I am catching hell from some coworkers, even a bouncer about this.
Last night a guy in his late 30's was highly intoxicated sitting at the bar. When I came around for tips, about my 4th set I asked him why he didn't go home yet. He was now drinking water because they stopped serving him. He said he wanted a lap dance with me. Ok. I was hesitant because he was mexican, and where I live they are notoriously gropy.
So after the 1st dance he wanted another. He proceeded to take out a pocket full of crumpled ones. He had all the 20's in his wallet but a dance is $25. He asked me to take out 5 ones and go pay for the next dance. ok. I pull out the ones and he crumples them back up and puts them in his pocket.
I come back in and he asks about a champagne dance upstairs. I told him he was too intoxicated, it wasn't a good idea and he wasn't going to get his $200 worth because I don't do extras. SO he says he wants another dance. He pulls out the crumpled ones out again and a fresh 20 from the wallet. I squatted down to help him get the ones out of his crumpled pile he was dropping everywhere. I saw 3 crumpled up 20's in that pile. I easily could have taken them and said they were ones. But instead I uncrumpled them and told him to put them in his wallet because they were 20 dollar bills, not ones. I ten got out my phone for a flashlight so he could see. He said oh, ok thanks, but then put them back in his pocket all waded up. I went out and paid for the 3rd dance. He was a bit grabby during all of the dances but I just moved his hands to my thighs and he was ok with it. He also kept licking my back and shoulder (YUK). On the 4th dance we went through the crumpled ones thing again and I went out and told the dj to call the guy a cab and do not let him go upstairs with anyone for a dance and explained that he was too intoxicated to handle his money. He opened his wallet when I had out my phone flashlight and he had about 400 in twenties in there and when he bent forward they almost all fell out. I refuse to let some money grubbing bitch take advantage of a highly intoxicated man.
The manager on duty and the DJ told me I was awesome. The bouncer and 3 dancers standing around that area told me I was stupid and should have taken the crumbled 20's and all of his money upstairs.
I may be a "stripper" but I have morals. I have children and a husband and a family. If that was my brother or my grown child in there that had too much to drink, I would hope no one would take advantage of him like that. I know we all need money, but damn. I am disgusted by my coworkers. They are calling me stupid and saying things like "god meant for you to have that money". I actually called off work tonight because I am so disgusted with the human race.
Would any of you have taken the 20's or taken him to VIP?



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