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    Background: I've been to many strip clubs around my home area (DC. MD) and every time I go I feel like i'm a god with all the attention and dancers coming up to me chattin w/e. Even multiple times I've gotten numbers with first time I enter from dancers ( I never hit them up cause I figure its just them being friendly or w/e).

    Fast Forward, I just got out of a relationship with my GF cause I moved to Charlotte. So I'm like fuk it let me see how the gentleman clubs are out here, so I go to one downtown. Its Monday night so im not expecting too much, but DAMN. Its pretty dead, but I expected this, however, im not used to a club where there's dancers dancing and nobody is tipping so I throw my bills out (nobody else was throwing money Seriously). Nobody is tipping these dancers so I guess they get their money from conversation or w/e.

    I go to the bar to get some drinks, see if I can chat with a dancer or w/e... not a single dancer approaches. I've never felt so fukn shitty in my life where I can't even get a dancer to approach me and make conversation.

    I had multiple hundreds to spend, just never had the opportunity to.

    Tonight is the first time I have ever been to a strip club and felt THE most repulsive dude in the world, not the reason I go in there for...i'm in a shitty state right now. fuk me

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    Default Re: Worst SC experience in my life

    It happens. Maybe the girls in there were all in a bad mood and didn't want to approach because they felt discouraged by the slow night? I know sometimes when I would work, and the night was incredibly slow, I would tend to "give up" and stop approaching the men because I felt like "why bother?" If I'm not making any money for hours and hours, it can be draining and I just get exhausted and stop approaching the men. It sucks when this happens though, because then both the dancer and the potential spending customer lose out. If this happens again, though, try approaching one of the girls yourself. Don't take it personally that noone approached you during your time at the bar. How long where you sitting at the bar? Did hours and hours go by and noone approached you? Or was it only half an hour? You just got out of a relationship, so you are in a fragile state. I understand how you must feel. But don't take it personally, because your state of mind is only exacerbating your experience.

    Don't let this one experience ruin strip clubs for you. Sorry you felt bad about it. Maybe try visiting another club, and don't be shy about approaching a girl yourself.
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    Working most of my career in the SE I can tell you that Charlotte is a great place to be. When you tip a girl more than $2 (Charlottle thing) just tell her that you want to spend time with her. My transition from the north to the south took a while to get used to but now I love working down here! Just be more upfront with the dancers; tell them you appreciate their stage show or that you want to spend more time with them in private.

    I've met some amazing women the last 14 years down here and I'm sure you will too! Ask for her time, with compensation, a drink/tip, a dance, something. The biggest difference may be the laws. Ask the dancer or host or bouncer so you don't insult the woman b/c the laws are written quite a bit different from state to state. Try again, I've met some amazing women down south and I'm sure you will too as long as you are respectful to the staff! Heck, try asking the staff for their fav, if you don't have a specific type, you could meet your ATF wtih a referral or meet several women that you want to spend time with throughout your time in Charlotte.
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    Aw, well it's not your fault that the girls didn't approach you, especially when you were tipping, that;s just their shit hustle. Try a different club, one where the girls are more friendly, maybe.

    The other girls are right on here, it's ok to approach us, we are not too scary

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    Perhaps you were intimidating?
    an attractive guy can be the hardest to approach for many girls

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    @Scarlet I was at the bar probably about an hour to an hour-30, I really tryna give them the benefit of the doubt

    I was talking to a dancer on stage and she told me she would talk to me in a lil (she was trying to entertain some guy that said he would give her 400) but a little too much time went by for me so I left

    @Dakota I love Charlotte, I know I more than likely need to approach, however, I just wasnt in the state of mind to do so. Normally when I got to the club the females were the ones that were aggressive so it caught me off guard on how timid they were

    @NightGoddess I know you guys are cool, but damn, if i wanted to always approach and chase i would stick to the bars and supermarkets where im the lion, somtimes I want to be the gazelle

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    Quote Originally Posted by sophianz View Post
    Perhaps you were intimidating?
    an attractive guy can be the hardest to approach for many girls
    Sounds about right

    I got to the gym 5x a week and take care of my self, just to be disregarded by females

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    Yeah basically lol.
    If it is any consolation, it goes both ways-women get it too.

    The reason I say this is I have literally heard "Omg he's too hot...someone else go talk to him!" or variations of that hundreds of times.

    Makes no sense, but us humans are funny creatures

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ekko View Post
    damn, if i wanted to always approach and chase i would stick to the bars and supermarkets where im the lion, somtimes I want to be the gazelle
    Great analogy! Lol. I agree with nightgoddess these broads would be swallowed alive and sent home broke at the club I work. Some girls do the "stuck up b*tch hustle" and rarely approach unless known whale comes in but this hustle only works for girls who are mega hot and the club is packed with spenders. Slow nights like that they can't afford to be too picky or choosy. You should travel to other clubs if you can. Or go back on a different night.
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    I wouldn't assume it had anything to do with you personally. If it was that dead the dancers could have been over the night completely or maybe the customers who WERE there were their regulars. Maybe they didn't see you tip and assumed you were just there for drinks. I highly doubt it had anything to do with how you look or you being 'repulsive'.

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    Never change, OP. I've worked in clubs where the customers would straight up insult the dancers when they approached. (Hint- there's a reason some Midwestern states call single, creepy men "sheep fuckers.")

    A good icebreaker is to hand a tip to a girl as she walks by, it gives her the signal that you understand how things go, and that you want to be approached.

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    Default Re: Worst SC experience in my life

    Obviously you went on a bad night and to me, it sounds like you were in the wrong club. If you were throwing money at these girls, and were the only one doing so, they definitely should have approached you. I know I would have! It's probably a club with ''princess'' type hustlers, the dancers who aren't really friendly and don't approach guys or make an effort. They act like spoiled princesses who expect to be chased and approached all night by guys, without any effort on their part. You should check out online reviews for other clubs in your area, one with friendlier dancers.

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