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    I'm a dacer at a club in Iowa and last night I was giving a dance in the vip and as I was getting up and walking towards the door a customer pulled his penis out and the bouncer walked in and kicked him out and sent me home claiming I was doing extras. Tomorrow I have to talk to the owner and see what he says about it but based off other strippers he will take the bouncers word because he has been working for the club for 4+years. They don't have any cameras in the vip area so I cannot prove that I was not doing extras but I'm worried about getting fired because the bouncer is claiming he saw me doing extras, what should I do? I don't want to get blamed for doing extras when I really wasn't doing anything wrong and the customer pulled his penis out after I told him it's not allowed.

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    Say the bouncer flirted with you & he is saying these things to get back at you for rejecting him. Also a dancer might have bribed him to say these things.

    You can try threatening to sue the bouncer for lost income due to this situation but I don't know how the laws are in Iowa. Just dropping that threat will either make the owner chill out or ban you for good. Either way you get an answer...

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    I would also call them out on the fact that there are no cameras in that area -- say if there were cameras, it would not only be safer for both customers & dancers but mgmt would have a fast easy way to verify who's telling the truth in these kind of disputes.

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    I can't really claim the bouncer was flirting with me because he looks at the bouncer as basically family because he has worked there for so long and that would surely get me fired. I also told the bouncer last night that they need cameras for situations like this and he told me that the owner doesn't want cameras back there because then it won't be a "vip". I'm stuck on what exactly to do because this is the best club in my area, and there is only a total of 3 other clubs within an hour and a half from me.

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    Beg the owner to be reasonable. Maybe the bouncer is just being too gung ho and most probably just being an asshole. You could also just take a vacation & then come back- plenty of girls get "fired" and then re-hired if they show up at the right time.

    The cameras thing is BS to me, I think the owner either doesn't want to spend the money or he allows partying in the club after hours & doesn't want anyone to think he is gathering "blackmail material."

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    Tell the owner the truth, that you weren't doing any extras and the customer did that on his own. Tell the owner you're willing to take a lie detector test if he doesn't believe you.

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    The 'but it won't be VIP if there is cameras' thing … if mgmt truly harbours that mentality, I would call that a red flag. I have heard that b4 in clubs I worked that had no cameras in the private dance areas, & every single time it came from staff who could be counted on to side w/ the customer in a dispute w/ the dancer. I would consider looking elsewhere if that is the case here.

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    Yes, it sounds like an bs excuse they use, also the cheapness factor.


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    Your best bet is to tell the truth and hope the owner is reasonable. Do you think the bouncer might be trying to bribe you? Do you think it's really a clean club?
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