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    Does anyone else here purposely ignore the 'camming sucks' thread?

    I feel like if I ever open it and read some of the posts, the negativity and depression will spill over into my cam life and hurt my money. Idk. So I consciously only choose to read the 'camming rocks' thread since I feel inspired and makes me want to go out there and get it too.

    It's one of those things where you redirect your thoughts into the universe and it sends it back to you.



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    I actually enjoy reading the 'Camming sucks' thread. Not because I enjoy reading when girls struggle, I just like it.

    I don't like reading the "Camming rocks' thread because I get upset when others make money and I don't. I have no shame saying this because I'm #petty!
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    Nope I don't. I feel either it motivates me or I feel not as bad if I too am doing terrible.

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    Default Re: Ignoring negativity

    I like reading both camming sucks, and camming rocks.
    I practice LOA, and Witchcraft, so what I read doesn't affect me if I don't let it.
    I read it because camming is so very isolating, and when working solo, I like to check in, esp. if I'm having a really terrible camming day/week.
    Because lots of times, there is some glitch on the sites I work on, that I'm unaware of, or a change with something else that could contribute to the fact that my traffic has disappeared.
    it's just like having a break room at the office, where employees can discuss what's going right or wrong with the job.

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    I haven't read it but only because it is soooo long and it would take a long time to read through lol plus I guess I always felt like I already know what it says since I have a lot of camming sucks days myself!
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    I feel that what helps me the most these days is to just cover my ears and eyes and IGNORE EVERYTHING. I live in a fantasy la la land when it comes to cam and honestly, so far, its worked. I make money every time I log on, and even if its not the greatest amount its still something. I do believe there is something to be said for "willful ignorance" and how it affects the vibrations you put out into the universe. Since ignoring the negativity my camming vibes are always ones of hope and excitement and the money is always there, so most days I ignore everyone complaining and only complain if something really bad has happened or I need to get a bad experience off my chest so that it doesn't fester and turn nasty.

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    The Camming Rocks thread can be inspiring, and the Camming Sucks thread makes you feel like you're not alone in the struggle. Lol. So both threads could be a good thing.
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    Quote Originally Posted by xoprincessremy View Post
    Does anyone else here purposely ignore the 'camming sucks' thread?

    I feel like if I ever open it and read some of the posts, the negativity and depression will spill over into my cam life and hurt my money. Idk. So I consciously only choose to read the 'camming rocks' thread since I feel inspired and makes me want to go out there and get it too.

    It's one of those things where you redirect your thoughts into the universe and it sends it back to you.
    I find the whole concept of 'negativity' to be depressing. (*laughs*)

    I actually enjoy both threads.....my personal philosophy I guess is more Buddhist-style. They have that whole 'non-attachement' thing.

    To put an experience in a 'positive' box or a 'negative' box would be having an attachment to the outcome so instead I just try to take things 'as is' and to roll with the punches.

    Everyone of is different though......if whatever that you are doing is working for you then definitely keep doing it.

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    I don't really follow LOA or the whole positive vs negative thing. I post in Camming Sucks and Camming Rocks. I like to post in and read CS because sometimes I need to vent and when I'm having a bad day its reassuring to know that its not just me. When I'm having great days I'll post in CR. Honestly though I noticed that when I'm having sucky days I avoid the CR thread and when I'm having great days I avoid the CS thread. I post in and read both when needed I guess.
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    I like reading both. I feel it keeps me feeling grounded when I work. If it's a bad day/week I know that next week will be better and I'm not alone having a bad streak. If I'm doing well that day/week it makes me motivated to keep going and not take it for granted, but rather take advantage of the traffic for me. It's good to read something polarized of what I'm going through to keep me in check. I use to have this mentality years ago, oh I hit my goal by Wednesday I don't have to keeping going hard the rest of the week. Only to regret it the next week when I'm struggling to get my minimum by the end of the week.

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    I am an LOA slut! Even so, I still read both threads. The sucks thread helps me exercise the ability to change perspective and see the positive and the rocks thread is just a huge inspiration. Negativity is just an annoying habit!
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    I only read it when I am struggling so I know I'm not alone. It makes me feel better in a way. It isn't MY fault. Because it is so hard not to blame yourself when you work 4 hours and only make $30.


    But I get you, sometimes I feel like I'm in a circle jerk of camming is sucking. You have to know when to remove yourself and start being positive.

    I always strive to be an optimist.





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    That quote though!
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    I love this thread right now! All of you ladies are so inspiring to me and my attitude right now. A. We're human. We are prone to habits and worry. So reading CS, expressing negativity, letting go of bad experiences by vocalizing them and talking about them, are all helpful mechanisms to dealing with my depressing/negativity/sadness. But I really, really, really have a bad habit of falling into negativity and sad thoughts. So, I try to deal with my emotions and move on. 30 minutes tops. Whatever. And then move onto something else. Work, a project, hang out with a friend, cook a meal, whatever. I really believe in LOA and positive affirmations so I try to practice them, in order to be effective with it, sometimes you have to drop off the trash bags of negativity that you collect in your life. I hope this made sense! <3
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    Quote Originally Posted by audritwo View Post
    I only read it when I am struggling so I know I'm not alone. It makes me feel better in a way. It isn't MY fault. Because it is so hard not to blame yourself when you work 4 hours and only make $30.


    But I get you, sometimes I feel like I'm in a circle jerk of camming is sucking. You have to know when to remove yourself and start being positive.

    I always strive to be an optimist.
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