Hello, ladies. So I had recently decided to try offering sensual body rubs, and I made the mistake of working through an agency. The only reason I made this choice was because I have a friend who works for the same guy in California. She obviously failed to mention that he was such a vengeful tyrant.
The guy goes by "AJ", black man in his early 40s, plays the part of a very nice man quite well. He has set up this bodyrub agency across several cities in the United States. He has girls working for him as bodyrub girls who get all their appointments booked for them, half of all their expenses paid, and the only catch being that said girls give him half of what they earn. This didn't necessarily bother me, but it bothered my friend, who worked with him for almost 2 weeks before she quit, claiming to be cheated out of her money. After she quit, he called her yelling and threatened to have her "exposed". I should have up and quit right then, but I needed the money, so I kept advertising with his agency. Being "exposed" isn't a deal for me, as I am an exotic dancer in Portland, OR as well, have been in Exotic Magazine, and many people know the things I do in the adult industry.
Well about two weeks after my friend quit, I started feeling like a shitty person, the kind of "what am I doing here?" "is this really what my life has come to?" kind of thoughts in my head. So, I stopped doing the body rubs. Now, lately in Portland, dancing has not been as lucrative task as usual. I am moving into a new place next week, and my boyfriend and I are trying to go on vacation. I haven't been making much dancing, so about a week ago I decided to post an ad up for body rubs again. I figured if I did a couple of appointments, I would have enough money to make up for what I didn't make dancing.
Apparently "AJ" saw these ads, and is texting me up a storm, accusing me of disrespecting him and setting myself up to be his competition, saying he will post ads of me on Backpage every day using my real name, will make it difficult for me to "do business", and just being a downright slimeball. I have half a mind to expose HIM, as what he's doing is essentially "pimping". But, I just flat out don't want anything to do with it anymore.
What would you do?



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