I've been dancing a little while now, and the dancing itself seems to go fine, but I am absolutely the worst at small talk. I usually have a more relaxed hustle - introduce myself, talk a bit before bringing up a dance, and even talking to the guy for a minute after I'm done dancing (if I like him). I tried to hustle harder on my last shift by speeding up introductions and then saying, "let's go dance," and it resulted in some of the most awkward interactions I've ever had. So I figure the nice girl hustle works better for me, at least for now. But I have NO IDEA what to talk about with these guys after the basics are covered, and it results in kind of a lull. What do you guys talk about to keep customers interested?
This especially becomes a problem in VIP. In my club, we don't get a cut of the VIP fee, so we generally just charge per dance or come up with our own rate for 30 minutes/1 hour. Are you expected to dance the entire time back there? Because that is exhausting. But talking to the same customer for 30 minutes straight can be pretty tiring too.
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