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    Question Intimidated by new club

    I have been dancing for 2 years and recently moved from small, mid tier club with no VIP to a huge gorgeous club with champagne and VIP rooms and gorgeous girls and high end clientele.

    I'm very attractive but I've been in the biz long enough to know that confidence is 10x more important. I was the hottest girl at my last club (not a lot of girls at all), but the club attracted blue collar guys and was slowly going downhill along w my money so I left. I feel I am completely on par looks wise with the hottest girls in this new club. I feel like I made the right decision, because I know I can make absolute bank here, but I feel like I am having to learn how to be a stripper all over again. I am used to making $500-$1200+ per night in a lap dance only club, and so far in this champagne and supermodel filled club, I have been making $100-$200 or less, the most I have made so far being $500. I know the potential is there for me to make double and triple what I am used to making, but I just don't understand the hustle here yet.

    I feel like I have entered and elite battle ground where only the strongest warriors survive! I plan on being one o the strongest earners, if not the number one earner every night. I'm just unsure of how to gracefully transition into that.

    It is overwhelming to work on these busy Friday and Saturday nights when there are so many people in this huuuge club, when during the day there are zero to five customers on the floor to choose from.

    Has anyone had a similar experience?

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    Uh yeah. Sink or swim dude. I went from being a hot (albeit) chubby girl at a shithole to being just another pretty face at a great club. I made money at the shithole because I could use the "I have all my teeth and I'm under 200 llbs approach."
    At my current club everyone has teeth and is well under 200 llbs. I'm probably the biggest landwhale there. How do I survive? I make sure that I'm my personal best. Strict diet, gym 5-6x a week, plenty of sleep, no drinking or smoking. And being taken down a peg or two and a few slices of humble pie. You're not top of the food chain anymore. The sooner you get used to that the faster you can adapt.
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    ^cute, but not really helpful at all thanks though!

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    Default Re: Intimidated by new club

    Definitely make hustle hut your bible. Read the threads until you have them memorized.

    Some basic tips:
    - Sell top down. Start with the most expensive champagne room. Don't mention single dances. If they don't jump at the highest price option, after you've named a couple high rooms, a number like $250 doesn't even sound like money anymore.
    - Believe you are worth rooms and being bought out for hours. It might seem kinda silly but if you're coming from a club where you're used to hustling dances, it can feel strange to be asking for $1000 etc right off the hop. Sell them like the client obviously wants to spend that on you.
    -Watch the way you carry yourself. In a club where every girl is gorgeous, it's your demeanor that will set you apart. Float like a goddess. Make sure your posture is perfect. Always move gracefully and sensually, even if you're just walking across the floor. You can have a guy hustled before you even say hi if your every step exudes sex.
    -Finally, don't pay any attention to any of the other girls. This is always important but it's extra important in this case. It doesn't matter if there's 10 girls or 100, or what they're doing, just keep focusing on you and your hustle. It's very easy to get overwhelmed by everything that's going on, just continue on like you're in the eye of a hurricane. It's around you but it doesn't affect you.


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    Default Re: Intimidated by new club

    Thank you SuperJa, that was very helpful.

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    Default Re: Intimidated by new club

    mmm it sounds like you are experiencing a bit of fear and anxiety in your new club. Don't worry you will adapt sooner or later to the new environment. I have moved clubs a LOT, every club i go to is slightly different. Its about faking it until you make it. Pretend. Be an actress. Act with upmost confidence. You mentioned you can compete with the other girls in the looks department, but we know that looks is not everything. Perfect your hustle, start working twice as hard. Be the first girl to start and the last one to finish. Ive sen a lot of beautiful girls not make much money because they get disheartened within the first few hours on a slow night, and give up! Don't be a dancer that gives up, know you have been very successful in the past and in time you can learn what works for success in your new environment. Befriend other girls, try and find another hot chick to work with one night and see what she does, learn how she hustles, incorporate it into your hustle. I learnt a lot of what I know from others. Also, asking customers for dances can be a lot of trial and error. If you are finding you can't sell the more expensive dances, try saying different stuff, try acting different, change up your persona. Persevere with this little challenge and become the best dancer you can be.

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    Default Re: Intimidated by new club

    This thread hit the nail on the head for me too. Moving from a tiny little club in Kansas to Babydolls in Dallas is rough.

    One of the things that has helped me is making sure I'm remembering names and faces of the regulars. When I first get there and walk up to the bar to get a water and see what's going on, it has helped me feel like I do in fact belong there when there are two or three guys that say hello to me by name. I know it doesn't sound like much, but it's just made me feel like less of an outcast.

    Another trick that I'm still trying to incorporate is when it's busy in these large clubs, have a 3 song minimum to single dances. A super talented experienced girl uses this and it works great for her. For me it's just hard to have the confidence to do it, and walk away when they're not willing to commit to more than one dance.

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    Default Re: Intimidated by new club

    Blake, the same thing happened to me when I was there LOL. I never felt like an outcast but when I saw the night shift weekend girls I was like 0.0 these chicks are hot!!

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    Default Re: Intimidated by new club

    Quote Originally Posted by Prettyglitter View Post
    Blake, the same thing happened to me when I was there LOL. I never felt like an outcast but when I saw the night shift weekend girls I was like 0.0 these chicks are hot!!
    BUT how do you know you're not just as hot? Obviously the manager thought so if he hired you! Try thinking of it that way "He must think I'm as hot as these girls if he lets me work on this shift!"
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    I agree with superja
    ALWAYS start with the most expensive option. Very slowly go down. Push the pros of paying more (eg if you get champagne/drinks try and make that a selling point, esp with things like body shots etc). Only go into dances after you've thoroughly exhausted the VIP options. At that point push for 3+ songs. I don't know exactly how your club works if you can make your own prices or not but if you can, make a bundle deal (eg if it's $20 for 1 song say you'll do $50 for 3 etc)
    After you have done the dance/VIP always try and up sell to a more expensive option. When you're dancing for him ask him what his fantasy is, tell him yours (make it up if you have to). Suggest another girl join. Tell him about lesbian shows etc
    Read the extended VIP for tips. It's lower down on the hustle hut page

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    Default Re: Intimidated by new club

    Also I wouldn't worry about other girls but I would try and observe how the other girls work

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