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    Default What are you doing with your life?

    I think I've figured out how to be comfortable.
    I can collect hobbies and health.
    I've never wanted for love.
    Now what?

    What do you want out of life in the big picture? If money were no object? What fulfills you? What do you need to have done before you die?

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    I just want to leave the world a little bit better than I entered it.

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    I always wanted to get married and have babies, so check! My other big dream is to be an anthropologist and I'm registered for fall classes so....check in 6-8 years. Also want to publish a novel before I die, and travel a lot more.

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    ... exactly what I damn well please !!!

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    I have accomplished so much already but still more to go. I want to build wealth for my family for generations to come. I want the American Dream with fancy house, attractive wealthy husband with values like mine, a couple more kids, etc. I love want to travel like once a month. And I want to write a memoir and a few self help books. I'd also love to get into consulting. And when I die I want to have so much money that some can be passed on to my most beloved family while the rest goes back to the schools that helped me become the educated woman I am today. I'd kill to have a university building or statue named in my honor and provide scholarships to good students.
    “Cook for him like a housewife, fuck him good like a nympho….pay the rent and the car note, he invests in me like crypto”

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    Making $$ from the stock market (yay aapl & goog) then spending some of it & saving some of it.

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    I want to be dependent on nobody; purchasing everything in cash; probably going at least semi-off-the-grid for power and water.
    I want to answer to nobody (or at least as few people as possible in medicine-land)... I will claw my way to chief of surgery if I have to.
    I have a fabulous fiancé already (eee that word!) and I want that to continue being such a good relationship forever, and to travel and see everything possible.
    "People jack off with the left hand and point with the right."

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    Quote Originally Posted by Selina M View Post
    I want to be dependent on nobody; purchasing everything in cash; probably going at least semi-off-the-grid for power and water.
    I want to answer to nobody (or at least as few people as possible in medicine-land)... I will claw my way to chief of surgery if I have to.
    I have a fabulous fiancé already (eee that word!) and I want that to continue being such a good relationship forever, and to travel and see everything possible.
    Congrats!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Selina M View Post
    purchasing everything in cash.
    The world does not run on cash

    It runs on the promise of cash

    A bankers dream is to take your cash and not give it back

    Why feed into it?

    Remember Danny Devito in Other People's Money?

    IMHO, you should edge closer to him than the guy in the woods with the coffee can full of cash, but that is just me.

    Anyway, debt is useful, and these days pretty cheap, i think my first mortgage was like 12 percent......................

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    I want to: have a company
    buy a little house
    have an animal sanctuary
    do more with recycling
    adopt an older child
    leave the world a better place
    there's more, that's all for now.


    MANY MEN WANTED TO LAY ME DOWN, BUT FEW WANTED TO LIFT ME UP

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    I'm simple, I just want a stable professional career, a big house, a luxury car, a big dog. I couldn't have any of that growing up.

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    I clicked on this because this exact thought goes through my head at least five times a day, every day.

    Like, literally, what the actual FUCK am I doing with my life?!

    (I think I have a good direction, but I question it every step of the way)

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    Quote Originally Posted by charlie61 View Post
    I clicked on this because this exact thought goes through my head at least five times a day, every day.

    Like, literally, what the actual FUCK am I doing with my life?!

    (I think I have a good direction, but I question it every step of the way)
    Right? And I think about having one life, and how fast it goes, and how there's so much to learn and explore and experience and give, and then I go back to my GoT marathon x_X

    I read something really cool the other day about how it takes 11 years to really truly master something. So starting at 11 and living until 88 you have seven different times to try something new. And suck at it. And master it. For a lot of us that first decade is about mastering survival, or family, love, finances, disabilities, school, cooking etc. Then with all that knowledge under our belt we can do something completely different.

    I want so much and it's nice to think about all the different lives that can be contained in my lifetime. Survival, Knowledge, Service to Others, Travel, Writing, that's only five....Be a street musician or a social worker for 11 years, tend an urban farm or work for a NGO. Get a Doctorate, or couch surf across the world. Become a master stripper and after that a chemist...sit on my ass and feed bonbons to french whores for a decade....and still so much time for other things

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    Quote Originally Posted by wednesday86 View Post
    I always wanted to get married and have babies, so check!
    I want a relatively simple life. I want to get married and have family to care for and love. I want to be a typical soccer mom that drives a mini van. I want to drive the kids to school, piano lessons, gymnastics, Chuck E. Cheeses, soccer practice. Take week long vacations with the family, like the beach, like Disney World. I just want a normal life. I hope I'll be a good wife and a good mom.

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    HH - The wisdom and depth of that post gave me a girlie boner.

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    I want to become a semi-pro jazz piano player. I want to learn to tap dance again. I want to travel to Syria and feed a hungry child. I want to see the Republicans lose both the senate and the house as well as the Presidency again...2008 was AWESOME

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    I have a daughter who is 11, she's strong, she's beautiful and she's bright. I have a boyfriend who lives with me. I have a business that employees 76 people. They're all off today, with pay. Sometimes, I forget that family comes first, love comes second and business comes third. But, I'm working on it. Still haven't gotten to the Melonie stage of doing what I damn well please. But, I'm working on that too. Being the big boss certainly helps in the doing what I damn well please category.

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    I want to move to South America.
    I always wanted to have a freedom from money. Thats mean i have an abundance of money so i can study as much as i want. I want to learn many things such as drawing, sue my own clothing, another hand crafts..i want to travel but not touristic places but small villages and damn finily eat a normal food....!also i want visit places where they have mineral water springs, i want to swim in mineral water and roll like a pig in mud. I want to stay youthfull as long as possible without comertial products only with natural.
    I want to have my store with organic clothing made from natural material and dyed with natural dye such as flowers,indigo,henna,turmeric and etc. and i want that clothing hand made by people. i want to help people. And on that factory everything must be organic and sustainable.
    Also i want to have my farm with animals,fruit trees and veggies. And i want my lil house made of clay. I saw on youtube that cute house which now i want so badly.

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    I've decided that here in the next month I will be buying a motorhome and my boyfriend and I will spend the next few years just traveling and exploring the country. I will dance and he can work at the camp grounds or start a mobile RV detailing business if he likes. I will compile a list of all the biggest money events in the U.S and plan the trip based on what event is happening in which state. That way my money will always be maximized. I basically want to live life like I'm constantly on vacation and I think this will be the best way to be on vacation while simultaneously making good money. I also want to start a youtube channel where I review the different clubs in each area and document my adventures in each new place.

    Once I get a good social media following I will start publishing my ebooks. Hopfully that will turn out to be a good way to make passive income.

    Once I'm around 35 yrs old I will have plenty of money saved to buy investment rental properties. At this point I may pick a more permanent living situation and retire and just live off my investments.

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    First of all, I would love to retire from stripping.

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    I forget that family comes first, love comes second and business comes third. But, I'm working on it.
    Well, at least we agree on the #1 priority.

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    Quote Originally Posted by HallelujahHopkins View Post
    Right? And I think about having one life, and how fast it goes, and how there's so much to learn and explore and experience and give, and then I go back to my GoT marathon x_X

    I read something really cool the other day about how it takes 11 years to really truly master something. So starting at 11 and living until 88 you have seven different times to try something new. And suck at it. And master it. For a lot of us that first decade is about mastering survival, or family, love, finances, disabilities, school, cooking etc. Then with all that knowledge under our belt we can do something completely different.

    I want so much and it's nice to think about all the different lives that can be contained in my lifetime. Survival, Knowledge, Service to Others, Travel, Writing, that's only five....Be a street musician or a social worker for 11 years, tend an urban farm or work for a NGO. Get a Doctorate, or couch surf across the world. Become a master stripper and after that a chemist...sit on my ass and feed bonbons to french whores for a decade....and still so much time for other things
    LOLed so hard when I got to the French whores and the Bon bons - I'm picturing an elaborate victorian couch with you sitting on it in an enormous hat and French regency clothing doling out chocolates to women at your feet.

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    I just try to help people better their lives. It's why I became a hypnotist.

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