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    Hey I'm new here so would like to say hello to everyone! My question is about Financial Domination and how commonplace this is in clubs (either in the States or here in the UK). I have been into this scene for over 5 years and served an online Financial Domme.. but have always wanted to try to experience it for real in a club ie a dominant dancer who dominates me financially.

    I have no idea how I would even spot a dancer who was dominant or who was into Financial Domination (I read somewhere that most guys who go to clubs like to be calling the shots.. not the other way around) whereas I'm really shy and submissive and would love a dancer to take charge and be ruthless with me.. but I have no idea how you would even know which dancer to mention this to or how the dancer would pick up on the guy wanting this?

    I used to spend silly amounts when doing online Financial Domination.. being financially drained on cam or buying videos from Dommes. The Domme who I served also used to sell me worn panties for big bucks.. and I really enjoy being financially depleted by sexy, dominant women. And I think wow wouldn't it be great to go to a club and find a dancer who would do something similar to what these online Dommes do via cam or video.

    As a sidenote.. I wonder if there are any dancers who have crossed into online work with vids or cam? From what I can gather via social media there are very few who work also online.

    Best wishes, from Paul

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    Gosh, I wish you were in the US. I would take every penny and we could have so much fun.

    There are very few dancers that would have a problem doing what you want. You may want to watch a few dancers, you can usually pick up on their attitude or way they act fairly quick. Some dancers would be able to pick up on your needs with observation, but that could take time if less experienced ladies keep sitting with you first. Or you could just ask someone in the club who they think would best suit your needs. You could actually let her know your boundries up front and get to business within 15 minutes by asking.

    As for dancers that cam, they exist. They don't usually advertise both at the same time to avoid stalkers.

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    I'm sure you'll find a dancer who'd love to bleed your wallet dry. Just ask. Ask the dancers if anyone there is a domme or have experience. You can also pick up on dominance. If you feel like one is, take her to VIP and talk more there about it. See if they have any experience in it. Like I said, it probably won't be hard because if you mention financial domination, their eyes will flash £.£ and they will be all about it.





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    I perform actual domination/humiliation in the club. I wear a lot of black and wear corsets/ sexed up power suits to attract the kind of customer who is seeking to be dominated. I'm unfamiliar with financial domination. Could you direct me to some links about this form of domination?

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    Thank you so much for the comments!

    - You sound great! That is exactly what I want from a dancer.. someone who will be cool with taking every penny I have. I would find that so very sexy. Thank you also for the great advice!

    And thank you also - Im not sure who I could ask in a club ie would a girl recommend another girl? I think my fear is mentioning it and the dancer not knowing what I was talking about. I guess most of the guys who go to clubs like calling the shots and so I feared that a dancer wouldn't be used to dealing with a guy who was submissive who actually wanted her to bleed him dry.

    For - that sounds really cool.. and I guess it makes it a lot easier for the customers who like domination to seek you out. Sure I can find you some infomation on Financial Domination.. thats no problem at all.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Paulunitedkingdom View Post
    Im not sure who I could ask in a club ie would a girl recommend another girl? I think my fear is mentioning it and the dancer not knowing what I was talking about. I guess most of the guys who go to clubs like calling the shots and so I feared that a dancer wouldn't be used to dealing with a guy who was submissive who actually wanted her to bleed him dry.
    Just pull up your pants and ask. You can also ask the bouncers, DJ, bartender, waitresses, ect. You can't expect to get what you want without putting a little effort in it.





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    audritwo - Thanks! I guess I was nervous about making myself look silly by asking the wrong person.. but if I dont ask I wont know.. so I will just have to be brave!

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    come to PA! I have many dancer friends who would love to do that for you. Or, PM me your number, she shall order you to fly her and her friends down there for a week and order you around. One of my friends specializes in fin dom

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    come to PA! I have many dancer friends who would love to do that for you. Or, PM me your number, she shall order you to fly her and her friends down there for a week and order you around. One of my friends specializes in fin dom

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tourdefranzia View Post
    I perform actual domination/humiliation in the club. I wear a lot of black and wear corsets/ sexed up power suits to attract the kind of customer who is seeking to be dominated. I'm unfamiliar with financial domination. Could you direct me to some links about this form of domination?
    http://www.answers.com/Q/What_is_financial_domination
    http://www.vice.com/read/financial-d...pensive-fetish

    When I do it in club, I kind of roll with the flow of things. I'm not a total bitch (unless that is what the customer wants), but the guy definitely knows who is in charge. I make him pay for all drinks/meals for myself and any other dancers I like. Tell him when and how much money to give me to watch me got to stage to tip. I expect frequent tips or I make them go to CR for a few hours. If I haven't been tipped in a while I'll mention that it is time to tip or I will ignore him the rest of the night. If it gets to that point (which rarely happens) he has to give me ALL he has in his wallet for me to acknowledge him again.

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    Every time I see one of these threads, I feel a little dumber for spending money in a strip club. I think I'm gonna just start coming in for the steak special on Friday, and just stage tip.

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    Quote Originally Posted by gameover View Post
    Every time I see one of these threads, I feel a little dumber for spending money in a strip club. I think I'm gonna just start coming in for the steak special on Friday, and just stage tip.
    If you feel dumb for spending money in a strip club then why keep going lol. It just makes you dumber in your own words.

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    If you're not into the fetish you will find it odd.. I admit. But you only have to look online for how popular Financial Domination has become. I can't really explain the thrill of it.. except to say it is such a rush. For example I lost a couple hundread today in a cam room with a Domme.. it was simply teasing (no nudity) whilst she demanded tributes. Then afterwards in emailed discussions she's now sold me her panties. A lot of guys who visit a cam site just want to get off as cheaply as they can and log off.. so they would look at some like me and say that's weird.. but I really enjoyed it. I also enjoyed her telling me what she was going to do with the money she had just taken from me.

    Im really encouraged by the replies I have receieved on here.. and how positive people have been to say yes go and embrace it.. and we would do that for you! Its really encouraged me to do something I was always too shy to do before.. to go to clubs and see if something similar could be done in the setting of an establishment.. rather than online via cam etc. I also love the idea of spoiling these dancers and showing my appreciation.. I am in nothing but awe at how skilled they are.. and I geuninely enjoy the thought of them going home happy with a purse full of cash.. and if thats in any small way to do with me then thats even better.

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    I live on the east coast in the United States and have looked for a while for something similar but haven't found it. As you stated most guys want to be in charge but I'm the opposite. I really want to find a dancer that will just force money out of me during an intense lapdance. I try to drop hints because it's uncomfortable for me to bring up but hopefully I figure it out.

    Once when I was hammered in another state I found a dancer who was all about it but the next time I was back in town she no longer worked there.

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    Cohle. Where in east coast. I know a few girls who knows the game

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    Quote Originally Posted by pinups4 View Post
    Cohle. Where in east coast. I know a few girls who knows the game
    Connecticut, about 40 min from NYC. I know there's tons of girls in NYC that advertise fin dom but none of them are really dancers. They just want to verbally do financial domination but aren't actually girls from a club that will be doing a lapdance during it. Or sometimes they have no experience doing lapdances at all.

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    Willing to visit eastern pa or bring her to you?

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    I would....I'm not trying to be a dick but it depends on what she looks like though. I appreciate your help though man.

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    Cohle - Its good to hear another guy totally gets it. You're right in what you say about most of the guys going into these clubs want to be the ones in charge.. and so I think the dancers themselves aren't that used to having a super submissive guy who yes wants a dance but also just wants her to take and take and take his money also. Its cool that you did find a dancer who did this to you.. but its a pity that she no longer worked at the establishment when you went back there for another wallet emptying session.

    The dancers on this forum have been great though.. and I think from what they have said if you actively go looking for it and really try and find a dancer who is naturally dominant then she will be more than happy to take your money. The tricky party comes from having to work out (if you're too afraid to ask) which one of the dancers would be happy to do this for you.. and who genuinely enjoys it ie someone whos not simply doing it cos you asked for it and doesnt really 'get it'.. I realise not everyone is familiar with the fetish and some think its downright odd.

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    Exactly, you have to ask. You need that communication. Communication between subs and doms is important. How can each other expect to get their needs met, if they don't ask? People are not clairvoyant, and dropping hints usually doesn't get it. You need to have that conversation.

    I know, we ladies can be awfully scary, but we are here to make YOUR fantasies come true.





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    Ahh, Financial Domination. The only fetish that dancers do without even realizing they are doing it. It truly is the logical conclusion (and extreme end) of a dancer "seducing" money out of a customer.
    Seriously though, as previous posters have said, I would agree wholeheartedly that pretty much all dancers would jump at the chance to be FinDommes to a custy.
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    I don't care what customers think. I care about separating them from their wallet.
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    audritwo - Great points.. I think it is about being brave and actually asking. I think it doesnt help that guys who are into this (me included) are naturally pretty shy but as you say dancers are not mind-readers.. and it seems (going by the replies here) that most dancers would be happy to find a customer who is into Financial Domination so would be cool with doing that with him.

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    I smell a money-slave.
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    I'm in the east coast, just incase.

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    Hahaha!
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