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    Default Big vs. Little Spender Hustle

    So I did some searches and I found stuff that was related, but not exactly what I was looking for. If I missed it, sorry for clogging up the forums with a repeat question!

    At this point in my stripping career, I'm not bad at what I'm going to call 'little-spender hustling'. I can get guys to buy three songs in the VIP room, maybe a half-hour block. I always get lots of single dances. However, I cannot for the life of me get big money--no champagne room, no hour blocks, nothing. I have no idea what the inside of the champagne room even looks like, which is really depressing.

    I see other girls pull this stuff at my club, usually from guys I've had no luck hustling, and I'm beginning to wonder if one hustles differently for guys with lots of money than for guys with a little pocket money. Because I'm emptying wallets, but they are always small wallets. The big wallets aren't usually fans of me.

    I know some of these big wallets are regulars of other girls, but I was wondering: do any of the ladies on here use different tactics with whales than they do with regular customers?

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    Default Re: Big vs. Little Spender Hustle

    I can't say I have a different tactic with a big spender than a little spender beyond simply spending more time with someone I know or anticipate to be a big spender.

    I will say that it took me a little while before I started getting the big customers though. Like you, I was good at selling a handful of dances and maybe the odd block of $200 here and there, but it certainly wasn't a common occurrence.

    I think it's partly a subconscious change at a certain point in your dancing career, after you've plateaued beyond newbie money but before you've started cultivating really good regulars. Something about the way you carry yourself and interact with customers just gets more confident and natural, and you start being able to develop stronger rapport -- but, more importantly perhaps, you also get better at reading customers and determining what sort of experience they're looking for and then tailoring your hustle to that, rather than just making idle chit chat and then trying to close the sale.

    This thread is gold for consciously doing that: https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...e-in-the-clubs

    Beyond that, check out the stickied Best of Hustle Hut thread -- I've found a lot of the links in there to be hugely valuable.

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    Default Re: Big vs. Little Spender Hustle

    My tactic is very basic but it works: always try to push for the most expensive room first. I assume that any guy could be my big spender so I push CR on everybody. When they bring up the cheaper dances I just tell him that we could, but it wouldn't be as fun/private/etc as a room.

    If they still want a cheap dance, I may do it if I like them and I feel they will tip and not try to cause problems. Sometimes I say no and this often works in my favor as he will be intrigued that I turned down his money and want a dance even more, thus springing for a room. This phenomenon I chalk up to the male love of the chase and wanting what they can't have.

    Now of course nothing works every time with every guy but if you do this I can promise you'll start selling those rooms.
    "These lumps- I know you wanna slump up on these lumps! But you can't cause you're a chump- a chuuuump."
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    Default Re: Big vs. Little Spender Hustle

    Old thread but I am having this problem now I will def upsale every dance from now on ! Sometimes I usually don’t like selling rooms because I can get more doing dances in the private room but I will incorporate private rooms and taking them to the CR

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    Default Re: Big vs. Little Spender Hustle

    A rich guy I met when I was a newbie dancer told me this- you "get into his head." VIP guys either go to VIP with their perfect physical ideal woman, or they go after being enticed/entranced.

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