexy/fabulous/perfect the trinket it. Try the clothes on. Shoes too. Hold his arm, kiss his cheek every once in a while... Make him feel like a Roman God. You'll get those designer purses and more!

    If he's full of shit, you'll find it out early on in the shopping trip, thus avoiding further time wasting. Its a good way to go about it without being like "Buy me shit, old man!" A little subtly goes a long way!

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    Are you phucking serious? OP's post just made me lmaooooooooooooooooooooooo
    That does not sound like a TRUE SD AT ALL.
    Him giving you his ex wives purses to sell sounds like a joke. Can't believe the bowl is becoming to this.......

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    ^^ I agree 100% I will subtly make him take control over him. Lol. That's funny lol buy me shit old man lol that's epic. Lol. I really really doubt he was 1. Trying to sell purses 2. Expecting me to take used purses as payments. I think he ONLY said that to have am excuse to get me to call him, since I lied about the eBay store. I tried one of those sd sites and it was a complete joke. Also, the man I did find that paid me "for my time" let me know it would be the last time I saw him because he didn't get sex and "that's how this works"

    I cancelled yesterday and will continue to cancel until "I'm available" I sent him one picture last night of me at the last opera I went to. Very classy picture then I said I snapped those pearls last week, I want new ones. He then said let me know when you have time so we can talk....

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    ^^^
    Look into free styling at upscale lounges OP; I met my SD through doing that & I've been financially benefiting from it for almost a year now. & stay away from SD sites- full of fakes.
    "Strippers are like pet tigers. They are nice to look at but they are not for everyone."

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    Default Re: I think I met a SD!!! Hes mega old. I only ever had one SD from club, help!!

    On the flip side - he might just be bad at picking up a young girls to spoil - let him buy you dinner or whatever and take you to the mall - if he is not spending then ditch him and move on

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    Quote Originally Posted by carmen_b View Post
    It's a little odd he's offering purses instead of cash / real shopping but maybe you can just jokingly say " let's have coffee , if you are still letting me choose a purse can you bring a couple to pick from ?" .

    It's hard to groom an SD for sure.
    Yeah, but I can't help wondering who is grooming who. The guy is coming off as a bit of an operator, truth be told.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheWeirdOne View Post
    I sent him one picture last night of me at the last opera I went to.
    No. Don't do this. Don't give him free shit when he has given you nothing.
    This is setting the impression that you are desperate enough that you will do things in vague hope that you 'might' get something out of it. Even if he WERE a sugar daddy, the most you've gotten is a vague promise that he might give you some old, used purses from his ex wife that he just wants to get rid of... There is no reason for you to be sending him pictures or texting him more than is necessary for you to meet up with the agreement and understanding in place that he's spending money on you.
    Quote Originally Posted by camille27 View Post
    i am losing my fucking mind and i really just want this chloroform dream because i think that would just get me right with jesus.

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    Default Re: I think I met a SD!!! Hes mega old. I only ever had one SD from club, help!!

    No no no no no! Has money = has money. Anything else is pure bullshit. There are no diamonds in the rough unless you are a frickin expert jeweler.

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