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    So, I've been meeting with a wonderful Daddy type who is crazy about me. He's not a sugar daddy in those terms, but I have a good feeling that I can convert him if I play my cards right.

    Any advice?

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    Default Re: Converting Wealthy Men into Sugar Daddies...

    Honesty is the best policy. Dont imply he's going to get it, if you have NO intention of doing it with him.
    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

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    Default Re: Converting Wealthy Men into Sugar Daddies...

    Be honest and give him what he wants as long as he gives you what you want. Try not to say sugar daddy...call it a mutually beneficial relationship. He's gonna want sex most likely. Just tell him you feel like you guys could both benefit each other in different ways, he'll know what you mean. You could say something like I feel like you could be a great mentor to me and offer me the support I need. I could definitely support your needs and be a lot of fun for you! Be tactful and make it sound fun and exciting. But make it clear to him what you want from this relationship.

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    Default Re: Converting Wealthy Men into Sugar Daddies...

    Just stay away from industry terms. You aren't looking for money, you're looking for a little help with your bills this month. etc.


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    Default Re: Converting Wealthy Men into Sugar Daddies...

    Quote Originally Posted by miss1dancypants View Post
    I'd like more help with this as well. I've used terms like "help with bills" etc and they never get the hint. Obviously I'm not having sex with them unless they do. Maybe it's just the area I live in? (New Hampshire)

    Edit: I know they say that sugar babies are escorts in denial and I get that, I just personally can't see myself dealing with screening people constantly and getting to know what they like and adjusting myself accordingly and I'd rather just stick with the same 1-2 guys, even if in time they get bored with me then I find a replacement.
    If the guy isn't getting your hints, he probably isn't SD material. So you might be 'missing out' on a bunch of duds, which is a good thing. Men who are open to these sorts of relationships have usually thought about it before and learn quickly, IMO and IME.

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    Default Re: Converting Wealthy Men into Sugar Daddies...

    Yeah. Not sure if I can find that level of sugar daddy in my area to really give me the kind of money and gifts I would want to make it "mutually beneficial".

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    Quote Originally Posted by miss1dancypants View Post
    Yeah. Not sure if I can find that level of sugar daddy in my area to really give me the kind of money and gifts I would want to make it "mutually beneficial".
    Look for a guy who travels to your area but lives elsewhere. The best SD I ever had lived over an hour away from me but traveled to my town for work a few times a month. He saw me every time and made it worth my while. Plus, you dont want your SD to live too close to home, that would be awkward and risky, especially for him.

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    Default Re: Converting Wealthy Men into Sugar Daddies...

    Great suggestion! Thank you east coast dancer!

    How did you find him and set up the arrangement?

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    I met him at the club I worked at, he was a regular of mine. After I got to know him really well I suggested we meet up outside to hang out. He would take me out to eat and then take me shopping afterwards. We did this for a few months, and then when we became really close, I told him how sick of dancing I was and how unstable the money is and that I was struggling. He asked me how much money I needed to cover all my basics so that I wouldn't have to struggle. I told him the amount of all my monthly expenses and he agreed to give me that amount every month in addition to gifts, travel and eating out. So whatever I made at work was just extra spending money. We did this for 2 years and then he moved far away with his family so we couldn't see each other anymore. But I still email him and he told me if I ever needed anything I could always ask him.

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    Default Re: Converting Wealthy Men into Sugar Daddies...

    I was the same way as you before I met him, I was working in a shitty little town with cheap scumbags who were not SD material. Trust me, it takes a while to find a good one and you have to be really patient and put in the effort. You have to be in the right place at the right time and have the right look. Just focus on being the best you can be and putting value into yourself. When you are at your best, you attract the right people. It is just a matter of being in the right place now for you, I would highly recommend traveling to different areas to work.

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