Most of my close friends know what I do for a living, particularly the hand full of women I keep in contact with. Most of these women have either done some sort of adult related work (sex-presso coffee stands, nude modeling, PSO, camming, porn, etc.) or are very pro-feminism. I like being able to vent with the ladies I know won't turn on me for it.
As for the men, well, I've yet to tell any dudes I'm really close to and not have it blow up in my face. They really do think I'm a quick lay when they find out, even if they've known me for years. Dudes already treat me like a piece of tail to catch without knowing I cam. It does not get better by adding sex work to the mix. The one exception to this rule is long-term SOs of close female friends--those dudes tend to find it cool, but aren't weird about it. It's sort of a litmus test on whether or not these dudes get my blessing to date my friends actually, because a dude who starts chasing his lady's friend just because she's pretty/single/in the adult field/what the fuck ever is not a dude to keep around. But I digress....
I keep it from my family only because it would be an awkward couple of days/weeks while they adjusted to the idea of their 'princess' doing amateur porn. I figure they might find out some day (or at least will suspect), but they tend to leave shit alone so long as I'm happy and successful with a plan for my life.
My last job was what taught me not to be too open about shit. The owner knew and so did 2-3 other girls at work. Of those 4 women who knew, total, two I really trusted (owner and a waitress who used to do sex work), one found out because she was listening into the conversation and the last found out because the third girl couldn't keep her mouth shut. Within a few days, I realized every male on the staff knew and they were absolutely eye-balling me like a piece of meat. The manager had the fucking audacity to come up to me at a bar like a week later and try to blackmail me for sex in return for keeping my job. Another male coworker assumed I'd be a quick lay and tried to get me to leave my boyfriend, fuck him, etc., etc., out of no where and then read me the riot act for not going along with it. Total shit show. I went from being one of the most respected waitresses on the staff among the male workers to being the 'slut' they wanted to fuck. Never. Fucking. Again.
So---TL,DR version of that: very close female friends and their SOs know that I cam. Family does not. Will never again share this information freely with strangers/coworkers/casual acquaintances.



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