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    WWW I think I found a potencial sugar daddy, but I want to do some sorta check first

    I found a guy who wants to be my sugar daddy but fear is getting in the way.
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    Default Re: I think I found a potencial sugar daddy, but I want to do some sorta check first

    Read Ho Tactics

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    Default Re: I think I found a potencial sugar daddy, but I want to do some sorta check first

    I have it, thanks. Ill try to find anything relavant. Also I know being a dancer will come up but thats the last thing I want, him showing up at the club. I need a cover.
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    Default Re: I think I found a potencial sugar daddy, but I want to do some sorta check first

    Have a male friend call his place of employment and ask for him, or do it yourself. BTW just have to say, Ho Tactics was written by a dude, and while it has many valid points (yes, I suffered through it out of curiosity), a person who behaves as this man suggests is redolent of risk and as such will perhaps, and only perhaps, be effective with a certain target market. I would speculate that for many, success per se with this segment might not be productive in the long term.

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    Default Re: I think I found a potencial sugar daddy, but I want to do some sorta check first

    He hasnt behaved a certain way but i do notice, that i can already tell he will want a relationship, and maybe I wont. I havent asked him exactly where he works because I dont like that question.
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    Default Re: I think I found a potencial sugar daddy, but I want to do some sorta check first

    Ginger, if he was really serving on a BoD somewhere, you would find him referenced somewhere on some site. He would also likely be senior enough wherever he works to be listed on a company website, in some article, or somewhere else. It sounds like he either gave you a fake name, is lying to you about his circumstances, or both.

    IMHO you should proceed with caution. This claim that he will only share details about himself "if there is chemistry" is crap. If he is really "counting the days" until he sees you, then he should be willing to prove who he is. If he is unwilling to do so, then IMHO he is likely a time waster and you should pass.

    Good luck!

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    Default Re: I think I found a potencial sugar daddy, but I want to do some sorta check first

    Do you have his phone number? You can try namefromphone.com It will usually give you the persons name. You can then try googling that name if it's different from the original name he gave you.

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    Default Re: I think I found a potencial sugar daddy, but I want to do some sorta check first

    ^^ I wish that would have worked. I registered and everything. Anyone know a free one? I haven't given him my phone number yet.

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    Default Re: I think I found a potencial sugar daddy, but I want to do some sorta check first

    If you met a potential, don't tell him you're a stripper. Most SDs don't like sugaring strippers, unless it's someone you met itc.

    Also, don't ask if he's rich straight up. It's going to turn the guy off. You should be able to find that out without asking him straight up. It doesn't help that you don't even know his real name. He probably has no sugar.

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    Default Re: I think I found a potencial sugar daddy, but I want to do some sorta check first

    I really dont care if I turn him off before I meet him, because that would tell me more about him.
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    Default Re: I think I found a potencial sugar daddy, but I want to do some sorta check first

    I met another guy in the club 2 months ago. He was leaving and gave me his card with 10 bucks.
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    Default Re: I think I found a potencial sugar daddy, but I want to do some sorta check first

    Quote Originally Posted by gingersnap View Post
    He hasnt behaved a certain way but i do notice, that i can already tell he will want a relationship, and maybe I wont. I havent asked him exactly where he works because I dont like that question. He said he was the board of directors at 2 places and I didnt see his name but the names I saw, I dont see his pictures. I asked if he could prove he was rich. This offended him, but I dont care. He said later if there is chemisty he will prove it, that put me off and made me pull away. I told him in a month we will meet and hes already counting the days. I cant find a facebook for him. I didnt see anything in the book yet to prove anything. There was other people online I could find out info because of the facebook email info, and where they worked. If im even going to meet him, I want money for my time and to prove hes not stingy.
    Stop talking to this guy. Most rich guys don't have a problem with giving their real name via their company- they already get standard gold-digger women hitting them up, so they aren't worried about what people think of sugarbabies approaching them.

    Cut ties to this dude before he finds more ways to follow you around and get info about your activites and whereabouts. Please.

    BTW In a decade I had several really rich guys be my SD- you have to let them choose you. Sadly the Internet age has given stalkers/con men too many tools and tips on how to impersonate a really rich guy. If you allow these kinds of men too much access to you they will victimize you.

    Buy a copy of Gavin De Becker's book "The Gift Of Fear." It has a couple chapters about how to deal with stalker/extortionists. Be aware of what these kinds of people are capable of...

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    Yes, stop talking to this guy! I've been a SB before and everything you have said about him screams red flag! He sounds like a scam artist and someone who just wants to find a naive young girl to abuse and take advantage of. Real SDs are open and straightforward and don't like to waste time. They have no problem telling you how much they make and showing you their real info. They'll tell you all of this, but they won't call themselves a sugar daddy. If a guy is being secretive, playing games, and wasting you time he is NOT a sugar daddy. Wealthy men don't have time to play games and they don't need to. But scammers and posers do and they will. Avoid!

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    Default Re: I think I found a potencial sugar daddy, but I want to do some sorta check first

    In all fairness i havent asked him where he works or his real name because both those things, I wouldnt answer.
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    Default Re: I think I found a potencial sugar daddy, but I want to do some sorta check first

    I would assume the only way to verify him is to get some real information about him. If he won't give you any information to verify that he's legit, I'd stay away, seems kinda risky.

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    Default Re: I think I found a potencial sugar daddy, but I want to do some sorta check first

    Any guy that hands you a card with $10 is NOT rich nor SD potential.. where are you located?

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    Quote Originally Posted by arielbriel View Post
    Any guy that hands you a card with $10 is NOT rich nor SD potential.. where are you located?
    I agree! If a guy gave me a card with $10 on it I would laugh in his face and give it right back to him. Cheap fuck!

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    ^^ I was able to find out about a lot about this guy thru his card. He was a very successful business owner, but he was texting to0 much and not offering money.

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    ..........
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    Don't worry about him, sounds like he was trying to scam you.
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    Default Re: I think I found a potencial sugar daddy, but I want to do some sorta check first

    lol im not. Im still looking. Thats why I never gave him my number.

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    Has he email you from yahoo or a similar account? In the properties you can find his IP address. Once you have a IP you can pull up the physical address it is associated with. Its very easy to tract someone once you know where they live.
    Admire her if you will, but imitate her never, said the parents to the enamored children.

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    Wow I thought it was hard to do that
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    Quote Originally Posted by gingersnap View Post
    Wow I thought it was hard to do that? Its gmail. Can you tell me? You this guy i will call (Dan) was a psycho, Dan hacked in my computer thru a picture he sent to my email. Thru that he found out everything about me.
    Yikes!!!

    I hope you live in a state where handgun ownership is favored. "Dan" is one overachieving stalker....ugh.

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    I cant believe my first and only person Ive met trying to be a sugar daddy would up being so dangerously wrong.
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