so i've had an SA profile a few times before and never had any good guys bite.
I just made a new one last week and have TONS of messages and good prospects and starting to set up dates.
what i changed this time:
-put a slightly different location (but i don't think that matters too much when they search cause it's only 20 miles away and i've been getting guys from really far as well)
-put a little better pics, but not really and only one full body where i'm sitting so that can't be it
-changed the text, but not that much and the context is the same
-lied and said i don't have kids ( i think THAT'S IT compared to my last attempt where i said i was a mom, but then again i did a profile many moons ago as a childless college student which i believe they would prefer over childless small business owner)
i initially just didn't put that i have kids cause i think it's too personal for such a sleazy site, and was planning on telling on the first date. But now i think that's a bad idea. but if i end up getting a good one i think he will hate finding out down the line and i will lose him. maybe 3rd date? i obviously have huge scheduling issues because of being a single mom but i can always say work or whatever.
i have my first meeting with one guy tomorrow and 2 other ones on monday. What do you guys think?



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