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    Ok. Short and sweet, my first week SUCKED!
    And I'm talking sucked to the point I'm considering working at another club.
    I started at a club in NYC, my first day I made $160, my second day I made $65 (while all the other girls made $1K+), my 3rd day surprisingly I made almost $300.. the club was DEAD.. all the other girls made about $40.. $60.. and the only reason was because a guy wanted to talk about Led Zeppelin the entire night then paid me . And then last night, $57.
    Like i know that it's summer and clubs are dead, but this club is terrible, (I'm staying to gain experience). And then all the other girls do extras.. and.. I'm one of 2 black chicks there.
    I mean.. I know I'm pretty BUT I'm beginning to think the clients aren't attracted to black but instead Polish... (Plus I'm 108 lbs...)
    I'm really really discouraged to the point I feel like leaving.
    Idk what to do..

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    All the other girls have so many years on me- I have 4 days of experience.. and i can't sell a lapdance to save my life. Idky I do it but I stop at the first no..

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    If other girls are truly doing extras, then that should tell you an awful lot. Don't even compare your earnings to that of a girl who is S&Fing -- that's not a dancer honey, that's a hooker. Two totally different ballgames. I would look elsewhere purely for legal & safety reasons if that club is that dirty.

    Extras aside -- as you said, you've got four days' worth of exp. There IS a learning curve to this job, & for sm of us it is steeper than others. (Lest that be misinterpreted, I was one of the ones who found the curve a bit steeper, so I am not knocking any1) You have the phenomenal resource that is StripperWeb, including Hustle Hut. HH needs to become your Bible. SW+ experience (no way round it, the skills required to succeed in this job need to be built & nurtured via trial&error) + dedication to your goals are what will help you excel. That, & staying out of jail from your club getting raided. Just sayin.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kaila-Sere View Post
    All the other girls have so many years on me- I have 4 days of experience.. and i can't sell a lapdance to save my life. Idky I do it but I stop at the first no..
    You said it yourself, the other girls have more experience. Don't beat yourself up about it. Summer sucks + you're inexperience = you probably won't make a lot. You should definitely try out other clubs if you can. But just stick with it. You won't make 1k your first week out. I don't even make that much and I've been dancing for nearly a year. You have to develop your skills and that comes with learning and practice. Don't be discourage, just try harder to refine your skills.

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    It took me a while to even break $500, let alone a grand. This job takes skill and a positive mental attitude, which you get with practice. I've never made "new girl money", my money just steadily increases the longer I'm at a club. It takes a while to become a good hustler, but if you work every day, and keep your energy and attitude high, you will become good faster than girls who work once or twice a week and have crappy outlooks.

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    As others have said this job has a learning curve. Most hustlers aren't born, they're made. Read up as much as you can on "Hustle Hut" and try not to let shitty nights get you down. Everyone has shitty nights. The main thing to remember is there is always another day and another sucker to hustle.
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    You guys are right. I was planning on staying there for a little to gain experience and then once I'm 100% comfortable and know the ropes I'll leave.

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    Hey guys! I feel like I should just give a quick update.
    So.. my first week was terrible and like I said, I was highly considering leaving. I don't know what miracle happened but from the next night I came in and the following nights after that (minus last night) were pretty damn great for me! Like my earnings somehow skyrocketed overnight. (Last night was the worst for me but I'm not even paying it much mind because the rest of the week was so good).
    I guess it's because I've taken everything into consideration, lived HH for a couple days, and honestly psyched myself out on several occasions (sat up straighter, walked around slower than I normally would, swore I was the hottest girl there.... I'm really learning that this is really a mental thing, that and you've gotta stay positive at all times).
    I could really get used to this! Thanks guys (gals)!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kaila-Sere View Post
    Hey guys! I feel like I should just give a quick update.
    So.. my first week was terrible and like I said, I was highly considering leaving. I don't know what miracle happened but from the next night I came in and the following nights after that (minus last night) were pretty damn great for me! Like my earnings somehow skyrocketed overnight. (Last night was the worst for me but I'm not even paying it much mind because the rest of the week was so good).
    I guess it's because I've taken everything into consideration, lived HH for a couple days, and honestly psyched myself out on several occasions (sat up straighter, walked around slower than I normally would, swore I was the hottest girl there.... I'm really learning that this is really a mental thing, that and you've gotta stay positive at all times).
    I could really get used to this! Thanks guys (gals)!
    Just don't get annoyingly shitting rainbows and unicorns delusional like some people. I go in to work expecting nothing and hoping for everything. I've seen too much of "Your attitude is what you make it" and all this other happy horseshit. Then when they have a shit night they have a nuclear meltdown. Expect to have bad nights along with the amazing nights. Save your money so you can get through the shit nights. Read up some more on HH.
    "Fake tits are like Kevlar. They don't guarantee your chances of survival but they sure as hell improve it."
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    I opened this thread expecting to see that you'd been assaulted during your first week or something truly terrible.

    Instead, it sounds like you MADE MONEY. That's fantastic!! Keep up the great work. Start honing in on what works for you and what doesn't, start upgrading your stripper gear, and trying new things to see how it changes your money (new approaches, new lines, etc.).

    Good for you for diving right in! Keep your head up, girlie. This is a tough job. Otherwise everyone would do it!

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    Yea, I figured that much. I'm not trying to build myself up so much that when I do get a shit night I'm completely broken down.. just enough to not be bothered by it because I know there are better nights ahead.
    I'll be on HH all today lol! Thanks.

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    Quote Originally Posted by charlie61 View Post
    I opened this thread expecting to see that you'd been assaulted during your first week or something truly terrible.

    Instead, it sounds like you MADE MONEY. That's fantastic!! Keep up the great work. Start honing in on what works for you and what doesn't, start upgrading your stripper gear, and trying new things to see how it changes your money (new approaches, new lines, etc.).

    Good for you for diving right in! Keep your head up, girlie. This is a tough job. Otherwise everyone would do it!
    Thanks a lot. I'm still working on figuring out what works for me but I'll get it

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    Quote Originally Posted by charlie61 View Post
    I opened this thread expecting to see that you'd been assaulted during your first week or something truly terrible.

    Instead, it sounds like you MADE MONEY. That's fantastic!! Keep up the great work. Start honing in on what works for you and what doesn't, start upgrading your stripper gear, and trying new things to see how it changes your money (new approaches, new lines, etc.).

    Good for you for diving right in! Keep your head up, girlie. This is a tough job. Otherwise everyone would do it!
    Thanks a lot. I'm still working on figuring out what works for me but I'll get it

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