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    Default How do you politely end an email conversation when the client doesn't want to?

    I have read reviews on some ladies that like to have full length conversations leading up to the date. To be honest, that is not my thing. I am not gfe obviously and my reviews make it very clear I'm not nor have I ever said I was gfe. I have certain new and returning clients that continue to turn my polite "looking forward to seeing you and hope your day is going great." end of the conversation email into more than it is. They ask how my day is going, telling me about their day, sending pictures, and lots more questions about my interests. Then I follow their email with a short concluding response again and they continue to do the same thing. I feel bad ignoring these guys constant emails, which is what I usually do, but I'm not sure what to say or do to stop this in a polite way. It is obvious to other guys that the email conversation is done for now so I know they get the hint. What do you do when this happens to you?
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    Default Re: How do you politely end an email conversation when the client doesn't want to?

    Quote Originally Posted by indiegirl View Post
    I have read reviews on some ladies that like to have full length conversations leading up to the date. To be honest, that is not my thing. I am not gfe obviously and my reviews make it very clear I'm not nor have I ever said I was gfe. I have certain new and returning clients that continue to turn my polite "looking forward to seeing you and hope your day is going great." end of the conversation email into more than it is. They ask how my day is going, telling me about their day, sending pictures, and lots more questions about my interests. Then I follow their email with a short concluding response again and they continue to do the same thing. I feel bad ignoring these guys constant emails, which is what I usually do, but I'm not sure what to say or do to stop this in a polite way. It is obvious to other guys that the email conversation is done for now so I know they get the hint. What do you do when this happens to you?
    Silence is golden. Your time is valuable. If polite closing statements don't close it out then they leave you no great options; I think no reply is the best. If a repeat customer, then you may ask if they are ready to reschedule. If thats your typical response they may hesitate engaging unless they are ready to schedule. You can be direct, but thats just more engagement they may feed off to turn it into an argument. Good luck.

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    "It has been nice talking to you. I have to go to work now."

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    hahaha thank you all for the suggestions!

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    Being GFE has nothing to do with setting up the appointment and everything to do with how you are when they are paying for your time in person. So, it doesn't matter one bit.

    So if you want to be with me
    With these things there’s no telling
    We just have to wait and see
    But I’d rather be working for a paycheck
    Than waiting to win the lottery
    Besides maybe this time is different
    I mean I really think you like me

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    Default Re: How do you politely end an email conversation when the client doesn't want to?

    Quote Originally Posted by dixievista View Post
    Being GFE has nothing to do with setting up the appointment and everything to do with how you are when they are paying for your time in person. So, it doesn't matter one bit.
    Great point. I'm sure GFE means different things to different clients, but what's important is how does GFE fit with timed appointments. Appointments don't stop being timed and GFE is not SG where time is being paid upfront in a more significant fashion. All comes back to the escort needing to set boundaries or have their time taken advantage of by people who may be looking for something for nothing or simply have a distorted view of GFE.

    For me, GFE simply means more conversational polish. Some good listening skills, maybe an interesting non-personal story, clean towel available for a shower, and just a little friendliness. I know some clients can take friendliness wrong, but to me a 'serving size' friend, to steal a phrase from Palahniuk, is essential to the GFE. But nothing outside the time paid, that is simply professional scheduling.

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