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    Put it this way...to this day I have never regretted letting go of a hustle.
    Some were very wealthy too.
    I go by the idea that it is only worth it if you are invested in "the game" (which is half the fun)
    If not, keep doing you...you sound like you are already doing well and you dont really need it anyways.
    You have your school stuff, stripping etc etc-sometimes it is nice when things are simple and no one is blowing up your phone with their demanding BS

    I would suggest cold shoulder him, say nothing, and be unavailable (-I reckon if he is what I think he is) ...he will drop bombs on you at the club next time he comes in. Stay very reserved if he does though.

    If not, then keep working your legit regs and getting that CASH.

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    What happened? I thought you were, so attracted to him and it was hard for you to not sleep with him. The way he was made him not attractive. Did you sleep with him?

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    I say troll him. "Keep in touch" and rave about the new guys you are dating. Make him jealous.

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    He's obviously trying to " turn " the power and play a game trying not to pay for your time. I hope it works out ( well enough ) for you !
    Quote Originally Posted by xStacey View Post
    His gift was cheap and actually cost less than what he pays to spend an hour at the club with me, did not talk about an arrangement or offer to compensate me for my time at all and he was saying it's refreshing being with someone who's not with him for his money!

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    If he is interested , he needs to make it worth your time. I think it's nice that he is *somewhat* honest that he doesn't intend to do the girlfriend thing, but it still doesn't make the offer remotely worthwhile to YOU! If he isn't offering girlfriend status and he isn't compensating you for your time .... He's just wasting it.

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    IMO this guy is just unrealistic. One of my former flames (a military officer) told me "he would never pay for it (sex.)" Ten years later the same guy was cheating on his wife & calling me up for a booty call, thinking I still cared. Ha!!!
    Some guys think they are "too good" for this or that, whether they came out of the ghetto or a rich lady's vagina. Obviously this guy you know got the "gold digger" memo. But nothing should let him think he going to get pussy for free. Oh hell no.

    Extra pro-tip- get one of your friends to romance him, then dump him. Then come back and see if he's softened up.

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    Quote Originally Posted by xStacey View Post
    Yeah he was looking for a friend with benefits. He's very smart, Ivy League graduate, zoezoebelle's post was right, he's VERY good at manipulating people. I really doubt I'd be able to successfully manipulate him or make him fall in love with me so easily. I don't know who his ex-wife is, but his brother who's around the same age is married to a woman who's Executive Chair, President, Director of multiple international financial corporations, not just a pretty face profitting from her husband money.

    I am educated and smart for my young age but I felt like such an idiot when we were talking over dinner. He would talk about history, antics, paintings, old literature, subjects I have absolutely no interest in and am not at all knowledgeable! Maybe I underestimated how easy this would be.
    So I don't know shit about sugar daddies, but I know a little bit about people, and you should definitely not feel like an idiot about not knowing what he was talking about. Do you suppose he expected you to know about old literature and history? It's not that there aren't super-educated strippers out there, I know a few, but that's not why guys talk to us. We're not expected to know anything about anything, and I think we've all had guys walk away when we come off as a little too educated and clever.

    I'd bet all my money that if you'd been able to converse with him on these subjects, he would actually have been very disappointed. He didn't bring them up expecting scintillating conversation on the subject of business or art, he wanted to impress you. He wanted to make you feel like you were incredibly lucky to be out on a date with such a sophisticated, worldly gentleman as himself. So lucky you'd fuck him for little or nothing.

    He doesn't want someone from his own world: if he's as wealthy and pedigreed as we suspect, he'd have no trouble making a match with some Ivy League girl whose interests include dressage and modern art. He wants some wide-eyed hot thing to be very impressed by him and grateful for his attention. Some girl who won't challenge him, someone he can feel superior to.

    So you already have what he wants. You have the "ooh, I didn't know that!"and the "You're so smart!" and the "I'd love to go to that art exhibit, even though you'll have to explain it all to me! But I don't have anything to wear..."

    I don't think the situation sounds hopeless at all, but even if you don't pursue it you shouldn't feel inferior to this dude. So he's educated, so what? He's looking for validation from you. That means you've got all the power.

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    I think you're absolutely right about everything. He tried very hard to impress me,
    with his intelligence, showing me pictures from his travels, his cottage, views from the nicest hotels in the world... He was expecting me to date and sleep with him for free and just be happy I was along for the ride. His gift was very cheap, he did not have any intention of compensating me and when I did ask him to compensate me for my time, he did but I haven't heard back from him since lol. Before I asked him to pay me he was talking about how excited he was about our next date.

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    Quote Originally Posted by xStacey View Post
    I think you're absolutely right about everything. He tried very hard to impress me,
    with his intelligence, showing me pictures from his travels, his cottage, views from the nicest hotels in the world... He was expecting me to date and sleep with him for free and just be happy I was along for the ride. His gift was very cheap, he did not have any intention of compensating me and when I did ask him to compensate me for my time, he did but I haven't heard back from him since lol. Before I asked him to pay me he was talking about how excited he was about our next date.
    Tell him you have a boyfriend……and say no to the next date

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    Well at least you have experience for next time. Some of these wealthy guys really are jerks but who knows maybe you two were just on different pages (especially about the compensation part) and it could be something you could learn from this to make the next situation more to your satisfaction. Best of luck for your next wealthy man hustle!
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