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    so i've had an SA profile a few times before and never had any good guys bite.

    I just made a new one last week and have TONS of messages and good prospects and starting to set up dates.

    what i changed this time:

    -put a slightly different location (but i don't think that matters too much when they search cause it's only 20 miles away and i've been getting guys from really far as well)

    -put a little better pics, but not really and only one full body where i'm sitting so that can't be it

    -changed the text, but not that much and the context is the same

    -lied and said i don't have kids ( i think THAT'S IT compared to my last attempt where i said i was a mom, but then again i did a profile many moons ago as a childless college student which i believe they would prefer over childless small business owner)


    i initially just didn't put that i have kids cause i think it's too personal for such a sleazy site, and was planning on telling on the first date. But now i think that's a bad idea. but if i end up getting a good one i think he will hate finding out down the line and i will lose him. maybe 3rd date? i obviously have huge scheduling issues because of being a single mom but i can always say work or whatever.

    i have my first meeting with one guy tomorrow and 2 other ones on monday. What do you guys think?

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    Default Re: need specific sugar daddy/ seeking arrangement advice

    Good luck, there's a lotta salt/crap on the sites, but prob a few gems t/b had.


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    Default Re: need specific sugar daddy/ seeking arrangement advice

    Your personal life is personal. Small businesses are super busy!

    Its only first round of auditions for these guys - to see if any are worthy. Check out their SD potential and then its easier brainstorm a hustle for that specific guy's type

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    Default Re: need specific sugar daddy/ seeking arrangement advice

    good advice. for some reason i have a feeling they won't be too long term anyways as I'm not planning on giving it up. and if i don't see cash fast it'll be over anyways, but i kinda just need a change from the club for a little while.

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    I wouldn't feel bad about not telling them your whole situation. 99% of guys on that site are married/kids/etc and I am sure they are not forthcoming. I would tell them as little about yourself as possible.

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    Default Re: need specific sugar daddy/ seeking arrangement advice

    Blunt answer- I think appearing child-free is why there was more interest.

    My advice...when you explain your parental status at the 1st date, explain that you were concerned about your child's privacy/safety & wanted a chance to discuss that with your date when you met. I mean, what else is that date for, if not "getting to know" eachother.

    I have met older guys (through stripping & private shows) that were appalled that a dancer would bring her kid along with on a dinner date..or they were anxious that the woman was a grifter & was gonna use the kid as a tool to extort/blackmail the guy. The REALITY of life is a lot of single mothers use the adult industry for supplemental income...but the FANTASY that sells is that the beautiful woman will be 100% into the man, with no distractions.

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    Default Re: need specific sugar daddy/ seeking arrangement advice

    if you want a SD, you can't be picky about the guy. i'm not saying that you should forget setting a base amount that you expect from him, just settle in terms of attractiveness- and you'll find your SD in a week. trust me.

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    Default Re: need specific sugar daddy/ seeking arrangement advice

    update: i had a creepy stalker-ish guy that freaked me out majorly so I deleted the account. Ughh that's it for my SD career. Don't wanna end up chopped up in a barrel.

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