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    Default I know this is asked a lot but do I have the boobs for dancing?

    Attachment 41782I don't know why it's so big!! Sorry!! I've auditioned once at what turned out to be a super high extras club (no one was clean) and was discouraged but now want to work at a cleaner club in the city. I've always been really insecure about my boobies but have been getting better about it. Wanted some opinions before auditioning again :-) thank you!!
    ps: I'm 21 if it makes a difference

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    Default Re: I know this is asked a lot but do I have the boobs for dancing?

    You're right, this and variations of 'do I look good enough to dance' are asked a lot. Perhaps you've noticed that the answer is basically always yes.

    Your boobs are fine. There are all kinds of boobs in the strip club -- it's not just bolt-on pornstar titties. There are big naturals, boobs with some sag, small boobs, tiny boobs, etc., etc. Same with body types. Some clubs are pickier than others or tend to hire certain types, but we can't predict that on here since we're not the hiring manager at the club you're applying at.

    What matters most is confidence. If you don't believe in the product (ie. yourself), how can you expect others to be convinced to drop hundreds of dollars on you? Walk in there knowing you look like hot shit, and you'll be fine. Walk in there self-conscious and second guessing yourself, and you'll have a hard time both in making money and dealing with customers feeding off your insecurities.

    Good luck, you will be great!

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    Default Re: I know this is asked a lot but do I have the boobs for dancing?

    Thanks love! I know it's about confidence and all that stuff. Still kinda in the back of my mind. Def gonna work on it! I imagine dancing can boost some people's confidence depending on their experience ? How about yours?

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    Default Re: I know this is asked a lot but do I have the boobs for dancing?

    The 'condition' of your boobs & whether a club is clean or dirty are two completely separate issues. Unless customers/club staff were making cheap shots at your body as a way of expressing frustration that you have the unholy audacity to deny them extras, I don't see why these two factors would tie into each other.

    What you need to understand re: your appearance, body type, etc is that you can't please every1. Sm nites, you will be beating them off w/ a stick; there will be shifts where you have a line of customers that practically stretches out the door & you won't be able to get to all of them b4 closing. Then you will have the nites where you couldn't pay them to let you dance for them. Sm times, you're just no one's cuppa tea.

    As for experience = confidence boost -- just like anything else, as you gain experience & find what works for you, your confidence will improve. Until then, as one sweetheart veteran told me when I first started dancing, it's really just a matter of 'fake it til you make it'. Read up on 'confident body language' you can do a Google search or even search the Hustle Hut forum here, bc this has been discussed in depth -- the positive psychological affects of you displaying confident body language on yourself as well as on customers.

    Have you ever been into a club just as a customer, to observe? That's what I recommend, esp when you're new. I did it throughout my 5+ yrs of dancing anytime I was scouting a new club as a potential workplace. But one of the many things you will get to see w/ this approach is all the different (or vastly preferred -- this goes both ways) body types & looks of the girls working there. So go as a customer & be open-minded, stop overthinking & second guessing. There are aficionados of all body types in the club.

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    Default Re: I know this is asked a lot but do I have the boobs for dancing?

    Hi aniela- thanks for your reply. I was just mentioning my previous experience, nothing to do w my boobs that bit- just me blathering :p

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    Default Re: I know this is asked a lot but do I have the boobs for dancing?

    Your boobs are fine.
    "Fake tits are like Kevlar. They don't guarantee your chances of survival but they sure as hell improve it."
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    Default Re: I know this is asked a lot but do I have the boobs for dancing?

    Huh?!? I don't get it. Has someone told you you have ugly tits or something cause your boobs look normal. Me thinks you wanted to show a gratuitous tit shot as evidenced by the graphics and water dripping. But it's all good though hope your new club works out for you.
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    Default Re: I know this is asked a lot but do I have the boobs for dancing?

    Sorry only boobie pic on my phone!! No, just kind of a nagging insecurity I've had for whatever reason. Not as perky as a lot of girls in the media, porn, the club I worked at briefly. Sorry to have given you that impression! Thanks for your reply :-)

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    Default Re: I know this is asked a lot but do I have the boobs for dancing?

    Quote Originally Posted by angelulu View Post
    Sorry only boobie pic on my phone!! No, just kind of a nagging insecurity I've had for whatever reason. Not as perky as a lot of girls in the media, porn, the club I worked at briefly. Sorry to have given you that impression! Thanks for your reply :-)
    Oh! Yeah men, well sensible men, understand boobs come in all shapes and sizes. As long as you don't have 80 year old grandma tits you'll be fine.
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    Default Re: I know this is asked a lot but do I have the boobs for dancing?

    Hehe thanks girl

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    Quote Originally Posted by angelulu View Post
    Not as perky as a lot of girls in the media, porn, the club I worked at briefly.
    Three words: Photoshop. Plastic surgery.

    You're wasting way too much energy concerning yourself w/ other ppl's doctored appearances. They are not paying your bills so forget abt them & just do you.

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    Default Re: I know this is asked a lot but do I have the boobs for dancing?

    The media's influence is a powerful one. For example: when TV was introduced to a pacific island nation (can't remember which) the rates of eating disorders skyrocketed.

    Anyway, I can't find for the life of me how to delete a thread. Maybe because I'm on mobile? Can anyone point me in the right direction? I've been into edit post of course but found squat.
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    Default Re: I know this is asked a lot but do I have the boobs for dancing?

    Quote Originally Posted by angelulu View Post
    The media's influence is a powerful one. For example: when TV was introduced to a pacific island nation (can't remember which) the rates of eating disorders skyrocketed.

    Anyway, I can't find for the life of me how to delete a thread. Maybe because I'm on mobile? Can anyone point me in the right direction? I've been into edit post of course but found squat.
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    You'd probably have an easier time deleting if your on a desktop vs mobile. Or you can ask the moderator to help you.
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