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    Default How to handle a request for a 2 day appointment?

    I have a client I have seen many times over the years want to meet for 2 days on the west coast. For me, I prefer shorter times since I am not gfe and like to meet for short periods of time. My overnight is typically only 8 hours long for 5,000. The client was quoting 4,000 per day for 24 hours for 2 days. The man is great but I am not the type of person who can go through 24 hours like a girlfriend with a client and go around town. I'm pse and it's too draining for me. It also seems like he won't be paying for the flight and I will be at his hotel. Ughh so many things I just normally don't do but I do need the cash since I have unpaid taxes coming up soon that I was not aware of. Is what I am asking for reasonable for 8 hours each day and having separate rooms? It never was a problem when people asked me about my overnight dates in the past...I just don't want to upset him as well because I did agree to seeing him.

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    Default Re: How to handle a request for a 2 day appointment?

    I assume by the lack of responses something is not good? Any help with this? I really hate to turn down money like this but I know comfort is important to me and I have only done 1 public outing with a client so it is a big deal to me to do an overnight with a person since it's very rare.

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    Default Re: How to handle a request for a 2 day appointment?

    ARGH! WTF!
    I wrote out a huge reply for you yesterday and its not on here FFS.
    The site went down for a bit yesterday so I think it may be due to that.

    Ok quick recap:
    **own room is a MUST.
    **flights paid is a MUST or you raise your rate to absorb the costs. (He can't have it both ways, in the real world costs are passed on NOT absorbed)

    tell him its because you want to primp and be pretty for him for the day ahead, you dont want him to see you all gross in the morning.
    He will let you have your space when he knows its for his benefit and you are thinking of him.

    Say it in person, or on the phone -not via text.
    Keep it sweet and genuine, Which is actually the truth.

    Tell him you dont want to ruin the mystery

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    Default Re: How to handle a request for a 2 day appointment?

    Quote Originally Posted by indiegirl View Post
    I assume by the lack of responses something is not good? Any help with this? I really hate to turn down money like this but I know comfort is important to me and I have only done 1 public outing with a client so it is a big deal to me to do an overnight with a person since it's very rare.
    So sleepovers in the same bed as him is a no?

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    Default Re: How to handle a request for a 2 day appointment?

    It depends on your comfort level with the guy - many guys are into snuggling as part of their experience - but agree with person above - he is low balling you based on your normal rate- the extra room for me would depend on what his plans are - is he going to be gone all day for business?? if he is and I needed the money I dont know that I would let that stop me - I would suggest offering him two packages to choose from depending on his plans - and sweetly explain to him your normal rate and maximum extended hours but since he is soooo sweet and special you will make an exception for him -

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    Default Re: How to handle a request for a 2 day appointment?

    If he is a baby about that-You "sleep" over-then retire to your own room after he is asleep.
    You will both have a better sleep.
    you need that morning time. Get up early and get to work before he is awake.

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