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    So, I just got my laptop and web cam yesterday. I need to scan my I.D. and I'm off and running, I want to ask you wonderful people about all the best and worst parts of camming. What's the advice you wish someone had given you or something you would like to pass along? What is your favorite about camming? I'm a bbw female, I used to be super insecure about my body but I've learned to embrace it. I'm excited to get to know everybody and learn the ropes.

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    Default Re: Best and Worst for the new girl.

    Already read it like 4 times lol.

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    Default Re: Best and Worst for the new girl.

    Then start on the other threads bb. There is a wealth of knowledge for you to research here without the need to start a new thread just for you.

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    Default Re: Best and Worst for the new girl.

    https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...m-Girl-Regrets
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    Things to avoid.
    Just search the whole forum, even stuff from years back was helpfull for me (and yes I read WHOLE of cammingconnection, took me months, but it was worth it)
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    best is you get all the attention and worst is you don't have enough experience to milk it, some girls are jealous, guys try to verbally abuse you and scam you cause you new and they are waiting for new girls to abuse them- so try to learn as much as you can BEFORE going online and good luck!

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    Dont start out with to low prices- it harder to build them up than to lower them if it doesnt work out.
    Dont fall for fake tips- always check your earning page (to make sure you had a real tip) before showing anything when being tipped
    Dont fall for the - show me xyz- and ill take you pvt
    Dont take paypal payments
    Take a good look at the rules of the website and dont break them

    Smile a lot, take a break when you feel tired/down/agry, make sure you are not only giving energy but also recieving it (doing things that make you happy in your free time instead of still being bussy with planning, worrying etc about work)
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    Oh and: Be your best BUT if your not your still good enough
    You cant be happy all the time, you cant be at your nicest or look at your hottest every single day, dont beat youreself up for it but try to make the best of what that day is offering you

    - note to self mostly- gotta let go my perfectionist
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    BEST: true independent entrepreneurship, flexibility to work anytime from almost anywhere, creative freedom, adoring fans, cam girl community, confidence building on good days, tons of eggs for your basket, e.g. passive income, indie camming, clips, affiliates, selling merchandise, less looks driven then any other area of sex work/entertainment, very good chance of making a lot of money, daily pay.

    WORST: stalkers, assholes, cheap bastards, trolls, earnings not consistent, payment percentages from big box sites, cam girl cattiness, stigma attached, can be very hard on self confidence on slow days, can be hard on physical/mental health, large investment in equipment, sex toys, beauty products, clothing and interior decor.
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    Read "Camming rocks" and "Camming sucks" threads. Those detail the best and worsts for everything from new girls to veterans.

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    It was the best of times, it was the worst of times...
    (Okay stop nerding out)




    Honestly, I chop up every experience I have as a good one. Even the bad ones, because you can always learn something from it. You are going to make mistakes. I've been doing this straight for 3 years, and I'm still making mistakes, and learning from them.


    Of course the best experience I've had was when I got a $3,000 tip. That was pretty bitchin'





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    Best: Feeling like I'm the one in control of my life and that I've found something that I'm pretty fucking good at (pun intended)

    Worst: Doing things when I first started that I was uncomfortable with because "I just need the show". Seriously, you don't. I make more now being selective than I ever did when I took any show that came my way. I cringe when I hear cam girls say "we can do anything you want in exclusive", there are some sick people out there.

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    Yes! When I learned I can say "no" to any shows that make me feel uncomfortable. Even if it's super slow and you've only made $15 in two hours, if you don't feel right doing, don't do it. No money is worth it.

    When I was a baby camgirl, I did a show with this dude. He said he wanted me go face down ass up and acted like I was getting fucked doggy. Did so. Then he told me to cry. Which I felt really uncomfortable, but I did it anyways because I wanted to get paid. Then he told me to struggle why he rapes my ass. I felt so fucking sick and I wanted to crawl up in a ball and cry. The smartest thing I did was end that show. Because I couldn't take that kind of show, and I felt better doing so!


    Know your limits. Don't try to push them. Guys will try to get you to, but stay firm and in control. Like say your cunt is sore because you've been fucking it too much, it's okay to turn down penetration to give it some time to heal, but at the same time offer something else to their liking. Some will leave, most will stay. You don't want to be three days out of work because your cunt is bruised and aching.

    If you don't know what your limits are or what you are not willing to do, write them down. Make a list. Stand by that list. Think of it as your camgirl of ethics. lol.


    Also totally read all the rules and terms of service. If you cannot locate the rules on any site you sign up for, email support and they will direct you to the correct link. I'm not saying you can't find them on your own, but I'm saying this for any other girls thinking about camming. Because I've heard that excuse. "I didn't know what the rules were because I couldn't find them."





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    YAAAASSSS! Audri, that is the best advice ever for a baby cam girl.

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    I agree with pretty much everything that the other ladies have said, especially that you should check out the "camming sucks" and "camming rocks" threads to get a great idea of the best and worst of camming. Then bear in mind that your experience could be anywhere on that spectrum. Many ladies have a ton of "camming sucks" experiences and struggle a lot; a few ladies are blessed to have a lot of "camming rocks" experience; some ladies have a good balance of both; and if you're like me, you could end up with a middle of the road time with barely any major "sucks" or "rocks" moments.


    I wanted to add that one of the biggest obstacles that camgirls have on a daily basis is overcoming inertia. It's a lot more mundane and isn't as hurtful as some of the other things that can go wrong, but it's a major challenge for a lot of us. It doesn't matter how much you love camming or how much you need to make some $$$, it can still be really difficult to make yourself get online. I think this is a problem for most people that are self-employed and work from home, but since camming is something that you can do at any time, as much as you want, and there's such a large customer base, it's very easy to say that you'll just work more later to make up for it. There are a couple new-ish threads about this issue: the "get the fuck on" and "stay the fuck on" threads.

    For me, I usually love being on cam, but I feel like the process of getting ready and getting set up is a bit arduous. I've streamlined my routine a lot, but I still find it tedious, and I get distracted so easily. There have been so many occasions when I get to the part where I have to put on eyeliner (my nemesis) or blow dry my long hair, and I just wander off to binge watch netflix instead.
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    I just want to say I LOVE YOU LADIES! Thank you for all the amazing advice. I'm going to dig through the threads and I'm going to jump in and try a site in a few days after more research. Quick question. My state won't issue an I.D. if I already have a license. I wanted to get a p.o. box and use that with a state I.D.... what do you ladies suggest? Oh and I don't have a passport bc they cost an arm and a leg lol

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    ^^ yup totally agree. Definitely my biggest problem!

    Best = £££ closely followed by the fact that I can actually use my education and personal interest experience in my work now
    "If you want to earn more, learn more" ~ Zig Ziglar




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    Right now the cost of a pastport total is like $110

    https://www.google.com/webhp?sourcei...assport%20card

    http://travel.state.gov/content/pass...rts/apply.html

    Passport card (https://www.google.com/webhp?sourcei...assport%20book) is like $30

    I'm currently looking all the up for myself at this time and see what I need exactly.





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    Excellent advice here, especially about knowing your limits!

    I too to have learnt NOT to do shows I am uncomfortable with..I didn't used to dom, but now I am learning and feeling comfortable doing it..I wasn't able to just leap into it as was not convincing. I also strongly dislike anal so I simply don't offer it.

    I love working from home, and frankly I love the job - if I could do it forever, I would. For me the hardest thing is actually not being able to share funny stories and bad days with my closest friends; by nature I am a very communicative person and I love sharing stories with my friends..so it can leave me feeling a bit left out socially as I can't participate - truthfully, at least. That is why this forum is so important, and I think it's a small price to me cause of all the positives.

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