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    I met this customer at my old club. I switched clubs and I texted him to visit. He doesn't really spend much. 1 time he spent $40 on dances and said he will give me $100-200 next time. He's been complaining how my new club's lighting is too dark and he hates it there. Every time he comes in, he would make comments like we should go out for a cocktail for happy hour or go to his place and give him a private show. To be honest, I have absolute no interest in doing so if he's not paying me!!! Fast forward to yesterday when he came in for a few drinks. We talked for a bit. Asking me what am I doing tomorrow which is today. I told him I'm working. He said I would stop by today and that he would rather spend money today. Today came.. I didn't work and he never texted me!! He made rude comments like I got love handles, asking me if I ever graduated high school, that I need to take a history class since I don't really know my Asian roots, and where's my Jewish Boyfriend customer. Note: I am 90lbs, 5'1. I don't think I have love handles. I am beyond pissed!!! I think he's upset he can't get me out of the club. What to do next?

    He tried to rent me his apartment. The apartment he rented out to this male stripper friend of his. He later told me it was infested with mice since the guy didn't clean up and left yogurts out.
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    Default Re: RANT: customer playing games with me.

    What a jerk. Do not ever meet this man outside the club. He sounds pissed you wont go out with him. Hes thinking hes not a customer and something more.

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    Write him off. He sounds like so much more trouble than he's worth. Block his number & any other avenues of communication he may have for you. Nxt time he comes in, ignore him. If he approaches you, be clear that you have a living to earn & no time for his bs.

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    just stop talking to him. he's an idiot and not paying enough to put you through that. if he's not spending $300-500 every time he sees you he doesn't deserve your attention.

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    Cut him off. He's a broke ass loser.

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    $40 - hell no amount of money - is worth dealing with annoying and emotionally abusive customers.

    Dude is doing way too much talking and not enough spending.

    Tell him to kick rocks!
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    Default Re: RANT: customer playing games with me.

    Time waster! I'd warn other girls and get him blacklisted.

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    Default Re: RANT: customer playing games with me.

    The mean comments were to try and get you OTC. I had a customer do the exact same thing - down to being super cheap and promising he'd spend big on me outside.

    Dumping them is the best feeling ever

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    Default Re: RANT: customer playing games with me.

    Lol girl, first of all he is way more stress than it's worth..he's not even giving you that much money. Secondly, to me it sounds like his bitching about the club is just a way to manipulate you into meeting outside the club...which btw, someone that petty and anger will not settle for just a dance in the club...and as far as him insulting you, he's upset that he cannot manipulate you, that is all.

    Either don't let it get to you and laugh under your breath while taking his measly amount of money or make room for time and energy for someone who spends more and appreciates what you give them. There is no reason at all to be hung up over some low life..

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    This guy sounds like potential stalker material. (& The requests he has sound so nutty I keep thinking he's trying to pull some elaborate Andy Kaufman-style prank on you....but he's probably 100 percent serious. )

    Tell the club management he makes you uncomfortable & that they should watch him when he comes in. I know from past experience he will move on to harassing another dancer in the same way once he can't get to you anymore.

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    Quote Originally Posted by wednesday86 View Post
    just stop talking to him. he's an idiot and not paying enough to put you through that. if he's not spending $300-500 every time he sees you he doesn't deserve your attention.
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    Default Re: RANT: customer playing games with me.

    NEVER " count " that money that will be coming.
    He only had $40! That's a couple lap dances and a thank you. No more attention should be given at all!
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    He's negging you. Block his number. Forget his cheap ass. I never believe a man when he tells me he is going to spend x amount of money on my next time, until it happens.





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    Quote Originally Posted by miss.a.p1600 View Post
    $40 - hell no amount of money - is worth dealing with annoying and emotionally abusive customers.

    Dude is doing way too much talking and not enough spending.

    Tell him to kick rocks!
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