Something I've been running into lately: the Bullshit Excuse. It's not a "no, not right now" or even a "no, I'm not getting dances today." It's "No, I purposefully left my wallet in the car so I wouldn't get dances" or the "No, I didn't bring credit cards." Yes, you did. That's how you're buying beer. You are lying.
And that's fine, except that once they use the Bullshit Excuse, they feel like they can't go back on it. So I circle around an hour later, they've had more beers, they're ready to dance, but if they dance with you then you know they're lying, so they don't.
Has anyone encountered this? And is there any way to get past it once it's been thrown down?



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