Let me rephrase...do " People" ever change?( don't want to make this a men's only issue)
ive had people tell me " men get better with age..."
but what I don't get is why wait years apon years( I'm talkin 7-8 years) for someone to change? Shouldn't that person have treated you somewhat good from the get go?
Im not perfect either , but we're talking huge red flags that barely changed within the last 2 years
and now I feel it doesn't matter I will always have resentment
would love to go into detail but yea....... Trolls



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......he's made so many changes..I just wish I wasn't the one that pushed so hard to change him...I wish this was done on his own will..like I said do people change??? Obviously I have!!!! I'm older and more mature now not a barely legal 18 year old (when I met him) there's too much resentment even if he turned into Prince Charming I would still be angry...



It literally depends on where you are as well in your life. Your life is always a reflection of who you are and where you are at, as are your good and bad choices, especially when it comes to companions. Personally when I met my ex I was not even half the person I am today. Today none of that ish would slide with me, but back then it did because I thought I deserved shitty treatment. If you haven't grown out of that, then you get trapped.


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