I found a guy who wants to be my sugar daddy but fear is getting in the way.


I found a guy who wants to be my sugar daddy but fear is getting in the way.
Last edited by gingersnap; 08-03-2015 at 04:04 AM.



Read Ho Tactics


I have it, thanks. Ill try to find anything relavant. Also I know being a dancer will come up but thats the last thing I want, him showing up at the club. I need a cover.
Last edited by gingersnap; 08-03-2015 at 04:05 AM.





Have a male friend call his place of employment and ask for him, or do it yourself. BTW just have to say, Ho Tactics was written by a dude, and while it has many valid points (yes, I suffered through it out of curiosity), a person who behaves as this man suggests is redolent of risk and as such will perhaps, and only perhaps, be effective with a certain target market. I would speculate that for many, success per se with this segment might not be productive in the long term.


He hasnt behaved a certain way but i do notice, that i can already tell he will want a relationship, and maybe I wont. I havent asked him exactly where he works because I dont like that question.
Last edited by gingersnap; 08-03-2015 at 04:06 AM.





Ginger, if he was really serving on a BoD somewhere, you would find him referenced somewhere on some site. He would also likely be senior enough wherever he works to be listed on a company website, in some article, or somewhere else. It sounds like he either gave you a fake name, is lying to you about his circumstances, or both.
IMHO you should proceed with caution. This claim that he will only share details about himself "if there is chemistry" is crap. If he is really "counting the days" until he sees you, then he should be willing to prove who he is. If he is unwilling to do so, then IMHO he is likely a time waster and you should pass.
Good luck!
Do you have his phone number? You can try namefromphone.com It will usually give you the persons name. You can then try googling that name if it's different from the original name he gave you.


^^ I wish that would have worked. I registered and everything. Anyone know a free one? I haven't given him my phone number yet.





If you met a potential, don't tell him you're a stripper. Most SDs don't like sugaring strippers, unless it's someone you met itc.
Also, don't ask if he's rich straight up. It's going to turn the guy off. You should be able to find that out without asking him straight up. It doesn't help that you don't even know his real name. He probably has no sugar.


I really dont care if I turn him off before I meet him, because that would tell me more about him.
Last edited by gingersnap; 08-03-2015 at 04:06 AM.


I met another guy in the club 2 months ago. He was leaving and gave me his card with 10 bucks.
Last edited by gingersnap; 08-03-2015 at 04:07 AM.





Stop talking to this guy. Most rich guys don't have a problem with giving their real name via their company- they already get standard gold-digger women hitting them up, so they aren't worried about what people think of sugarbabies approaching them.
Cut ties to this dude before he finds more ways to follow you around and get info about your activites and whereabouts. Please.
BTW In a decade I had several really rich guys be my SD- you have to let them choose you. Sadly the Internet age has given stalkers/con men too many tools and tips on how to impersonate a really rich guy. If you allow these kinds of men too much access to you they will victimize you.
Buy a copy of Gavin De Becker's book "The Gift Of Fear." It has a couple chapters about how to deal with stalker/extortionists. Be aware of what these kinds of people are capable of...




Yes, stop talking to this guy! I've been a SB before and everything you have said about him screams red flag! He sounds like a scam artist and someone who just wants to find a naive young girl to abuse and take advantage of. Real SDs are open and straightforward and don't like to waste time. They have no problem telling you how much they make and showing you their real info. They'll tell you all of this, but they won't call themselves a sugar daddy. If a guy is being secretive, playing games, and wasting you time he is NOT a sugar daddy. Wealthy men don't have time to play games and they don't need to. But scammers and posers do and they will. Avoid!


In all fairness i havent asked him where he works or his real name because both those things, I wouldnt answer.
Last edited by gingersnap; 08-03-2015 at 04:08 AM.

I would assume the only way to verify him is to get some real information about him. If he won't give you any information to verify that he's legit, I'd stay away, seems kinda risky.
Any guy that hands you a card with $10 is NOT rich nor SD potential.. where are you located?


^^ I was able to find out about a lot about this guy thru his card. He was a very successful business owner, but he was texting to0 much and not offering money.


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Last edited by gingersnap; 08-03-2015 at 04:08 AM.
Don't worry about him, sounds like he was trying to scam you.
"There are different kinds of darkness. There is darkness that frightens, the darkness that soothes, the darkness that is restful. There is the darkness of lovers, and the darkness of assassins. It becomes what the bearer wishes it to be, needs it to be. It is not wholly bad or good."
- The Court of Mist and Fury


lol im not. Im still looking. Thats why I never gave him my number.


Has he email you from yahoo or a similar account? In the properties you can find his IP address. Once you have a IP you can pull up the physical address it is associated with. Its very easy to tract someone once you know where they live.
Admire her if you will, but imitate her never, said the parents to the enamored children.


Wow I thought it was hard to do that
Last edited by gingersnap; 08-03-2015 at 04:08 AM.


I cant believe my first and only person Ive met trying to be a sugar daddy would up being so dangerously wrong.
Last edited by gingersnap; 08-03-2015 at 04:09 AM.
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