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    I have my first night this Thursday. I am literally SO nervous...

    When I get really anxious it usually helps to express it in some way rather than bottle it up. I.e., my train got stuck underground the other day and I just turned to the stranger next to me and was like "ugh this gets me so jittery" and rolled my eyes and laughed kinda trying to make light of things. I was wondering if this could work for or against me my first night? Like, if I can kinda giggle and say something like "oh this is my first dance ever, I'm nervous but so happy its with you!" And maybe once or twice ask if he likes what I'm doing ... Would a guy like knowing he's first or knowing that I value his input? Or is it more likely to be that he sees me as not confident or that he doesn't want to waste his money if I'm inexperienced?

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    Hi babe!
    Yes you could use the line 'it's my first night ever.. Wanna come have some fun with me?' And variations of that line, BUT when you take customers for dances, if they know you new and inexperienced, they will try every trick in the book with you. Make sure you just get the money up front for the dance, don't tell them your real personal details like where you live ect, don't give your real phone number out, don't meet them outside the club, or let them touch you innapropriately. Just follow the club rules you get told on the night, you can use the 'I'm new' talk in your conversation to customers on the floor... But don't sit and talk with them for too long, unless they pay you to talk, in which case, a reasonable amount to pay is what is charged in the lap dance room, eg $50 for 3 songs.. When in hustling, I usually ask each customer I walk up to for a dance within the first 30 seconds of meeting them, and I have a high success rate.
    Just a final tip, try to stay completely free of alcohol, if you do drink, don't get drunk, it will not help you make more money in the long run.
    Good luck!!!!!!!!

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    I think it could go either way.

    Some guys like to be with newer dancers who are new to the game, and you should milk your new girl status for as long as possible, but for other guys it's a turn off to have someone who doesn't know yet what they are doing.

    I personally wouldn't ask them if they like it unless you are prepared to deal with dominant customers ordering you around to do it their way. In my mind if they don't like it they will tell me and they if its within reason I'll change up a bit but I can't stand for anyone to give me too many orders while I'm dancing for them.

    Just be confident and use your intuition to spend time with those who do appreciate your time despite being new. If you go during busy shift there will be plenty of customers to practice on while making money at the same time.
    “Cook for him like a housewife, fuck him good like a nympho….pay the rent and the car note, he invests in me like crypto”

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    I just want to add, I agree with the miss.a.01600's comment, I don't think you should ask any customer if they are enjoying the dance you are giving then. Assume they're living every minute of it, because they probably are. A lot of the hustle is trial and error, keep trying different lines and different variations untill you find what hustle works for you. As a general thing tho, men love 'virginal' type strippers, I think you could play it up so much on your first dance you could say to the guy 'it's my first night ever, wanna come pop my lap dance cherry?' Hehe
    Whatever you say, pretend to be really confident.

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    Thanks for the great advice! You are all inspirations

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