Hi all, I need advice on something if possible please.
I was at a certain club near my vacation house, I sat at the front row and there was a really pretty dark-haired dancer on stage. She smiled at me and started talking to me, asking me questions about whether or not it was my first time here, etc. Now I can be shy sometimes but I was really enjoying myself and talking to her, and I was thinking of asking her for a dance.
Then, towards the end of our conversation, she must have asked me if I wanted a dance. But, the music in the club was VERY loud so I didn't hear clearly what she said. All I heard was "..... dance....". For some stupid reason, I instinctively yelled "NO", even though I would have loved to have a dance from her. She looked shocked, said "ok", and then turned away. When she began dancing, she would acknowledge and smile at all the other customers at the table, but would always ignore me. I tried to tip her a lot, and she would take my money, but she never once again smiled at me or talked to me. In fact, she would purposefully flirt with the two guy next to me for long periods of time, even though they weren't tipping, and ignore me. Man it just felt terrible.
I wanted to explain to her the situation and tell her I didn't mean to offend her, but I just can't find the words for it. I'm thinking of going to the club again this week. How should I apologize to her? Because honestly I find her very attractive and she was the first girl at the club to talk to me, and what happened that night really left a bad taste in my mouth and I want to fix it.



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'WTF?' Just go back in & explain the error, if loudness in the club is a chronic problem (I have worked in many where it was) then she should understand.

(Still have no idea why tf I did that). I think I'll ask for a VIP first like the rest of you said and then once we're in there I'll tell her that she's super hot and that I didn't hear her clearly the 1st time, and that when I said "No" I actually meant "Yeeeees pleeeeese" xD.
She was actually a little bit apologetic but it's all good between us now and we had a great convo. Thanks again to all who helped.

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