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    Default Do you take astrological compatibility into consideration when dating?

    I know this sounds kinda crazy but I'm tempted to not date men of certain signs just bc of experience and things I've read. I'm a leo. I dated a virgo for 3 years it was nice at first but I just couldn't put up with the lack of communication and judgement. Before that I dated a cancer for 3 yrs he was insecure, moody, and sensitive. He ended up cheating on me. I am great friends with geminis I adore them but every gemini I know has cheated and flirts a lot.

    I know all geminis aren't cheaters. But I'm seriously considering never dating certain signs or keeping an eye out for red flags related to the sign of whoever I'm dating. I feel a bit silly but I think astrology tells a lot about a person. I don't believe all of it but I think about 90% of the characteristics are true.

    Have you ever considered something like this?

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    Default Re: Do you take astrological compatibility into consideration when dating?

    I am also a Leo and super into astrology. As crazy and dumb as it may sound, I do take into consideration the zodiac sign of any potential guy I date. Astrology is a science, and one of the oldest sciences around. Every person fits their sign to some extent, and not just their sun sign. You have to look at their entire birth chart with all of their planetary positions to get an idea of their entire personality. So even if someone does not act like their sun sign, they may act like their moon sign, mercury sign, rising sign, etc. Every person I have known has expressed the energy of at least one of their signs. For this reason, I whole heartedly believe in astrology and use it to get an idea of someones personality. You have to consider other things though because a person's birth chart is just a general framework of who they are. How they express who they are also depends on their upbringing, culture, experiences, and whether or not they are evolved human beings. Every sign has good and bad and if a person was raised right and is a good person, they will express the good side of their zodiac sign.

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    Default Re: Do you take astrological compatibility into consideration when dating?

    I am into astrology...I know mostly Leos, even married one...Every leo ive ever known tells me they get along best with Saggitarians and Aries, both in romance and in general.

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    Yes I do! I always secretly check the sign of any potential love interest and sometimes friends. Knowing this I think, helps me to understand people better. Like you said OP, it's not all true all the time but for the most part, people fit their signs pretty damn well.

    Not trying to threadjack but I'm curious- has anyone here put their knowledge of astrology to use in the club?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Glamourmilf View Post
    I am into astrology...I know mostly Leos, even married one...Every leo ive ever known tells me they get along best with Saggitarians and Aries, both in romance and in general.
    Yep, Aries and Sagittarius are also fire signs which is why we Leos get along so well with them. We also get along with the air signs Gemini, Aquarius and Libra. But in general, every sign gets along best with the other signs that belong to their element. It is called a trine.

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    Quote Originally Posted by KikiGem View Post
    Yes I do! I always secretly check the sign of any potential love interest and sometimes friends. Knowing this I think, helps me to understand people better. Like you said OP, it's not all true all the time but for the most part, people fit their signs pretty damn well.

    Not trying to threadjack but I'm curious- has anyone here put their knowledge of astrology to use in the club?
    Yes I have! and my customers are fascinated by it, they are always asking me questions about it lol.

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    yes yes yes I love Sagittarius I never dated a sag or an aries but my closest friends and favorite fam members are from those signs. I'm a cam girl the other day and I had an aries customer suggest I try dating aries bc they are compatible with leos.

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    Default Re: Do you take astrological compatibility into consideration when dating?

    It's fun to read about but I don't take it too seriously...

    I am a Cancer, we don't get along well with Leos and I've had horrible experiences with Leo guys, especially my first boyfriend. My last boyfriend is a Libra, he's really the indecisive guy who's into poems and art astrology websites describe them to be. The current guy I am seeing is a Cancer, he's gentle, sensitive, caring and empathetic. It's many strange coincidence...

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    I think astrology is fun but most of it is BS imo. Numerology compatibilty seems to be more accurate for me. Although I am a cancer and my husband is a scorpio and all the astrology freaks I meet always tell me how our match is one of the most passionate, romantic, perfect matches, and i laugh because theres no romance whatsoever more like brother and sister vs lovers.

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    Not consciously but I've noticed my ex fiance and current boyfriend are both Sags.
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    Yes. I run from Aries.

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    Default Re: Do you take astrological compatibility into consideration when dating?

    Where is the best place to learn about astrology easily? I've only ever looked it up briefly when I'm interested in someone or when things don't work out but I'd like to have more general knowledge to "screen" potential dates and know what to expect from them. I'm a Capricorn and I dated an Aquarius and we had great sexual connection but everything else was hell in a handbasket. Also I dated a Cancer and we were great friends but always fought as partners and I didn't enjoy sex with him. I recently fell in love with a Leo but idk what is going on with that. I think he had commitment issues with past girlfriends and doesn't want to hurt me.

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    Default Re: Do you take astrological compatibility into consideration when dating?

    ^ I bought books years ago. I can't remember the author. You can google and there are sites that tell you about each sign.

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    Quote Originally Posted by michele11 View Post
    Yes. I run from Aries.
    Ur a Water sign, so put that Fire out!


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    Default Re: Do you take astrological compatibility into consideration when dating?

    I take it very seriously. Im a crazy Aquarius. I will not befriend scorpio women. I also seem to attract leos and it never works out. I think the virgo works with me the most. Most men say Im really unromantic, cant blame me, Im an aquarius lol. Im glad im not the only one that takes this very seriously.

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    Default Re: Do you take astrological compatibility into consideration when dating?

    I consider the Chinese birth year to be more important. As a dragon, I was with a dog (ex hub) and it was a total disaster. I'm now with a tiger and is much better.





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    Quote Originally Posted by Jay12 View Post
    I consider the Chinese birth year to be more important. As a dragon, I was with a dog (ex hub) and it was a total disaster. I'm now with a tiger and is much better.
    YES it is pretty accurate, im a pig and the worst guy I ever dated was my enemy sign a snake. Now I will never date another one. 2013 (snake year) sucked ass for me too.

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    I've noticed, every male Gemini I knew were flirtatious and cheaters too. Except for my 1st BF who was super into me and more loyal than a pet.

    I'm a Gemini myself and I'm typical female Gemini. I won't date male Gemini signs again. They're fkn headaches. It's all about their ego, secretive (cheats), and most were selfish ppl. No thx! I'm not compatible with my own sign.

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    Default Re: Do you take astrological compatibility into consideration when dating?

    Not really. I think astrology is fun. I read my horoscope every day, and I do look into the sign of whoever I'm dating/interested in, but ultimately, I don't see a connection. My most compatible signs are supposed to be Pisces and Cancer. The only Pisces guy I know is a friend of mine who, while he used to be into me, we were NOWHERE NEAR compatible. We had the most opposite views on social interaction, energy levels, and especially sex. We would have never ever made it, if only because our sex life would have been a disaster. I sort of on-again-off-again dated a Cancer and we made great friends but fought allll the time. We make way better friends than a serious "couple."

    And on the other side of things, I'm a Scorpio which is supposed to be this "crazy sexual" and mysterious sign who hold infinite grudges and goes to great lengths to exact revenge. That's not me at all lol So any guy who thinks he's getting some super kinky girl with a deep, dark, macabre soul is going to be sorely disappointed!
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    Default Re: Do you take astrological compatibility into consideration when dating?

    Very casual interest.

    I have noticed that people I know tend to emulate attributes of their sign which in interesting. Most of the Leos I know are pretty outgoing/outspoken for example.

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    Quote Originally Posted by miss1dancypants View Post
    Where is the best place to learn about astrology easily? I've only ever looked it up briefly when I'm interested in someone or when things don't work out but I'd like to have more general knowledge to "screen" potential dates and know what to expect from them. I'm a Capricorn and I dated an Aquarius and we had great sexual connection but everything else was hell in a handbasket. Also I dated a Cancer and we were great friends but always fought as partners and I didn't enjoy sex with him. I recently fell in love with a Leo but idk what is going on with that. I think he had commitment issues with past girlfriends and doesn't want to hurt me.
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    Default Re: Do you take astrological compatibility into consideration when dating?

    I don't (not a believer personally) but my friend who does pointed out I only seem to date Capricorns long term. Most of my flings have been with them too. I have also been very promiscuous in my life so it's a pretty serious trend. And on top of that, I'm a Leo, so we're not even supposed to get along.

    Is there an astro explanation for a Leo whose sexual orientation is basically Capricorn?

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    I don't (not a believer personally) but my friend who does pointed out I only seem to date Capricorns long term. Most of my flings have been with them too. I have also been very promiscuous in my life so it's a pretty serious trend. And on top of that, I'm a Leo, so we're not even supposed to get along.

    Is there an astro explanation for a Leo whose sexual orientation is basically Capricorn? FWIW, my chart is super full of fire (mostly more Leo) with a teensy bit of air.

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    @lol I think you have to look in your chart at your mars and see if it's in Capricorn. I have a friend who loves astrology and does charts and I think that's what's supposed to explain sexual attraction. Or maybe you have something in your chart under Capricorn that attracts them to you. I'm almost sure it's supposed to have something to do with the moon or venus in Cap that draws them to you maybe if you show your chart to your friend who follows it can tell you better.

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