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    Hi All,

    So my question concerns the appropriate(ness) of tipping strippers as they dance (I believe it's called being by the "tip rack" but I could be wrong. Now, I've only sat by it a few times, and I've seen...interesting behavior on the part of customers and dancers alike. Notably, I have been trying to ascertain where the limits of appropriateness are when it comes to where you actually put the dancer's tip. I have seen guys basically fully pull down the bottom part of a strippers g string (between hole A and hole B, if you will) pull that part of it down an inch or so before the stripper basically says "hey that's too much/too far, let go" and then they put the tip in.

    Obviously that's too much and (given that dancer's reaction) it's clearly beyond what is appropriate. However, I did see some fellows pull out/tip in the part of the g string that runs between the...uhm...cheeks, The girls (this happened to several consecutively) seemed not to react in any way negatively to this (in fact they smiled and thanked customers for the tips as if it were normal). So my question to you ladies is: is this acceptable, or did I witness a fluke? Seems sort of hard to believe that that's ok but I mean what do I know.
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    Oh jesus.......................
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    Close contact, for an hour, for $40? And I guess I'll have to make conversation with them too?

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    Julia: I mean I'm not particularly proud to be here asking this question lol, but I'm just trying to understand how this works because I find it really hard to believe that that's ok even though I saw very compelling, recurring evidence that it is. Like I said in my initial edit (I shortened the post considerably to make it more readable/clear) I would never in a million years do that if it were not acceptable. Based on your answer, I'm assuming that it is indeed not ok.

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    Default Re: Appropriateness of Tipping in G-String

    Um no.

    I personally don't want it on my skin much less my delicate private area skin. tips should be accepted on the side, in a garter, tossed on a stage, or in dancers hand. Not the front or the back because creepy dudes will use a dollar as an extension of their hand as a way to slick touch pussy / asshole. Plus how clean is a paper bill that has exchanged multiple dirty hands / surfaces going to be???
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    Default Re: Appropriateness of Tipping in G-String

    Quote Originally Posted by SweetJulia View Post
    Oh jesus.......................


    Ok, but to be serious for a minute...

    Question Asker, in most clubs I frequent, it would most definitely not be ok to pull the g-string away from a girl's vagina or out of her ass crack to tip her. Now I too have seen this in a few raunchier clubs, but IME it's not the norm and when it happens the girls are often the ones initiating or inviting it. You may be asking for a whole world of problems by just grabbing some unsuspecting girl's g-string and shoving a buck in.

    I'll get out of the way now in the off chance that any of these ladies take this question seriously, lol.

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    I'm not a dancer, so I can't really comment here. But, all of the dancers that I've known, done pictures for, atf's, whatever would have put a stiletto heels thru your head if you dare touch between hole a and b. In fact, what I find most dancers appreciate if you hold out the tip in your hands and let them decide how they want to receive it.

    Some will pull out the hip area of the panties and you can slip it in there. Some will take it in their hand or will do other things with it but its always up to the dancer. Or, you throw it on the stage and go.

    Orr

    Fold it up on the tip rail and let that be that

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    Even if you see this happening, you probably do not want to do it. I worked at a couple clubs where the other girls allowed this, and let the guy cop a feel with his one fucking dollar, and it frustrated me to tears and led to my most epic burn out ever. Only unfortunate looking girls need to resort to this. I was wholly impressed with the handful customers at clubs where this obscene behavior occurs who did NOT do it. Any worthwhile girl isn't going to be ok with this.
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    Seems unsanitary, OP would you put dirty money in those areas of yourself?

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    Ok, to expand on my original answer of oh jesus-no, it's not appropriate and some girls will do anything, which makes it harder for clean girls to make money. OP, next time you see it, it'd be great if you could punch the desperate creep doing it in the face to keep the victim from breaking a nail doing so
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    Close contact, for an hour, for $40? And I guess I'll have to make conversation with them too?

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    Default Re: Appropriateness of Tipping in G-String

    Who thinks of this stuff???

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    People with too much spare time.

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    I like to go into the bathroom and wipe my ass with the dollar bill and then tip the dancer

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    Quote Originally Posted by SweetJulia View Post
    Ok, to expand on my original answer of oh jesus-no, it's not appropriate and some girls will do anything, which makes it harder for clean girls to make money. OP, next time you see it, it'd be great if you could punch the desperate creep doing it in the face to keep the victim from breaking a nail doing so
    quit frontin you know you're blowing guys in the VIP for 20 bucks

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    Quote Originally Posted by blyzzard View Post
    Who thinks of this stuff???
    fat strippers that are past their prime

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    Quote Originally Posted by DippyDo View Post
    quit frontin you know you're blowing guys in the VIP for 20 bucks
    Wow banned with just four posts-you've put the white "night" to shame. And if you actually explored the site, you'd know I quit stripping cuz of grabby customers and extra permissive girls.
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    Quote Originally Posted by SweetJulia View Post
    Wow banned with just four posts-you've put the white "night" to shame. And if you actually explored the site, you'd know I quit stripping cuz of grabby customers and extra permissive girls.
    and you put strippers to shame with your old fat ass that's the real reason why you're not dancing anymore because you can't make any money just like the rest of the dried up BITCHES that bitch and moan on this site

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    Looks like someone got board today. Not a fun troll at all.

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    How bad must a stripper have wronged him for him to waste time finding and posting such nonsense on a stripper message board? The butthurt knows no bounds.
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    I'll go ahead an ignore the small man insulting dancers from the safety of his computer. No one is impressed by your "courage."

    Anywho, Question Asker, I think it's really considerate that you're asking this question! The only appropriate place to tip a dancer, EVER IMO, is the side of the panties on her hip. Even then, I think it is better if you let her pull out the panties to invite your tip in, rather than grabbing. Plenty of men are more obnoxious than this, but I promise you are always going to get better treatment from dancers when you treat us well.

    My favorite way to be tipped is in my hand. It's respectful and you can focus on introducing yourself, telling her where you're sitting, etc. You're making eye contact rather than both staring down at a dollar. Customers that hand me tips are always the first I visit after stage rotation.

    Hope this helps, have fun patron!

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    It's funny how DippyDoo's posts bring up a common and obvious strip club issue - men who frequent strip clubs are sometimes the worst misogynists. They come in to feel powerful and be mean to pretty girls that don't give them the time of day in the real world. Such a shame!

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    OP to answer your question, no its not okay. Its always best to be a gentleman when tipping the girls. I prefer customers just hand me the tip instead of inserting it in my g string. The only time its okay to do that is if the dancer sticks out the side of her g string and tells the customer to put the dollar in there. Even then you never, ever go near the front or back! Unless you want to get smacked lol. I'm really glad that DippyDo2 troll got banned! What a jackass he was.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DippyDo2 View Post
    and you put strippers to shame with your old fat ass that's the real reason why you're not dancing anymore because you can't make any money just like the rest of the dried up BITCHES that bitch and moan on this site
    How pathetic he even created a second account to post .

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    Quote Originally Posted by xStacey View Post
    How pathetic he even created a second account to post .

    This guy has made 4 accounts so far, really hurt.

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    Thanks to all of you (less one DippyDoo) who responded. I definitely got my question answered and there certainly seems to be a strong consensus on the matter. So thanks for the "tip" lol; I will definitely not be engaging in that behavior next time I go to a club and am glad I asked you all rather than assuming it was ok given what I saw.

    I hope that none of you girls who are still active dancers are treated in this or any other unwelcome way.

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