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    I have this regular of mines. We used to do around 12-18 dances. Now, he's only doing 8-10. Recently, he's been telling me he didn't bring enough cash. So he winds up owing me $20. That's his 2nd time. We met outside the club and had dinner twice but he never pays me. I think it's a waste of time. He always insist to go outside of the club and have lunch/dinner.

    Maybe he's playing games with me. Why wouldn't he bring extra cash? He refuses to get club dollars.

    How to deal with this?

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    He's wasting/ milking your time and isn't worth extra effort to keep happy anymore unless he realizes the error of his ways (pipe dream) and starts paying you more than he was originally spending. Stop meeting him outside the club. Get you money before you do the dances and only dance for what he pays you. Honestly, sounds like his expiration is near and it's time for you to start focusing on finding ways to replace the income he isn't giving you.

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    He's testing how much he can get from you, IMO. If you don't have a lot of other customers, it might be worth a try to saying something about how it really hurts you that he has been screwing you over like this and you thought he was different or some bullshit, but it sounds like he's nearing his end. Definitely don't go out with him for free.

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    Time to stop being a sweet baby to this customer. He knows exactly what he is doing, & you are allowing him to keep putting one over on you. Start getting paid up front for one thing. He is intentionally stiffing you, which in itself is immnsely disrespectful. Stop meeting up OTC, he is looking for a pet, not an appropriate business relationship. There will always be other regulars that are lower-maintenance.

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    I'm only being a sweet baby to this custie is bcuz I known him for a year. He's been loyal to me. Stops by 2x a week.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sweet_baby View Post
    I'm only being a sweet baby to this custie is bcuz I known him for a year. He's been loyal to me. Stops by 2x a week.
    Keyword being BEEN. He's now trying to take advantage of you by getting away with as much as he can for as little as he can pay. Don't feel like you owe him free time or kindness when he's ripping you off just because he regularly spent money for a year. He got what he paid for: the dances. Would you let a new customer treat you like this? Probably not, so he doesn't deserve any exception.

    On the contrary, he should be held to a higher standard because he knows better -- it's not like he is new to visiting strip clubs and got carried away and got an extra dance that he didn't bring money for.

    This regular is expiring. It happens, no big deal, but don't let him milk you for all he can before he disappears forever -- or gets used to the increased attention for less $$$ and continues to visit you expecting it. Do you really want a customer like that visiting you twice a week when you could find customers who won't stiff you? It's a race to the bottom at this point, because once a customer gets something for less, it's very difficult to convince him that it's worth it to pay more.

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    Coming up short once could be have been an honest mistake, but doing it twice in a row is clearly intentional. It sounds like he's getting short on cash and trying to get what he can before it's over. He may even be convincing himself that he's entitled to it after everything he's already spent on you. He might even try to squeeze one last OTC meetup out of it, but I agree with others who say that it probably won't be worth your time to do that again.

    If the dude was spending that much time and money with you over that long a timeframe, it's obviously because he likes you. As I'm sure you know, things can get messy when an infatuated regular can no longer afford a favorite's attention. Yet another reason why it would probably be prudent not to see him outside anymore.

    In any event, good luck.

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    Wait … this isn't the same wanker from your 'custie is playing games' thread, is it?

    Either way … fk the 'he's been loyal to me' excuse. 'Loyalty' in a SC is fleeting & when it wanes on either end, that's just part of the territory. Nxt thing he is going to do, if you have let him get accustomed to getting way more than what he has paid for, is when you go to put your foot down he is going to try to lay a guilt trip. I bet he is going to use the exact same 'But I've been so LOYAL to you!!! ::puppy eyes:: to justify why he 'deserves' a deal on your services. His 'loyalty' is no longer paying your bills so it's time for him to shape up or ship out.

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    Nope not the same guy. That asshole guy from my last post no longer contacts me or shows up. Thank goodness!!

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    It's not like he can't afford it. He runs a real estate business. His 2 sons works for him and his wife stays at home. He's just being cheap!

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    Quote Originally Posted by sweet_baby View Post
    It's not like he can't afford it. He runs a real estate business. His 2 sons works for him and his wife stays at home. He's just being cheap!
    One of the older members here had a quote in their signature, smtg abt 'Strippers are like coin-operated jukeboxes of love'. In other words, our sexy asses don't operate on credit. If you can get him to cough-up the $$$ he already owes you, then do so … then drop him. He is no longer a reliable business partner.

    Glad you got rid of the other guy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sweet_baby View Post
    It's not like he can't afford it. He runs a real estate business. His 2 sons works for him and his wife stays at home. He's just being cheap!
    Business owners run into cash crunches too. He probably wouldn't be cutting down on dances and most certainly wouldn't jerk you around over $20, not once but twice, if the money didn't matter to him.

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    I mean I guess he rather spends money outside such as lunch and dinner. He's not hot, single, or young. Why would I meet him outside for free?

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    When regulars start getting cheaper and cheaper then its time to cut them loose. But if you decide to keep seeing him then you might have to do him like the escorts and some strippers do .... money upfront dude!

    It's crazy cause the amount is so trivial that he either forgot or thought you'd forget. But its still the principal. I bet he wouldn't forget to pay that last $20 on his mortgage or that last $20 on his car note.
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    If you want to get paid for all the dances he gets from you, next time he asks for a dance, tell him to pay for the dances he owes you for, before giving him any more.

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    I doubt you are ever going to see that $40 he owes you.
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    You don't deal. He's using you. Stop meeting him for lunch, stop giving him dances in advance. No ca$h, no ass! Period, luv.




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    Yeah, you need to stop with these guys who are mind fu*king you. Get your money upfront and get your own lunch and dinner.

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    This reminds me of this one customer who buys text/phone sessions from me weekly. He went from paying $300 a week, to $100 and now $50. I let him slide a few times to the point where he'll have $40 and he'll try me and I have to tell him if he doesn't have at least $50, I cannot help him. I don't care if it's $49.99. I get excuses now like "The cc company charged me $6 interest so that's why I only have $44. I dumbed down my prices from $100-50 for the guy and he started taking advantage so trust me, if they can get away with it they'll try. What we do is a luxury service and these men need to pay for play. No more IOUs or freebies. We have bills just the same as they do with some of us paying everything on our own!




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    UPDATE: when I keep thinking about it. I don't think it was the first or second time he tried to get something for free. At my old club when we did 20 dances and it was $300. He only had $200 on him. Thank god the bouncers were the ones that writes tickets for the dances. He turned to the ATM and tried to get another $100 but it rejected him bcuz he claimed he took too much money out. He kept saying to himself "I should've brought more cash." Unless I wouldn't mind that he "owed" it to me. Wow. Then the bouncer told him to get club dollars which charges his credit card. Another time he was $20 short and the management had to lend him $20. Fast forward to yesterday. I tried texting him to come in today. Nope... No answer. When I think about it. If he spent $2000 every month on me. $40 is no big deal at this point. Guess I won't be seeing him again!

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    He's a dumb regular who's running out of money and thinks his loyalty should get him more than it is. I think it's getting him way more than he deserves and why the hell would you join him for meals for free?
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    Close contact, for an hour, for $40? And I guess I'll have to make conversation with them too?

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    Quote Originally Posted by rickdugan View Post
    Coming up short once could be have been an honest mistake, but doing it twice in a row is clearly intentional. It sounds like he's getting short on cash and trying to get what he can before it's over. He may even be convincing himself that he's entitled to it after everything he's already spent on you. He might even try to squeeze one last OTC meetup out of it, but I agree with others who say that it probably won't be worth your time to do that again.

    If the dude was spending that much time and money with you over that long a timeframe, it's obviously because he likes you. As I'm sure you know, things can get messy when an infatuated regular can no longer afford a favorite's attention. Yet another reason why it would probably be prudent not to see him outside anymore.

    In any event, good luck.
    At the end of all, letting go of forty bucks is better than gaining a pathetic, angry stalker with an emotional motive to bother you.... He honestly spent more than the average club reg.

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    UPDATE!!!!

    He finally cough up the $40 he owed me. We did 7 dances. He's coming in tmrw too. I told him he still owes me $40 from the time before. He said I have a good memory! Yeah I'm glad he paid me.

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    UPDATE!!!!

    He finally cough up the $40 he owed me. We did 7 dances. He's coming in tmrw too. I told him he still owes me $40 from the time before. He said I have a good memory! Yeah I'm glad he paid me.

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