Title sums it up.
Ive had a kid and am self concious about my tits. They are attached to a pretty nice body and a pretty face. What are your unfiltered male opinions?
Title sums it up.
Ive had a kid and am self concious about my tits. They are attached to a pretty nice body and a pretty face. What are your unfiltered male opinions?





Nobody needs a boob job. My tits looked like yours beforehand. I got a boob job because I WANTED it. It's not a decision to be entered into lightly. You have to factor in recovery time into your expenses.
"Fake tits are like Kevlar. They don't guarantee your chances of survival but they sure as hell improve it."
Tempest
I appreciate your input madam but I want to know what men really think about these kinds of tits. I have a theory that as long as the woman attached is hot, they think these tittys are hot too. What do you think men?
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I appreciate your input madam but I want to know what men really think about these kinds of tits. I have a theory that as long as the woman attached is hot, they think these tittys are hot too. What do you think men?
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Unfiltered opinion, you would make more money if you had a boob job. Not because they look bad, but because they cause you to be self conscious and that hurts business. But remember that there's lots of guys that love those types of boobs.

Man, I hate answering this kind of question. But you asked for an unfiltered and honest opinion, and I'm drunk, so I'll give it to you.
The shape of your boobs is not my favorite.
That doesn't mean that, if you have a pretty face and a nice body, I wouldn't buy dances from you in a club. It doesn't mean that if you had something interesting to say, I wouldn't be fascinated by you. It doesn't mean that if you tapped into my kinks, I wouldn't feel like you were the sexiest woman in the world. A girl with boobs like yours could still rock my world, either in or out of a club setting.
But the shape of your boobs is not my favorite.
That's unfiltered. It's what you asked for. I apologize if it's rude.





I'm trying to come up with an opinion, but here is my thought stream unfiltered:
They look good, but the rest of you matters.
You clearly don't like them enough to have the confidence you need.
If this is some kind of wierd roundabout "engagement" hustle, it worked :-)
"How do we get her to post more pics"
And there you have it - the male mind - I hope that helps.
Nothing wrong with your tits. But then I'm really not a fan of implants at all.
Implants would make it less likely for me to buy a dance from you (or almost anyone).



I can't imagine that you would need a boob job. Do you want a boob job? That is a fair question. Feedback is interesting because it can confirm your own feelings/thoughts or give you a different perspective. I would ask you: "do you you want a boob job?" Maybe ask yourself what it behind this question. Why are you self-conscious about your tits? Did your boobs used to look different? Do you see women with enhanced boobs that you would like to have? If you feel self-conscious and it is important, I would support your decision.
thanks guys![]()





I know you want men's perspective. But I'm weighing in since I'm sexually attracted to women. YOU CAN'T STOP ME! (lol)
Yes they look a little droopy, but they still look great! Still have a nice perk. Great for spinning tassels that's for sure! If you feel like getting a lift or implants will boost your self confidence, by all means do it. Don't worry what dudes think. Worry about how you feel. Will it give you the confidence to dance?
As someone with small tits in a sea of implants on the internet, I struggle with this. I can make more if I had implants. I'd feel better about myself if I had a bigger bra size. My tits make me look boyish. But here is the deal, Tits doesn't make a woman sexy. Confidence does.
Do what YOU have to do to feel better about yourself.
Deleted the pic but thanks for the opinions. Pretty much confirms what I thought. Yes I wish they looked like they did when I was 16, but I got an amazing kid in exchange, and what they are attached to is what matters.





I think your boobs look good as they are. Now I can't weigh in on whether you would make more money with implants. Some girls are adamant that their money went up once they got them, though I always wonder if that was simply because of the bigger boobs themselves or due to the increased confidence of the girls who had them done. All I can do is speak for myself and, honestly, I have a very strong aversion to implants and generally don't spend money on girls who have them. I don't know why, but they are just a big turnoff for me. But again, I am just one guy.



Speaking just for myself, I'll take a great body and large natural breasts over confidence anyday. Of course if you don't have the confidence to dance at all then that's a problem. I think that what women find sexy is different than what men look for, in general. Both men and women make the mistake in thinking that what they find attractive is also attractive in the opposite sex. I think it's fair to say that women "in general" are attracted to confident men. Us men are much more visually stimulated. If it wasn't this way there would be more strip clubs where men dance for women.
From a pure business perspective, I've done a lot of research into boob jobs and ROI. If you are looking to only gain more income then by all means get a boob job, you would look at it purely as an investment and your income will increase greatly. A good surgeon can give you implants that look so natural even the most picky of men can't tell they are fake. If you are looking into a boob job for a confidence boost, you will get that as well, but remember it is fleeting and temporary.
If you are only looking to make your boobs a little more enhanced there are herbs and massage techniques that can vastly help in the area of boob sag.
Google the following:
Japanese girl who grew her breasts from 34B to 34FF naturally with herbs and massage: Chiyomilk
Herbs: Pueraria mirifica, Saw Palmetto, Black Cohosh, Fenugreek, Shatavari, Vitex etc. there are many others
Forum all about breast enhancement: Breast Nexus





You've got enough skin that you could put an implant in and most would not be able to detect it.
"Fake tits are like Kevlar. They don't guarantee your chances of survival but they sure as hell improve it."
Tempest
i have been doing some research into lifts. theres a doc in Houston who does whats called an "ultimate breast lift" and his pics are amazing. i want another kid tho, and breastfeeding was such a great experience it was wort loosing my amasing boobs for it (they really were amazing). its not something id do for dancing as im about to graduate and start my new career in nursing. i guess i was just feeling self doubt and wanted some anonymous internet validation (shame on me)
I really do appreciate all the thoughtful responses.
i never post, but to my mind there is not a group of smarter, more supportive women anywhere on the internet. (and guys I appreciate the honesty, i was expecting alot harsher and i dont think anything you guys said was rude)
i have been doing some research into lifts. theres a doc in Houston who does whats called an "ultimate breast lift" and his pics are amazing. i want another kid tho, and breastfeeding was such a great experience it was worth loosing my amasing boobs for it (they really were amazing). its not something id do for dancing as im about to graduate and start my new career in nursing. i guess i was just feeling self doubt and wanted some anonymous internet validation (shame on me)
I really do appreciate all the thoughtful responses.
i never post, but to my mind there is not a group of smarter, more supportive women anywhere on the internet. (and guys I appreciate the honesty, i was expecting alot harsher and i dont think anything you guys said was rude)




Guys prefer bigger tits. Coming from someone who was a 36 b/c to a 36F!!!!!!
I can see that you like to gender stereotype but that's a very shallow conclusion to draw, I think if you want to understand why the majority of strip clubs have female dancers and mainly heterosexual male customers you have to dig a bit deeper than that but nice try. That's a topic for a different thread though, not going to hijack this one.





Being self consciuous and having low self esteem are much bigger money killers than any body flaw; that's very true. When I resumed dancing after my son in 2013, my boobs looked quite good (since I was nursing, they looked great all the way through late May 2013) but since I was battling postpartum depression (and my military related PTSD was starting to kick in as well) the much bigger boobs didn't translate to more money because I was not feeling confident in myself. Since I'm now on a cocktail of medication I'd probably do better (despite my boobs are smaller 'cause I had lost some weight) because my confidence is where it needs to be to dance.



I have no idea what you look like so I have no idea, but given it seems to be a business decision, I'd suggest taking with a professional plastic surgeon who has done work on fellow strippers that you like and ask for a consultation.




You don't need a boob job. You need water, air, and food. If you're self-conscious about them and really want them done, look for good surgeons in your area and schedule a consult. It should be a personal choice for you. So in short, you don't NEED them, but a good surgeon could give you awesome boobs that you'll love.
"Rather have my feet hurting than my pockets."





Guys notice big tits more but they don't necessarily prefer them. One of the top earners at my club is a little Russian spinner who is a charter member of the IBTC.
She's got a cute face, a tight toned body and a killer hustle.
"Fake tits are like Kevlar. They don't guarantee your chances of survival but they sure as hell improve it."
Tempest
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