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Aaaaaaand this is why I quit dancing.




Wow that pisses me off & that club is full of complete dicks. They should not have gotten any tip out from you that's for sure. I would probably be shaking too because I would be thrown off and so frustrated. The only time I was fired was when the bouncer at a club was pissed I wouldn't fuck him and he ended up severing my contract or whatever and I just told the club they can go to hell pretty much. At least you got to see the true side of that piece of shit club and got out of there. We already have to deal with shitty customers the last thing we need to deal with is shitty staff. I'm sorry you had to deal with that but hopefully you find a better club to work at.





The fuck with that club. Post your experience somewhere where other local girls can see it.
Fucking managers...they don't want us to hit a-hole customers but they won't enforce rules they get paid to enforce? The hell with them....





So sorry that happened to you, yea what a bag of dickless shits..hopefully you can find another/better place when you're ready! Hugs.
MANY MEN WANTED TO LAY ME DOWN, BUT FEW WANTED TO LIFT ME UP
-Eartha Kitt
Oh my God, I am so sorry that all happened to you, fuck that place. At least you're out now. They sound horrendous. I would write a review on tuscl to warn other girls.
Also I would put this in ladies only...
"There are different kinds of darkness. There is darkness that frightens, the darkness that soothes, the darkness that is restful. There is the darkness of lovers, and the darkness of assassins. It becomes what the bearer wishes it to be, needs it to be. It is not wholly bad or good."
- The Court of Mist and Fury





Post reviews on this board to warn girls. Name names. I would be careful abt customer-sex-friendly sites like tuscl bc I think that's just feeding the beast ('Custies go here go here go here bc you can harass, assault, & rip-off dancers & security/mgmt won't do shit to you woohoo!') but if you can find other boards that are more dancer-centric, definitely post there.
So sry this happened to you. I have been there myself, in a situation almost as bad. It is frightening on many lvls, & frustrating beyond words![]()
That sucks! That customer sounds like an idiot for soliciting prostitution and for slapping you on the ass and not apologizing once he knew you didn't like to be touched like that. Then the "security" acting so nonchalant about the whole situation.
And why was security trying to collect house fee from you? Where I work, the managers do that. Neither he nor the housemom had any business getting involved as they have no authority over dancers like managers do. They totally handled it all wrong and their egos flared once you refused to pay house fee.
I feel ya though. It's like why pay them if they aren't doing their job even satisfactorily and not punishing dumb a$$ customers?
And when I encounter drunk a$$ customers they must empty their wallets before I dance for them cause they are the main ones who what to be all touchy feely then claim "oh I thought that was one dance" "oh I don't have any more money" "oh can you give me a free dance" and I hate having to turn into a bill collector.
And yes Tuscl website is geared towards males - if you post there, the deviant ones might go there just cause they think they get away with more.
“Cook for him like a housewife, fuck him good like a nympho….pay the rent and the car note, he invests in me like crypto”





Sorry you dealt with that. I've dealt with assholes in the club too, though nowhere near as bad. I quit one club because the customers were assholes, they didn't tip yet expected us to dance topless. I refused to and the manager called me a fucking bitch. I walked out after I got my stuff (I never kept anything there as I trusted no one) and never returned.



Thanks all for the support! It feels good to get it off my chest with others who have been in similar situations. Missap1600 I'm not sure why the bouncer was collecting fees and threatening to fire me because that is out of his jurisdiction. The usual GM was standing around doing nothing and the bouncer was in the manager booth so perhaps he was in training or something?
Either way it makes it confusing to the dancers. Oh and the housemom yelled at me for referring to the bouncer/manager acting dude as "the manager"
like wtf no need to yell... he WAS acting as the manager that night, sitting in the manager chair, doing manager stuff!!
Also, when she asked me when I started working there, I said "in 2011 when Natalie was manager" and she just started screaming "WELL NATALIE ISN'T THE MANAGER ANYMORE"
Like no shit, she asked a question, I was giving a descriptive answer, including times and dates,trying to be as professional as possible and she was foaming at the mouth like a mad dog! URRRRRHHHGGG it makes me so angry!!!
FUCK THAT CLUB. I am so sorry this happened to you. Oh my fucking god, if I were you, I'd be telling everyone I know about this so that they never have another dancer step foot through that door again. Also, fuck that girl who tried to convince them that he paid! WOW. Karma is going to bite her in the ass when this happens to her. She was obviously jealous of you and wanted you out. If we all just worked together we'd all be treated so much better. It makes me SO ANGRY. Find a better club, they do not need you or your money ever again!



Oh believe me, I'm telling everyone about this I can think of!! Does anyone remember the Ben Affleck BJ incident when he was engaged to JLO? This is the club it happened in. It's a pretty well known, upscale club.
(customers can't get BJs obviously, but hey, it was Ben affleck lol)
It's sad to see this once awesome club turn to absolute shit! I guess that's what happens when you allow morons for managers to work there and they bring their friends with them to be doormen (or whatever the case may be, seems like the two guys were friends)




Fucking insane. Holy shit. Please warn the other dancers know in the Ladies Section.
This is why I demand payment first before a dance and get buddy buddy with the bouncers.![]()




OMG I'm so sorry this happened! I recently commented on another post of yours (about the psycho stalker co worker) asking if you ended things on good terms with your club. That was before I saw this post. Wow...I think you handled it beautifully because if I were you, I wouldve knocked that customers f*cking teeth out. That bouncer sounds like a typical dumbass who wouldnt be able to have any other job aside from working in lame ass strip clubs. He is a useless chicken shit, and I wouldve laughed in his face when he told you not to call him useless. Fuck him, and fuck them all. Their club sucks, and with the way they handle things, they'll eventually go out of business.



I wish I could have laughed in his face...I was tough but not to the point I could realistically reign laughter
You are braver than me!!





I'm sorry that this happened to you, both the a-hole customer and the staff issues. It's awful when the club isn't on your side and treats their dancers with no respect.
“Give a girl the right shoes and she can conquer the world” -Marilyn Monroe
"True sexiness has many facets-confidence, strength, intelligence, and humor. It isn’t just about trying to look sexy; it’s an art and one becomes skillful in it when she realizes that there are all these conflicting elements that all come together to make something magical"-Dita Von Teese





Before I make a comment, please keep in mind that I am playing 'devil's advocate'. What the bouncer did was not only a dereliction of duty but as 'selfish prick-ish' as possible. The housemom's and manager's reactions were equally assholish. I'm truly sorry you had to endure what you did. But with that said ...Their club sucks, and with the way they handle things, they'll eventually go out of business.
Try to view this situation from a 'cold hearted business' standpoint. Even though your problem customer expected 'extras' and inappropriately tried to take more than you were willing to give, from the clubowner's standpoint he is a paying customer and you pissed him off. Odds are that other dancers in the club would have willingly provided the 'extras' the customer expected. The housemom and bouncer 'cold heartedly' care about one thing ... dancers paying them a 'cut'. Thus from their 'cold hearted business' standpoint, you didn't satisfy a customer by providing the expected 'extras', you pissed off that customer by shaming him into paying you for 'unsatisfactory' service - thus making it less likely he will spend future money in the club, and you then attempted to 'stiff' the bouncer of his entitled 'cut', etc.
With other dancers most likely banging on the club's front door who would be more than happy to provide 'extras' the next time this customer returns to the club, odds are that the club manager views you as a 'trouble-maker', as well as a 'liability' in that replacing you with a new dancer who is comfortable providing 'extras' would provide higher earnings and fewer problems for the club, for the housemom, for the bouncer, etc.
Welcome to the 2015 strip club business model !!!



Yep I thought of that too...in the context of me being a "trouble maker" from his ignorant standpoint etc etc, but there can't be any extras in there. The liquor board is constantly in there and they can shut the club down for even sitting on laps in the rooms. Canadian liquor laws are strict and they seem to have a grudge against this club, so no, there can't be extras.
But I agree with you ...things are changing. This club used to be awesome and we would get so many celebrities coming in (this is where the Ben Affleck incident happened 10+years ago!)
And now it sucks
Ahh I feel old talking about the "good old days"
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