I've got two SD's in my life right now. One, I started seeing in February. We went out every two or three weeks and our last date was on the 25th last month. I'm concerned because his last text was on the 27th, and I haven't heard from him since, so like 3 weeks. He's never gone that long with no communication before, so I'm worried he's lost interest.
The other one I just had a date with two nights ago. It was a bit disastrous (I wrote about it in another thread) but we've been emailing and he seemed to really like me and wants to get together again this weekend. He's not ideal, but if SD #1 fell through then I need a replacement. The problem with him is he has offered no money. He wants me to come out his way for dinner and a movie. He lives uber far away from me and the traffic to get to his town is horrendous. So naturally, I don't want to do that, and sit through 4-5 hours of a date, for free. The first date I didn't "charge" but it was much more convenient. But by the second date I do expect some cash.
So I've got a few questions on how I should go about dealing w/ these guys.
SD #1- should I assume it's over? Should I text him and ask, or will that seem desperate? Should I let this one go?
SD #2- How should I go about telling him he's going to need to pay me for all future dates? Should I mention it in email? During our first date, he dodged the allowance question. I'm thinking he's either incredibly ignorant or deliberately trying to play me. I don't know yet but given his age and experience I'm positive he knows better.
Any input is incredibly appreciated![]()



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