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    I not really sure on what section to put this in but I figured this one was more appropriate

    i stopped camming awhile back due to medical reasons
    I want to get back into it because I really enjoyed it.
    But i am now in a new relationship and he knows i use to cam but we never really had a discussion about it.
    how do you think I should bring up the subject of me wanting to cam again?
    i feel like he should know



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    Default Re: Relationships and camming

    If It were me, I would just kind of casually bring it up and say something like, "So I was thinking about starting to cam again..." and go from there.

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    Default Re: Relationships and camming

    I thought the only reason women went into camming was the money. If it really is a turn on for you, why don't you just cam for him? Do some role play and he can pretend to be a customer while you do your show. I bet it would be hot as hell. You could dress up for him, use your toys, talk dirty, etc. Do this a few nights a week and you both would have a lot of fun with it.

    On the other hand, if you miss the *money* from camming such that you cannot afford the lifestyle you want, that's something you will have to work out with yourself and be prepared to lose the relationship. Most men will not take it well when their girlfriend wants to go back into sex work.

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    You're right Rick, CLEARLY no man would want a woman who made her own money through sex work. HAHAHAHAHAHAHA, where did you come from and why are you here? I call troll.

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    Default Re: Relationships and camming

    Quote Originally Posted by Kitcatt View Post
    You're right Rick, CLEARLY no man would want a woman who made her own money through sex work. HAHAHAHAHAHAHA, where did you come from and why are you here? I call troll.
    where did you come from and why are you here?

    lol

    When I first read that I wasn't thinking in context to the site.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kitcatt View Post
    You're right Rick, CLEARLY no man would want a woman who made her own money through sex work. HAHAHAHAHAHAHA, where did you come from and why are you here? I call troll.
    My reply is sincere. The OP said she wanted to go back into cammnig because she "enjoyed" it. In my first paragraph, I offered a suggestion where she can get some of the camming excitement back and improve her relationship. It's a win-win solution if her new relationship is important to her.

    Next, without making any judgments, I kind of stated the obvious in that most men have a hard time with their girlfriend doing sex work. Sure, some men can separate the work from the relationship, but the odds are against that happening. My suggestion here is for the OP to approach any decision to cam with an understanding of the most likely outcome.

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    Quote Originally Posted by rickrocker00 View Post
    My reply is sincere. The OP said she wanted to go back into cammnig because she "enjoyed" it.
    You can enjoy camming without it being much of a turn on. For example, I really like camming, but it's in more of a "This is the Best Job Ever!" kind of way. That's not to say I'm never at all turned on, with certain awesome customers, but for the most part, it's a job. Just like I wouldn't want to roleplay stocking grocery store shelves with produce with my lovely lady, I don't have a heck of a lot of interest in roleplaying camming with her either.

    In the interests of full disclosure, she and I both cam, separately and together. It's fun, but neither of us find it sexual. Like, if we're straight up having sex, and the show ends, we just stop, giggle, and get redressed. It's completely different from our actual sex lives.

    So, yeah, perhaps for some guys, if they are territorial and insecure in the relationship, it could be an issue. For most guys, it would probably be more of a turn on! And for a few really well-balanced individuals, it would be compartmentalized as a JOB which she happens to enjoy, which is far less degrading and dehumanizing than almost any hourly (or salaried) position out there.

    GUMMY:
    How this plays out is obviously something only you two can really figure out. If it was me, however, I would just straight up ask him how he would feel about it, something like, "Hey, so I want you to be honest about this, and I'm 100% ok with whichever way you decide, but I was thinking about getting back into camming; how would you feel about it if I did?"

    Honestly, any guy who can't keep his calm and have a conversation after an opener like that is probably not a guy who's ready for any sort of serious relationship. He'll probably just want to watch the occasional show...

    Goddamn it, I'm not cute! I look dangerous and mysterious and deadly! Why does everyone call me cute??
    (P.S. I'm a Male cam-model. Yes, I know that's unusual.)

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