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    When it comes to regulars, I wouldn't say I'm very good at keeping them. I've had quite a few big spenders in my time, but usually it's just that one night they spend on and they might come and visit me one more time after, but stop coming when they realise im not gonna meet up with them outside the club. I've had other semi regulars which I loose interest in, when every time they come in, they drop less cash then the last time. The most successful regulars I've had, I've also partied with outside of the club, I've been to their houses, out clubbing with them and had dinners with them. I used to do that when I was a newer dancer and I'm not really interested in all that extra work these days!
    Last time I worked I landed this girl's regular who came to meet her in the club, and she didn't rock up to work that night. He spent a lot of money on me that night, and told me how it works with them. They have sex a few times a month which he pays for, and he also visits her a work and spends time with her and has dances. Hmm, interesting.
    I'm very open to working on getting a few regulars again. The regulars I used to have, I would often end up as friends with them, and then feel bad trying to get money out if them when they came to the club.
    How do girls keep their regulars? What do you say? Is meeting up outside the club a good thing or bad thing?

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    Default Re: How to keep a regular customer

    I've met 2 customers O/S the club for pay. NO sexual stuff at all. Sometimes these guys want to go out to a fancy restaurant and treat you (that was certainly what I did with my regs), or to the theatre, or to a high end nightclub- they want to feel special and have that GFE outside the stripclub. It is a lot of extra work though- which is why you should be paid for it....

    When guys ask to meet outside the club I tell them that I've been burned before (I have) and that it takes me time to build up trust and get to know them, know that I will be looked after properly etc... which leads directly into dance selling.

    It's a bit mercenary though because these men believe they are moving into dating you but the intimacy stops at a point and I would feel emotionally manipulated in that situation. Its up to you I guess; I haven't done OTC in years and it would take a very unique man to have that happen again- at the very least someone who understands that I'm in it to entertain not to date....

    Obv if youre going to be having sex with them its a whole different ballgame and I wouldn't know how to work that angle.
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    Default Re: How to keep a regular customer

    Also, i would highly recomend using the search button and rereading old threads on similar topics, scroll to the bottom of this page for example.
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    More fear-mongering? Really? Yes, this is not the 1990's anymore. Yes, things are changing. Either dance or don't. Freaking out and sowing fear isn't going to help anyone.




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    Default Re: How to keep a regular customer

    I never meet customers otc, which means I usually don't hang onto regulars very long. That's fine with me. I don't like having regulars because they tend to bore me and get needy. I make my $$ ITC no matter what.

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    Default Re: How to keep a regular customer

    Most of them you can't "keep" no matter what you do. It's a game to them, to get more and more till they suck you dry like a parasitic leech. And they use money like dangling a carrot.

    If you do try to keep regulars, keep a rotating roster so to speak. NEVER rely on just one. This way when a regular gets annoying / tries to push boundaries, you can easily ditch him and find another one.

    99% of them will eventually want time outside the club and will ditch you if you continuously deny their requests. If you have multiple regulars this won't matter.
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    Default Re: How to keep a regular customer

    Just be really happy to see them when they come, smile often, chat with them and put them at ease for a bit before you go for dances, be really interested in what they have to say. They like that I make them feel comfortable around me, laugh and sometimes joke with them. Do you work in the day? I work the day shift so its like 80% regulars coming there so higher chance of making regulars. Over the years ive had lots of regulars, some stay longer than others, but I know there will always be more regs to make.
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    Default Re: How to keep a regular customer

    as for the guys pressuring you for OTC, you dont want those kinds of regulars anyways. but a few tips for the good kinds of regulars :
    one of the biggest things though is that a lot of girls let their guard down after awhile and get a little too "comfortable" with their regulars and forget that they are there to be sexy and entertaining. dont start bitching about boyfriend troubles, or your yeast infection or go on a F-bomb fueled rant about your roommate lol. keep it light, cute, flirty and entertaining. be a good listener. know how to hold a good conversation.
    switch things up and keep them interesting. dont just do the exact same dance moves if you're a stripper or the same positions if you're an escort, etc. don't get into a boring routine, they could get that at home for free. get creative (within the confines of the law, your comfort zone and your club of course.).
    i also keep a burner phone and communicate with them and tell them what days i'll be in, since i dont have a set schedule and do walk ins. i've had really good success with that. but make sure its one of those cheap burners, not your real phone.
    anyways, in closing ; regulars come and go, all of them. i've had some great faithful regulars, but never try and get those by going out of your comfort zone and letting them pressure or control you. those kinds of assholes aren't worth your time, hold out for the respectful ones!
    i'm definitely a regulars kind of stripper, i made almost all my money from them because i'm lazy lol

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    I also give my good regs my email address to let them know when i'll be in. Just make sure they know not to abuse that like constantly send you emails. I had a few that I had to block because of that. I used to give my cell # but not any more for the same reason.

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    Just curious: Do you all use virtual numbers (like google voice - connected to anonymous email account) or just the burner phone?
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    Don't get attached. They all have expiration dates.

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    Default Re: How to keep a regular customer

    Quote Originally Posted by miss.a.p1600 View Post
    Just curious: Do you all use virtual numbers (like google voice - connected to anonymous email account) or just the burner phone?
    I use an iphone app called NextPlus, previously TextPlus. It's free, you can text and call but the guy sees another number and not your real number. Only downside is with the new app (NextPlus) it's really difficult to receive pictures from custies but you can easily send them. I am too frugal to spend money on a burner phone

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