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    I realize the most obvious answer is, "spends a lot of money," but what other characteristics of a client makes you want to go the "extra mile" for them to have an enjoyable experience. I enjoy watching dancers and I respect how difficult their job is. I want to be the guy who, when he walks into the club, the dancers all say, "Alright! HE'S here." How do I do that? One of the things I try to do is talk to the dancers a bit first, maybe buy them a drink before I get a dance. I do that to be respectful, but at times I wonder if they might be annoyed and want to "get on with things." Which makes sense. Also, I am the type of guy (and if you hear this all the time I apologize) who enjoys the fantasy of having a beautiful woman flirting with me. Truth be told, I would be willing to pay more for that than a dance or even a VIP experience. I try to convey that idea by buying her drinks and then giving her money every so often (more than enough to compensate her for a dance and sometimes even a VIP experience) while we are sitting together.

    And for whatever it's worth, sometimes I go to the clubs by myself, order a drink and sit in the back. I look around and try not to make eye contact with any of the dancers. I usually have to wait a little bit but the dancer who seeks me out is generously rewarded for her efforts. The last girl who did that made $1200 in about an hour.

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    Well sounds like you're on the right track.

    Not just spending money but also knowing how to relax and have a good time, avoiding personal data type question (like where do your kids go to school, what year were you born, what's your REAL name, etc), good hygiene, behaving respectfully vs creepy horny octopus handsy, and leaving the club fantasy at the club (don't ask to meet up or date especially on dancers you just met)
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    Thank you for your response. Also, (and I realize every club and dancer is different) would it be considered inappropriate for a dancer to sit on someone's lap? No grinding or anything...just sitting on their lap as a girlfriend might do. And if it would be acceptable, what would be a respectful way to ask? (As you can tell, respect - especially for women - is very important to me)

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    1. Spends money
    2. Isn't an asshole
    3. Has showered recently

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    Thank you for your response. Also, (and I realize every club and dancer is different) would it be considered inappropriate for a dancer to sit on someone's lap? No grinding or anything...just sitting on their lap as a girlfriend might do. And if it would be acceptable, what would be a respectful way to ask? Also, the only time I have ever asked a personal question of a dancer was when I saw that she had a ring on her ring finger and O wouldn't have felt comfortable getting a dance from a married/engaged woman, so yes, I did ask if she was married.(As you can tell, respect - especially for women - is very important to me)

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    ^^Man, it didn't take long for this to go from...

    How can I be an ideal customer?

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    How can I ask a girl to sit on my lap?

    C''mon now OP, you need to spend a bit more time on the foreplay and let the ladies warm up to the thought that you are a decent customer before diving in for what you're actually seeking.

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    Sitting in laps probably varies by club culture.

    I personally don't do this too often cause too many dudes use it as an opportunity to get free or cheap feels. But sometimes I have (sat on leg not the crotch) if they ask nicely, tip well, and don't get too handsy.
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    I can understand that.

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    Here's my list: *Respectful*Easygoing/Easy to please*Consistent*Reliable*Quick/doesnt take up too much time (lol)*Stable/not needy*and HYGIENIC! haha. and of course, this is all in addition to being generous and spending lots of money on me...that is an absolute must for me! a very basic requirement, I dont work with cheap men

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    I wasn't a huge fan of sitting on laps when I was dancing either. I also worked in a no/low one-way contact club culture for the last few years, so groping was particularly offensive outside of a VIP room environment. (Which was still a pretty strict environment - no straddling, both feet on the floor at all times, three key areas off-limits, etc) cuddling would have been more of a VIP tho or to VERY trusted regulars.

    That club has recently switched to strict no contact on the floor or in a private room due to a new city forming and the new SOB ordinance. :/. (Which also happens to be why I retired - too much of a risk of a prostitution citation for bracing my hands on someone's shoulders so I don't fall.)

    As the 'companionship' aspect of work was where I made my money, you'd have been right up my alley. D:

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    Quote Originally Posted by Fionaver View Post
    ...too much of a risk of a prostitution citation for bracing my hands on someone's shoulders so I don't fall.)
    Wow! I honestly had no idea such a stiff penalty could result from something as simple as sitting on someone's lap. If I had known that I would never have asked (although dancers have done it before of their own accord but that was in Las Vegas). I've only asked once but I will be sure not to ask again. Thank you.

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    Also, in regards to respect. The other night I got a call from a friend asking me if I would take him to a *insert vulgarism here*. (Poor kid, he's only very recently turned 21 and has no refinement which is why I have taken him under my wing). I said no, but if he would like to accompany me to aGentleman's Club I would be more than happy to take him. I explained to him it was called a gentleman's club because it is a place for gentlemen. A gentlan is polite and respectful, has g9d hygiene, tips generously and above all, dresses for every occasion. This is a performance. An extremely difficult one these women have worked tirelessly to perfect. That means nothing less than a suit and tie.

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    i hate customers who insist on "getting to know me" before getting a dance and will almost always walk away.

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    Quote Originally Posted by charlotte. View Post
    i hate customers who insist on "getting to know me" before getting a dance and will almost always walk away.
    Even if they are paying for your time to get to know you? As I said, the last dancer who sought me out in the back of the club an engaged me in charming companionship made about $1200 (plus all the drinks she wanted) in one hour just sitting there talking to me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by dokturok View Post
    Even if they are paying for your time to get to know you? As I said, the last dancer who sought me out in the back of the club an engaged me in charming companionship made about $1200 (plus all the drinks she wanted) in one hour just sitting there talking to me.
    oh thats completely different. tipping for time is great

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    Hmm. Most of us really love to be tipped for conversation. I know I do! It's usually more lucrative for us than dances because most clubs base their fees/cuts/tip-outs on dances sold. If you come into the club wearing comfortable pants (comfortable for us -- no rough jeans! But if you wear slacks or trousers please just make sure they're relatively boner-proof) and are upfront about being willing to pay for what you want, you will quickly make friends. Nothing makes me happier than when I approach a customer and he gets right to the point, asking, "How much for you to chat with me for 20 minutes?"

    I mean, from your posts it sounds like you know the drill. You already understand that our time is money, which is the most important thing.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kaninchen View Post
    Nothing makes me happier than when I approach a customer and he gets right to the point, asking, "How much for you to chat with me for 20 minutes?"
    In that case, I like to calculate about how much she would make doing VIPs (private sessions) for that particular period of time and add about 20 - 30%. I put that on the table and say, "How would you like to join me for a drink?" The $20 bills start coming out depending on how charming, flirty, funny, etc., she is. I don't know how this is going to sound, but when she is talking to me, I don't want her thinking, "Well, I could be making more money doing something else."

    Also, for whatever it is worth, my ideal dancer is one who can make me forget I am paying for her time. It's difficult to do, but they are rewarded with my loyalty as well as my money. I hate when dancers don't even try, "Dwanna dance?" Come on. The best approach I've ever gotten was my first time at a club. She walked up to me, gave me that enthusiastic "Hi" we all use when we're happy to see someone we know, and gave me a hug. I didn't know what the hell to think. She whispered, very seductively, "There's a guy here and he's so lame. He's looking for me. I need to get you back in that little room and away from him. Would you do that for me? Please?" SOLD! Do I know now that it was a hustle? Absolutely. When I was a few hours older than 21 years old? No. All I knew was there was a beautiful woman who needed me to save her...which I did gladly.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kaninchen View Post
    Nothing makes me happier than when I approach a customer and he gets right to the point, asking, "How much for you to chat with me for 20 minutes?"
    In that case, I like to calculate about how much she would make doing VIPs (private sessions) for that particular period of time and add about 20 - 30%. I put that on the table and say, "How would you like to join me for a drink?" The $20 bills start coming out depending on how charming, flirty, funny, etc., she is. I don't know how this is going to sound, but when she is talking to me, I don't want her thinking, "Well, I could be making more money doing something else."

    Also, for whatever it is worth, my ideal dancer is one who can make me forget I am paying for her time. It's difficult to do, but they are rewarded with my loyalty as well as my money. I hate when dancers don't even try, "Dwanna dance?" Come on. The best approach I've ever gotten was my first time at a club. She walked up to me, gave me that enthusiastic "Hi" we all use when we're happy to see someone we know, and gave me a hug. I didn't know what the hell to think. She whispered, very seductively, "There's a guy here and he's so lame. He's looking for me. I need to get you back in that little room and away from him. Would you do that for me? Please?" SOLD! Do I know now that it was a hustle? Absolutely. When I was a few hours older than 21 years old? No. All I knew was there was a beautiful woman who needed me to save her...which I did gladly.

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    Deposit 5k in my bank account.
    Never speak to me again.
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    Quote Originally Posted by tempest666 View Post
    Deposit 5k in my bank account.
    Never speak to me again.
    How about 10k? LOL!

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    Quote Originally Posted by tempest666 View Post
    Deposit 5k in my bank account.
    Never speak to me again.
    How about 10k? LOL!

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    Quote Originally Posted by dokturok View Post
    How about 10k? LOL!
    Yeah, deposit a few tens of Ks in my account and don't even dare to remember my stage name.





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