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    I was on pof idk why. Started talking to this guy, then he told me he was on permanent disability for anxiety. I didnt reply because I didnt log on for a week. He wrote all kinds of nasty emails, five of them about me being a gold digger and how I must be struggling (true lol) WTF!! now my paranoid ass is going to think hes going to hurt me

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    Not really a dating story, but I did have a dude on my Minecraft server ask me to be his Valentines after talking for all of 20 minutes. When I said no with the excuse of him living in a different state, he said he'd be willing to move. Apparently I was the only woman he's ever been able to trust. Guuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuh.

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    During a rough patch I tried okc and met this ridiculously attractive girl; it should have tipped me off that she had heine length perfect straight light blonde hair. That simply can't happen in the wild. We went on two dates, one to try to impress her at the private museum dining room and string quartet afterward, one basically a long walk in the park. She told me she could play the piano and sing. Clever fellow that I am, I went for the 3rd date "in" at her apt, you know cooking and watching a movie or something. Literally 30 minutes before, 7:30 on a Friday night, she calls me and actually shrieks into the phone "WHY DO YOU STILL HAVE YOUR PROFILE UP?!?!!?? Me: uh, what? "I TOOK MINE DOWN I THOUGHT WE HAD SOMETHING ARE YOU STILL LOOKING?!?!" ....this all happened in like one week, and though I had other meetings scheduled, I hadn't actually met anyone else in that time. I told her that, I'm not sure why, and then she started crying and saying "Now I'm afraid I'll never see you again". In that respect she was perceptive. What I can't figure out is, I made decent dough then but so does everyone where I live. She was 3 or 4 grades hotter than me, smart talented, the works, worked at a law firm though not a lawyer. What was her deal? Also, why didn't she pull all that *after* the stay home date, dammit!

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    only tried online dating once, and ended up marrying the the guy. he's lucky he caught me early because of all the creepy messages i got, i was about to shut my profile down! what part of "I don't like white boys" do white boys NOT understand?

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    I used to always set up profiles then my scary a$$ would never follow through. Now that I am into dancing (which im trying to keep a secret) - last thing I want is to have my face plastered all over the internet making myself more easily recognizable and from what I understand from all the threads on how hard it is for a stripper to find a good man. *sigh* it just seems easier to make money than it does to find love. So for right now Im taking the path of least resistance. My p*ssy and my womb is crying
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    My experiences with online dating are from about 10+ years ago, but i doubt that it has changed that much since then. Some of the more interesting ones included:


    1. A girl who was acting funny during dinner, eating little and refusing wine. I learned later it was because she had gastric by-pass surgery and could not eat much or drink alcohol.

    2. One girl who wanted me to meet her parents and stalked me for weeks, all because of one date. Now I'll admit that sex was involved, but it was one date

    3. A girl who wanted to share her titillating story about a weekend she and 5 others girls spent playing a game called "6 girls on a John." Ah-huh.

    4. One young mother who was attractive, but her young boy was so obese that I wanted to kick her in the head and call CPS on her. Some people just shouldn't be parents. I was already there, so I finished the date with her even though I was disgusted with her.

    5. A girl who worked as a prison guard and couldn't have anyone walk behind her. I was a little put off by it at first, but she was so much fun at the pub that we visited and so damned hot that...anyway...



    Those are just the weird ones that I can remember on a moment's notice, though there were many more boring or middle of the road ones. You really can't get to know someone online or even over the phone.

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    Lol oh god...my last serious boyfriend I met on Craigslist. He put that he was a ''sugar daddy'' but open to the idea of a relationship. I met up, really liked him, so we made it official. When I was younger I didn't know as much as I do now about men and I didn't know about this site either. He turned out to be a psychopathic, controlling, abusive pathological liar! In addition to being married and lying about it, he had a bunch of other young girls on the side (in addition to me and his wife!). He would go through my phone and email accounts regularly and blackmail me with all sorts of shit. And he wouldn't let me go. I had to get a restraining order against him! Luckily, it's been almost 5 years and I haven't heard from him since. And I will NEVER meet guys online again!

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    Lol oh god...my last serious boyfriend I met on Craigslist. He put that he was a ''sugar daddy'' but open to the idea of a relationship. I met up, really liked him, so we made it official. When I was younger I didn't know as much as I do now about men and I didn't know about this site either. He turned out to be a psychopathic, controlling, abusive pathological liar! In addition to being married and lying about it, he had a bunch of other young girls on the side (in addition to me and his wife!). He would go through my phone and email accounts regularly and blackmail me with all sorts of shit. And he wouldn't let me go. I had to get a restraining order against him! Luckily, it's been almost 5 years and I haven't heard from him since. And I will NEVER meet guys online again!
    [email protected] thats unreal! I never understand why men have to lie about wanting polygamy. WTF?!? Glad you got out of that situation unscathed!
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    I feel like this thread would appreciate this site: straightwhiteboystexting.tumblr.com

    My friend had a brief stint on Tinder, and was horrified one night to find a long, detailed message from a guy who was into being diapered... 'nuff said.
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    Ohh I LOVE reading horror stories of bad dates. I don't have a whole lot of good stories myself, but I am going to post one of my favorite websites ever. I have spent countless hours on this site reading the stories and dying laughing. Enjoy http://www.abadcaseofthedates.com/

    Oh btw if you check out that site, be sure you read the comments with the stories, sometimes they're better than the story.

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    Oh God. It's been years since I've tried online and won't do it again. I prefer meeting ppl in person.

    Anyway, I remember this one guy who looked good in pictures and said ppl would compare him to Chris Cornell (when he had super long hair).

    In person, he was short and fugly. Lied about his height. Looked nothing like Chris Cornell. Buddy, just bc you have long wavy hair doesn't mean you look like him. I couldn't tell in pics tho. Had lots of gaps between his teeth and horrible breath that wanted to kill me.

    I didn't want to be mean and just had coffee with him, but cut the date off short. Actually, lying about your appearance to someone is mean.

    He walked me to the train station and wanted to tap kiss me on the lips. I said I'm not a fan of pda and left asap.

    There were a few horrible dates after that, then i completely swore off. Ugh. Nothing but ugly lying trolls or hot psychopaths. No thx!!

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    A guy I met on Craigslist (Wow, I'm really about to humiliate myself here, huh?) when I was 19 was probably the absolute worst ever. He told me he was LAPD SWAT. He drove a sick Mercedes AMG with a v12 and had a Benelli M4, ammo, and tons of body armor in the trunk. Loose! Not locked in any kind of weapons safe at all. I had just joined the Army so I thought this was basically the coolest thing I had ever seen. He was either legit SWAT or an incredibly dangerous drug lord or something. Or maybe he was just some loser who bought illegal guns in Nevada. Who knows?

    I stopped seeing him when I realized he was a lying dirtbag. He told me this story about how he had just divorced his wife, but they had a custom-built home together that he didn't want to leave, and they split custody of their two young daughters on a daily basis, so he had to be home by 10pm every night to watch them. I'm actually ashamed that I believed that for a few weeks. Fortunately I never slept with him. Ugh!

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    Online was a nightmare to me. Way too many married men, men just looking for sex, con artists, and guys lying about age, weight, height etc. Had one guy who found me on Facebook, and another who threatened to find my address via my photo and pay me a visit (luckily as far as I know he never did). My last go around I met great guys but no connection. My last time before that met a guy who seemed nice until I met his wife. Another guy started criticizing my looks and another told me I'd have to give up my dog and cat if we dated because he hated animals (I never saw him again). Lots of nasty men on dating sites who sent either mean or perverted messages. I deleted my profiles and doubt I'll do it again. Not to mention the men I liked generally didn't like me and I didn't like most of the men who contacted me. To me it's not worth dealing with the creeps to meet one guy that probably won't go farther than one date.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Vyanka View Post
    Oh God. It's been years since I've tried online and won't do it again. I prefer meeting ppl in person.

    Anyway, I remember this one guy who looked good in pictures and said ppl would compare him to Chris Cornell (when he had super long hair).

    In person, he was short and fugly. Lied about his height. Looked nothing like Chris Cornell. Buddy, just bc you have long wavy hair doesn't mean you look like him. I couldn't tell in pics tho. Had lots of gaps between his teeth and horrible breath that wanted to kill me.

    I didn't want to be mean and just had coffee with him, but cut the date off short. Actually, lying about your appearance to someone is mean.

    He walked me to the train station and wanted to tap kiss me on the lips. I said I'm not a fan of pda and left asap.

    There were a few horrible dates after that, then i completely swore off. Ugh. Nothing but ugly lying trolls or hot psychopaths. No thx!!
    You are so right about that! Men who go online are either ugly awkward trolls who can't get any in real life or good looking but bat shit crazy. It seems like there is no in between.

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    Agreed. I also came across so many men looking to online to use, whether it's sex, money or something else. It seemed the majority were ugly trolls who were psychopaths on top of it. I found the majority of the good looking men were either scammers (and those weren't their photos) or freaks. I don't know how people meet their SO's online because the few normal men either didn't like me, I didn't like them or something else.

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    Lol, online dating...

    When I was 18, I met a guy on OkCupid that lived an hour away, and after a few weeks he asked me if he could come visit and take me on a date. I said alright, and we met up in the city. Firstly, his idea of somewhere good to eat on a first date was Wendy's. I would have accepted a lot of casual places, but not Wendy's. At least he was nice enough to pay for my food. I was bored already, and while we were walking through the mall, he said he had a secret. Then he proceeded to tell me that he wasn't entirely human, and was, in fact, biologically spliced with a vampire.

    I left.

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    Idk. I had my share of horror stories and bad dates from meeting people online, but I also met my wife online. I also met my last live-in GF and another woman who I came very close to marrying in an online room. When you are over 30, there aren't many natural venues in which to meet other like minded people of a similar age. Working jobs with long hours, which I have been doing since I turned 30, also makes it more difficult.

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    Lol, online dating...

    When I was 18, I met a guy on OkCupid that lived an hour away, and after a few weeks he asked me if he could come visit and take me on a date. I said alright, and we met up in the city. Firstly, his idea of somewhere good to eat on a first date was Wendy's. I would have accepted a lot of casual places, but not Wendy's. At least he was nice enough to pay for my food. I was bored already, and while we were walking through the mall, he said he had a secret. Then he proceeded to tell me that he wasn't entirely human, and was, in fact, biologically spliced with a vampire.

    I left.
    LMFAO!! What a weirdo! A vampire who goes on dates at Wendy's lol

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    I was in a 2 year online long-distance relationship ages 18-20. I thought he was this amazing guy and the love of my life, even after I broke up with him. So then another year and a half after this went down, I was doing better financially and wanted to travel, and he offered to let me stay with him for a couple months in England. We finally met in person, and he was a total fucking loser. I could not believe the extent to which I'd been duped, for THREE YEARS of knowing this person. I thought he was so successful with his own business and all this shit going on, when in reality he was begging his parents for money every month and basically unemployed, working part time for his dad at the age of 33. He was absolutely awful at sex, and a total douche bag in person. I don't know why, but somehow online he felt free to have all these intellectual debates, whereas in real life he treated me like shit and kept negging me! And he had like no friends.

    It's not like he was completely the opposite of the person I thought, but pretty far from it. We still got along passively in most ways, could have decent conversations, had similar tastes in music, etc. But he had always made himself seem so impressive and cool, and in reality he was way beneath me. I was so pissed at him for bullshitting me all those years, I went out to the pub and fucked a younger, hotter guy for a couple weeks before going back to the states.

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    Quote Originally Posted by zoezoebelle View Post
    I was in a 2 year online long-distance relationship ages 18-20. I thought he was this amazing guy and the love of my life, even after I broke up with him. So then another year and a half after this went down, I was doing better financially and wanted to travel, and he offered to let me stay with him for a couple months in England. We finally met in person, and he was a total fucking loser. I could not believe the extent to which I'd been duped, for THREE YEARS of knowing this person. I thought he was so successful with his own business and all this shit going on, when in reality he was begging his parents for money every month and basically unemployed, working part time for his dad at the age of 33. He was absolutely awful at sex, and a total douche bag in person. I don't know why, but somehow online he felt free to have all these intellectual debates, whereas in real life he treated me like shit and kept negging me! And he had like no friends.

    It's not like he was completely the opposite of the person I thought, but pretty far from it. We still got along passively in most ways, could have decent conversations, had similar tastes in music, etc. But he had always made himself seem so impressive and cool, and in reality he was way beneath me. I was so pissed at him for bullshitting me all those years, I went out to the pub and fucked a younger, hotter guy for a couple weeks before going back to the states.
    What a fckng LOSER!!! Ugh!!! Makes me soooo angry just reading that. Good for u, for banging the young dude

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    Someone sent me a message on OKC once. I consider that a success.

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    Lol, online dating...

    When I was 18, I met a guy on OkCupid that lived an hour away, and after a few weeks he asked me if he could come visit and take me on a date. I said alright, and we met up in the city. Firstly, his idea of somewhere good to eat on a first date was Wendy's. I would have accepted a lot of casual places, but not Wendy's. At least he was nice enough to pay for my food. I was bored already, and while we were walking through the mall, he said he had a secret. Then he proceeded to tell me that he wasn't entirely human, and was, in fact, biologically spliced with a vampire.

    I left.
    Did we go on a date with the same person? I had the same thing happen to me except he took me to a nice restaurant. He was not attractive and then told me he had a secret. He could change street lights with his mind. Oh, and he was a vampire. He gave me a card with his vampire website. I hung out with unique people in high school, so I wasn't so freaked out....but....it was strange. And then he kept trying to hold my hand and talked about seeing me again. Yuck.
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    Quote Originally Posted by missyamaya View Post
    Did we go on a date with the same person? I had the same thing happen to me except he took me to a nice restaurant. He was not attractive and then told me he had a secret. He could change street lights with his mind. Oh, and he was a vampire. He gave me a card with his vampire website. I hung out with unique people in high school, so I wasn't so freaked out....but....it was strange. And then he kept trying to hold my hand and talked about seeing me again. Yuck.
    Wow....wow! That wins a medal. Streetlights with his mind? I have to ask, what would be harder, that on a date or that in the SC?

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    I wish I would have met a guy claiming to be a vampire, that would have made online more exciting.

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    I met two guys online 9.5 years ago. I met them on collarspace (which used to be collarme) One is an attorney and a very good friend, still. The other is a doctor and a professor, and we are getting married this year. Those were the only two men I actually met up with in real life. I really took my time and vetted people well before meeting. There are definitely a lot of weirdos out there, but there are also great guys (and girls) just waiting to meet the right person.

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