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    Default How to go about these SD's?

    I've got two SD's in my life right now. One, I started seeing in February. We went out every two or three weeks and our last date was on the 25th last month. I'm concerned because his last text was on the 27th, and I haven't heard from him since, so like 3 weeks. He's never gone that long with no communication before, so I'm worried he's lost interest.

    The other one I just had a date with two nights ago. It was a bit disastrous (I wrote about it in another thread) but we've been emailing and he seemed to really like me and wants to get together again this weekend. He's not ideal, but if SD #1 fell through then I need a replacement. The problem with him is he has offered no money. He wants me to come out his way for dinner and a movie. He lives uber far away from me and the traffic to get to his town is horrendous. So naturally, I don't want to do that, and sit through 4-5 hours of a date, for free. The first date I didn't "charge" but it was much more convenient. But by the second date I do expect some cash.

    So I've got a few questions on how I should go about dealing w/ these guys.

    SD #1- should I assume it's over? Should I text him and ask, or will that seem desperate? Should I let this one go?

    SD #2- How should I go about telling him he's going to need to pay me for all future dates? Should I mention it in email? During our first date, he dodged the allowance question. I'm thinking he's either incredibly ignorant or deliberately trying to play me. I don't know yet but given his age and experience I'm positive he knows better.

    Any input is incredibly appreciated
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    Default Re: How to go about these SD's?

    If sd 1 doesn't call or text I'd text him like "hey haven't heard from you in a while how ya been? Or something like that then if he didn't respond within 48 hrs max I'd delete his number.

    Sd #2 depends on his personality if you feel he can handle directness then be direct and tell him to make it worth your while with some cash but if he needs some sugar coating then suggest to go places where he can take you shopping is an indirect way to go about it.
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    Default Re: How to go about these SD's?

    That's a great idea about the shopping trip. I think I'll suggest that for the next date while I try and warm him up to the idea of allowance.

    About SD #1 how much longer should I wait to ask?
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    Default Re: How to go about these SD's?

    You are ONLY hanging out with these guys for money. I am concerned he dodged the allowance question. I have had guys like that in the past and I ended up ripped off.
    Even if they did give some money at the start - they found ways to recoup the investment and short me later. I'd be very very wary.

    SD 1 - send him a flirty text today. If he has flaked NEXT

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