A huge percentage of the men I have in my life are detrimental to my existence. This breakthrough came after some ugly crying about the latest narcissist that used me. Not trying to play the victim, I realize that I am 100% responsible for putting up with inappropriate and disrespectful behavior from men, either because I wanted the affection or because I was under the insane delusion that they were my "friends." Recent life events have completely disillusioned me to the notion that men are my friends, and I really don't want to deal with any of the men from my past or new men I meet.
they lie
they objectify me and try to fuck me
many of them are sexist
they distract me from my goals
most can't handle my passion for stripping
they put me down in subtle ways
they don't appreciate me
they brag to their friends
I am going to conduct an experiment to see how much better my life can be if I stop talking to men in order to pursue my passions and strengthen my friendships and collaborations with women. I have been giving up way too much to maintain these relationships that are completely worthless to me.
I feel totally free. There is no reason to deal with men. There is no reason to care what they think.
I might change my mind in the future, but I already know this is the right decision for me. Not fucking with men unless I have to at work or in a social setting like a family gathering is going to set my spirit free.


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Some girls handle this revelation less well than others, especially when they had considered these guys to be people who they could rely upon and then feel betrayed when they come to learn these guys' true motives.



Or you could explain that your sig other is more then welcome to try their hand in the dance/cam industry.
Good luck!


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