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Tread carefully, keep your eyes open, and cover your ass by getting it in writing and notarized.
"Fake tits are like Kevlar. They don't guarantee your chances of survival but they sure as hell improve it."
Tempest



^????? I'm not sure why you would notarize a sugar baby arrangement, which is exactly what it sounds like he is offering you. No man in his right mind would ever do that, unless he is into fin-dom.
Good luck girl, I suggest going on a date and asking for a gift to know how serious he is. Read Ho Tactics, that book changed my life.
I have experience as a SB, and it's a lot of fun if you get a good one.




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Don't be intimidated by the money. If he wanted to date someone in his same tax bracket, he would. He likes YOU because you're awesome at your job and he wants to pay you $$$$ for it! Plus, it's not always as simple as being the prettiest or whatever. We all have so many more qualities beyond that.
In fact, since he comes from such a hugely wealthy background, it's likely that he finds you more appealing because you haven't been treating him like a big bag of money. You know how when you're dating, 99% of guys are like, "OMG U R STRIPPER sex/marry me pls" So then when you do meet guys who are nbd about it, it's like, mind-blowing? (Or is that just me?) Either way, when seemingly everyone always has this strong reaction to you, it's really refreshing to meet those few people who treat you like a normal person.
So yeah, just chillax and get money, girl.




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When I lived in the city surrounded by wealthy men. Somehow it was easy cause they offered and I didn't have to do much asking.
But in case he doesn't offer $$$$ and you have to ask then You could always start with small things and work your way up for instance
Have him arrange for a towncar to pick you up and take you to dinner / his place
Make sure the restaurant is 4 or 5 star
Suggest a trip to the mall and get him to buy something for you
Then when you are in person put on the biggest pouty face, bat your eyelashes, all while exuding your sensuality - so when in comes time to ask for money / stipend it will be very hard for him to say anything but yes.
Channel your inner Anna Nicole
“Cook for him like a housewife, fuck him good like a nympho….pay the rent and the car note, he invests in me like crypto”





Get as much as you can up front. Giving you that should be like a literal drop in the bucket of the sea of wealth this guy has access to.......Keep in mind you can be replaced in a literal eyeblink-nanosecond so don't be shy about this.




I was in a very similar situation as you. I met a big wig CEO of a Fortune 500 company and he was my sugar daddy for over a year. I really got lucky because he was the SWEETEST, most fun guy to be around! I genuinely liked him and he LOVED me! I felt it easy to be around him, and that's what made me stand out from all the other gold digging whores he used to see. A man like that is used to women feeling intimidated by him, and acting insecurely and trying too hard. I didn't have to try with him because I saw him as an amazing human being and treated him like one. We laughed a lot, he loved my sense of humor and thought I was sweet and easygoing. And we had fun! That's the key to making him stick around, act like he's an old friend who you love being around so it doesn't feel too much like a serious arrangement. Have fun with him, make him laugh and make him feel like he can be himself around you. Don't be too demanding or needy (at least not in the beginning) but make sure he takes good care of you.DO NOT ever bring up the word sugar daddy! If he asks what your intentions are, just say I want to have some fun with you, I like you as a person and think we can have fun together. Never let him know just how much you know about him. Act like you don't know how rich he really is, and you don't really care. He'll love that.
Being too nice will not work, and going to his house hoping he will pay you will most likely end up being a waste of your time, you need to make sure your gonna get what you want from him b4 you take time out of your schedule to go to him and end up disappointed in the end. who cares if your replaced with someone who isn't gonna make your life better anyways , he wants to show u his gym and clothes, um hello, he needs to buy u a new wardrobe fuck his closet.lbs. He's trying to run game on you, probably thinks cuz ur a stripper ur thirsty, I get this all the time too. I am only into hanging out with guys I meet ITC for $$ and nothing else so I make sure I'm gonna get what I want before seeing them. Id suggest a shopping trip to start with and go to chanel, gucci, louis, prada, etc. I sell most of the shit n keep some cause I really don't want all the clothes I want the $$ and I want a lot of it especially if I know they have it. If you go over to a hundred million air's house and don't get paid, your a sucker, sorry to be so blunt but its true girl! U know his money is long so make it clear u need a piece of it, he won't mind if he's got it and wants u bad enough if not, on to the next!




Yes! I am willing to give it a try, of course his fortune plays a big role but I also genuinely enjoy his company and he's one of the few regulars I am always excited to see. I am telling myself, afterall he's simply a man, I don't have to be so nervous around him, just act like it's a regular date with a good looking guy and it will flow naturally. The first couple of times I saw him, the hours went by so easily and smoothly as I was just being myself before knowing who he is. The last two times, it felt forced and I think I tried a little too hard, don't know if he noticed it. I have to put his status and wealth in the back of my mind, it'll really ease me up and help calm me down, it's hard though lol.
He's so gorgeous and in great shape, I wouldn't mind sleeping with him at all LOL. In fact, I want to! But I have never done this before and I don't know how to go on about this! A girl told me to hold off sex for as long as I can, but she only has ugly sugar daddy she would never want to sleep with. Should I make him wait and let him chase me or give in ? He's a busy CEO, when he's in town he comes see me more than once a week but he's always travelling, when he's off on a plane he only comes back after 3-4 weeks. Not sure if he has time to play mind games or just wants to pay and get what he wants, straightforward and without complication, like an escorting date.
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Your advice is so helpful girls! Thank you so much
I have no one to ask these questions to and I'm so grateful this forum exists.




When it comes to sex, again, go with the flow. It will come naturally to you both, especially since you are both attracted to each other. See where the passion takes you. Im not against sex on the first date in these types of relationships. Sex will be a big part of your arrangement so the sooner you do it the better. Successful men don't really like mind games or beating around the bush/wasting time. so it's best to do it soon not make him wait for it. It sounds like he's already waited for it by being your regular at the club. Just make sure he takes good care of you on your date so that you know he's deserving and will give you what you are worth (which I'm sure he will).




One more thing; make the sex more playful and passionate than an escort would. Lead him into it, make it fun. Of course make sure you get what you want before hand. Once that's out of the way, just enjoy it as if it were a real date. Flirt, be provocative, etc.
Yea you could say that but I always feel like it sounds too escortish so thats y I say shopping first cause the places I shop at are so expensive when I sell that stuff Ill have a nice amnt of $$ and then the guy feels like its more of a date and he's not paying for you by the hour kind of thing, but Id like to hear other smooth ideas on how to make sure you both understand that you will be paid one way or another before you take time out of your day to see him if anyone has anything? The taking the night off of work thing is good too but when he gives u all different days he can see you it confuses shit. You could say Im kinda depressed I cannot pay rent this month I just don't have time right now and when I do I'm not in the mood (sad face) and thats his que to say how much is your rent ill pay it? and u say um 5000$ or whatever u want… If he promises to pay it, make sure u get it before your "date" starts so if you do end up having sex or something at the end of the date he cannot say, oh I didn't go to the bank today sorry… or sum bs. Ive did this b4 and said i needed school books paid 4 asap or id not be able to take classes.lol
^^btw, school books r 4 guys without this kind of $$, school tuition however is..
Any city I am in, I am automatically enrolled at the most expensive school in that city (so I tell them) lol, just in case this kind of a scenario comes up.





Remember my mantra:
"It doesn't matter how much money he has, it matters how much money he is willing to spend"
Also, its not about how much time you can keep him for but how well you can be paid for the time you spend with him, that includes compensation for the energy invested in thinking about him (and how you're going to keep him interested). Maintenance costs, perhaps eventually being on call to be available to his hours (but i actually think stick to your own schedule as much as possible or you will risk burning out). Save, save, save!
Just go back to my mantra and keep repeating it to yourself xx




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Shopping is a really good idea though, but I'd rather get cash lol
Operate from a mind set of self-confidence and abundance: Don't think about all the other models that he can be dating. Think about how awesome you are, and all the reasons he chose you. Ask for what you want (whatever $ amount you feel comfortable accepting for your time and services) and feel comfortable asking for it EVEN if the dollar amount seems high to you. Remember that YOU are the prize here. He is clearly smitten by you, so walk with that self-confidence.
It is very easy to be intimated when you find yourself in the company of the highest classes of men. Last year I met a gorgeous, very wealthy NFL player. I freaked out after Googling his net worth, and realized I was playing in the "big leagues" now... Lol. Anyways, I started to doubt myself, why he would want me.... etc..... He picked up on my lack of self-confidence and our relationship soon ended. It's imperative to get comfortable interacting with men like these. Don't turn your back on the tools that got his attention in the first place. Clearly, you've been doing something right.
Don't overanalyze the situation. It usually leads to unnecessary worry. Be confident, have fun, know your worth, and get that money. By far, one of the hardest lessons I've had to learn so far in this game.
"I'm trying to get Boston George and Diego money/And stack it all up like Lego money....."
I know right! Cash is the best but plan b go shopping and have him buy for you. If you get him to buy stuff with high value (ex luxury handbags, brand name clothing, etc.) - you can then return to the store for cash refund (places with generous return policies) or you can use a couple times, then easily resell on eBay, get a paypal debit card - and voila instant funds. There are a couple ladies on here that have experience selling online that can help you.
Nevermind. I just re read and notice your mind set on the cash. I would be too it's easier that way. Wish men could read our mind and offer it up but unfortunately most them suck at it and you will have to ask.
Just be confident and ask flat out. If you are too nervous to do it in person then ask via text or email perhaps along with a cute flirty pic. But be ready to delete his number if he denies your request.
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