Well - although I have some post baby work to do to get my stripper body back before I go working the club(s) - I'm trying to mentally prepare myself and get feedback on anything that I worried about coming up - plus a few things I noticed at the club I worked at... For anyone who read my "New Girl Hustle" - THAT wont be happening again.. (If you didn't read it - I got hustled by another dancer while closing on my very first lap dance to do a double with her - uninvited..)
Anyway - I have a few concerns.. The last place I danced had its fair share of drama and I think every club does - but Now I'm going to be the new girl again.. Here are just a few things that happened to me when I started at the club - and it's been a little less than a year since I worked.. This was stuff I just had to navigate through myself - maybe some of you have suggestions - maybe there are some new girls who can benefit from this as well...
1. (This has probably been discussed somewhere on SW - so I apologize if I'm being redundant..) *Knowing I'm new another dancer will ask...*
"So...! How have you done so far...?" (This is easier to evade than) "So...! Have you gotten any lap dances..?" *and if so* "How many...?"
I made the mistake of being honest since everyone knows I'm the "new girl" I figured expectations were kinda low.. Then one girl had the.. I don't know..
I still don't know if she was trying to actually give me advice or if she was just taking pleasure in acting like some sort of entitled "teacher" ...
She said "Okay - on a busy night you should be getting x amount - on a slower night like tonight you want to get x amount in such and such amount of time.
It made me feel kinda stupid.. She was kinda new to the club (newer than me actually!!) But...! She came from another club and had been doing it longer. So.... This of course took place in the DR and I try to avoid any sort of conversation *with exception to passing small talk* But some people are so damn nosy!!!
2. Smaller clubs and "taking girl's regulars"
Okay.. This didn't happen to me - but it very well could have - and it was only BECAUSE of what I witnessed in the DR after a shift... Another girl had started one of the nights I was working. Again - another "new girl" who had been doing it much longer than I had. She had apparently hustled 1 or 2 of a vet's regulars. Now this chick (the veteran dancer) was nice to me - other than the time she pulled that "New Girl Hustle" on me while I was closing with a customer for my first lap dance... She didn't do it again - and she didn't try to take advantage of me again - although I still agree that it was cut throat to approach me when I was closing (even if it WAS my first time.. I was doing it right apparently..) But whatever - I walked into the DR after a shift and holy SHIT!! You would have thought the world was ending right then and there. That girl who had started that night had hustled a few of her customers that she considered HER regulars and I thought there was for real gonna be a fight right there. And they have cameras all over that dressing room too..! While nobody got hit - the fur was flying... This chick (the vet) got ALL up in this new girl's face. The new chick looked a little shook - but she stood her ground - said she had no idea.. One of the other dancers who had been working there for a while said "Unless a customer says I'm here for so-and-so.. I say they're fair game." A few of the other girls agreed. I kept my mouth shut - but I thought it made sense too. If it was "her" regular - why did he buy a dance from someone else..?
Anyway.. Those are the first 2 things I thought of... I'm curious what everyone else thinks .. I've gotten past a lot of "new girl" shit - but I'm sure you get hit with something else at every club.. Especially since there are so many different kinds of clubs. Any advice/info is welcome and greatly appreciated!
Thanks in advance!



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