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    Default I got out of Stripping and couldn't be happier!!!!

    About a year ago, I started a very controversial thread "School or Stripping?" which you can find here:https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...l-or-Stripping

    My plan back then was to quit school, become a stripper workhorse, save my money and then invest it either in education, dream home or stocks. I know some people would like an update on what had happened and how is it going. Well, here it is:
    1) I did quit school.
    2) I did become a stripper workhorse and worked 5-6 days, sometimes doing double shifts to make more money.
    3) I made a shit load of money
    4) I burnt out! Like crazy! I wake up every morning and hate myself for ever being a stripper, I cannot look at my reflection in the mirror. I have no sex drive, I cannot look at a male human creature without feeling an urgency to throw up. Every time I get out of the house, I make sure I wear clothes that cover me GOOD! Especially when I go out. All my sexy dresses are in the trash now. I am convinced I will never want to have sex again and genuinely don't understand why people have boyfriends. I had become extremely defensive and tense. At night I keep wondering why I ever decided to give stripping a go. I regard it as the worst mistake of my life. It fucked me up good.
    5) I quit stripping about a month ago, as even the thought of it makes me wanna kill myself. With the money I made, I started a business that pays my bills and allows me to live comfortably. I did enroll back in school and will have no problem paying for it now. I will get into no debt. I am more interested in developing my brand and taking my business to the next step than working in the corp world after getting my degree, but I regard school as some sort of insurance. If I don't make it, I'll have something to fall back on, because God knows, I am never taking my clothes off again for anyone!!

    So there you have it. My story.

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    Default Re: I got out of Stripping and couldn't be happier!!!!

    What were you doing while you were a stripper that made you that disgusted with yourself? But if you hated it that much it's good you got out.

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    Default Re: I got out of Stripping and couldn't be happier!!!!

    Sorry to hear stripping had such negative repercussions on your personal life but congratulations on your business, sex work retirement, and school! It's nice to get updated.
    "There are different kinds of darkness. There is darkness that frightens, the darkness that soothes, the darkness that is restful. There is the darkness of lovers, and the darkness of assassins. It becomes what the bearer wishes it to be, needs it to be. It is not wholly bad or good."
    - The Court of Mist and Fury

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    Default Re: I got out of Stripping and couldn't be happier!!!!

    Quote Originally Posted by 22lligm View Post
    What were you doing while you were a stripper that made you that disgusted with yourself? But if you hated it that much it's good you got out.
    I know what you are implying. And that I did not do. For me personally, friction dances are super gross and disgusting. And it makes me sick to think I ever was topless grinding on some random guy's lap. And I hate myself just even for that. But that's just me. Every one is different. To some, it's not a big deal. I thought to me it was't either. But turns out, it is.

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    Default Re: I got out of Stripping and couldn't be happier!!!!

    What's your new line of business?

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    Default Re: I got out of Stripping and couldn't be happier!!!!

    Quote Originally Posted by kaninchen View Post
    What's your new line of business?
    it's hard to explain, plus i don't really want to on here. It's beauty related.

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    Default Re: I got out of Stripping and couldn't be happier!!!!

    Even though you hate the job, I'm glad you were able to accomplish your goals. Dancing is not for everyone, but it has given you the chance to do things you may not have if you had originally just stayed in school. Retirement from sex work is a hard transition. Nevermind being able to move on debt free and with a business after only a year. You worked your ass off for success. I hope at some point you can make peace with the fact that you did it to improve your future quality of life and that things can return to normal for you.

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    Default Re: I got out of Stripping and couldn't be happier!!!!

    That's great that you made a goal and stuck with it. Good luck with your new business.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Versalia View Post
    it's hard to explain, plus i don't really want to on here. It's beauty related.
    Okay. Well, that's great that you're in a better place now! Congrats on finding something that works for you.

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    Default Re: I got out of Stripping and couldn't be happier!!!!

    Thanks for sharing.

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    Default Re: I got out of Stripping and couldn't be happier!!!!

    That's fantastic. I wish you lots of success in life.





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