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    Travel Advice: Switching to Urban from Upscale

    I searched the forum and didn't see any threads based on this subject with recent info, so I figured I'd make a new one!

    I started dancing last year and have been working in upscale mostly white gown clubs and webcamming. While I have been making consistent and decent money, I really want to switch to just a black/urban club and also start travel dancing.

    Being the token black girl is not something I necessarily want to deal with or tolerate everyday on my job, especially since I'm my own boss. It was something I had to eat and accept in my vanilla jobs (retail, food), and would rather not if I'm calling my own shots. I've learned that being the token sometimes it works in my favor, sometimes it doesn't. I also think as a petite girl wearing a gown/dress is the least sexy thing I can do for my body, and want to pick out my own sexy lingerie everyday that I work lol. Being petite in white clubs has been a blessing, but in black clubs it seems to be a curse.

    I've been trying to audition at a few clubs in the queens/bronx (sin city, perfections) but they and others have said I was too small for their club. One promoter told me to get plastic surgery and then come back! Does my ass really need to be 40" to even get an audition somewhere? I posted pictures before but I'm 5'1", 104 pounds, 30B, plump booty, petite frame.

    Anyone have advice on switching over, and if there are decent beginner urban clubs in the NYC/NJ/Philly area? Those that are accepting of many different body types? Hell, I'm even willing to travel south on megabus if there are any suggestions?
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    Default Re: Advice: Switching to Urban from Upscale

    If you're not into the dress code of an upscale club and don't have the body type for an urban club, why not try a middle-of-the-road neighbourhood gentleman's club? Although many of them do still have quotas on black dancers, I find that it's not quite as drastic as having one token black dancer. Dress codes are way more chill and lingerie tends to go over pretty well.

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    Daydreams. Smorgasbord of Philly. Literally something for everyone.
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    Default Re: Advice: Switching to Urban from Upscale

    I gave you some suggestions princessony a while ago. Did you try any of the clubs I recommended to you?

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    Default Re: Advice: Switching to Urban from Upscale

    Quote Originally Posted by Nyla19 View Post
    I gave you some suggestions princessony a while ago. Did you try any of the clubs I recommended to you?
    Yeah, I did - thanks again for the suggestions <3 ! I didn't really like the vibes at Scandals or Vixen. I've since found a compromise to my preferences. i'm going to stay upscale for as long as i can stomach it and go urban when i have better pole skills and stage performance. it's business - i can make bank on being a black spinner, might as well lol.
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    Default Re: Advice: Switching to Urban from Upscale

    Quote Originally Posted by princessonyx View Post
    Yeah, I did - thanks again for the suggestions <3 ! I didn't really like the vibes at Scandals or Vixen. I've since found a compromise to my preferences. i'm going to stay upscale for as long as i can stomach it and go urban when i have better pole skills and stage performance. it's business - i can make bank on being a black spinner, might as well lol.
    Great! I'm happy you're doing well.

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