I searched the forum and didn't see any threads based on this subject with recent info, so I figured I'd make a new one!
I started dancing last year and have been working in upscale mostly white gown clubs and webcamming. While I have been making consistent and decent money, I really want to switch to just a black/urban club and also start travel dancing.
Being the token black girl is not something I necessarily want to deal with or tolerate everyday on my job, especially since I'm my own boss. It was something I had to eat and accept in my vanilla jobs (retail, food), and would rather not if I'm calling my own shots. I've learned that being the token sometimes it works in my favor, sometimes it doesn't. I also think as a petite girl wearing a gown/dress is the least sexy thing I can do for my body, and want to pick out my own sexy lingerie everyday that I work lol. Being petite in white clubs has been a blessing, but in black clubs it seems to be a curse.
I've been trying to audition at a few clubs in the queens/bronx (sin city, perfections) but they and others have said I was too small for their club. One promoter told me to get plastic surgery and then come back! Does my ass really need to be 40" to even get an audition somewhere? I posted pictures before but I'm 5'1", 104 pounds, 30B, plump booty, petite frame.
Anyone have advice on switching over, and if there are decent beginner urban clubs in the NYC/NJ/Philly area? Those that are accepting of many different body types? Hell, I'm even willing to travel south on megabus if there are any suggestions?




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