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    Default This ever happen to you?

    I know you have to have tough skin in this industry which I do, but the last few weeks have really been testing that! I'm not sure if it's just the city that I'm in but it's getting bad. Manager expectations are killing me.

    one club, I was set back a shift and was basically told to lose weight. When I was initially hired there I was maybe about ten pounds lighter. But I was a TWIG and when I look at old pictures I looked sick. But apparently now that I'm at a healthier weight I'm fat? I regular get compliments on my body. I'm extremely tone & athletic built. Don't think I have much fat but I am heavier then before. But I'm healthy !

    Second club. Hadn't worked there since June of last year. Again I'm about 10 pounds heavier now. I was told to reaudition since it had been so long. Went an auditioned and didn't get hired at all! No shift or anything. The first time i was hired there I was hired on the spot with the privilege to work any shift I preferred.

    Now I've been analyzing myself, asking those close to me and even customers am I a little heavy. Those who know me are happy because I look so much healthier, customers tell me my body is part of why they had an interest in me. So I don't know what to do! I don't have any other means of making money at this time. Do I go back to being a twig to make managers happy? Or stay at my healthy weight and only work the late shift at ONE club, the only good club I'm working at right now.

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    Default Re: This ever happen to you?

    Consider the possibility that the club manager's bumping you to a less lucrative shift, and the second club not hiring you back, may not really have a whole lot to do with your weight. If you are a 'clean' dancer working in a city where 'extras' have become commonplace, club managers may now view 'clean' dancers as a liability ... and look for reasons to replace 'clean' dancers with other girls who are willing to provide 'extras' ( thus higher earnings for the club, and for the managers themselves ).

    Thus, if you decide to drop the 10 pounds, this will remove the one manager's specific 'complaint'. However, if that 'complaint' is actually a cover story, i.e. the club wanting to make room for more 'extras' girls, a new and different 'complaint' is likely to quickly follow.

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    Yes, club managers are all weird. After I lost a lot of weight in late 2010, some idiotic club manager told me I needed to "lose weight". I later found out he does not like women who are bottom heavy (even if I was thin, I was still bottom heavy 'cause of my hip bones). In 2013, another club manager told me I was very fat (despite the club had some dancers who were much more fatter), despite a few customers wanting dances from me. Since that manager didn't hire me that night, those customers left (he even told me that I made the club lost customers). I do not cater to manager's wishes; they don't pay me, I pay them so they should not give a rat ass about how I look. There's always a club willing to hire me, regardless on how skinny or fat I might be.





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    Default Re: This ever happen to you?

    More times than you can shake a stick at. If you're doing your best by eating clean and working out, you can't do much more.
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    Default Re: This ever happen to you?

    Try some other clubs or stick with working the late shift for the summer time. I made more in the big clubs waaaay later especially in July and August.

    Cheetahs and OG have VERY loyal clientel......I would go back and forth from the big clubs to those old school ones when I'd get in a funk and would make bank. Sometimes moving around helps

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    What did you end up doing?

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