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    Hey all
    I know it's a silly question & to some of you you're left thinking wtf? why would you want to do that? Well so it goes that a few years ago, yes I was something of a "groupie" but after 2 failed relationships and currently trying to escape this lull in life right now, I'm looking for something fun & very memorable that I can be proud of years down the line. I have had a crush on the lead singer of this well known band for like 20 yrs & the other night I saw them finally at a show they did out here & briefly got to meet him & get a pic afterwards. Yes that made me smile BUT I want to cross the line, I want to sleep with him for a night. He's much older than me I'd say bout 23 yrs older & the other night was my birthday & I told him so & he says to me "wow, you're 32?! You don't look over 17", to which I giggled & said thanks. Was that a compliment or an assholish thing to say?

    He's playing about 2 hrs away from me on tues & I want to go see him play but also to just see if I couldn't snag him for a night. Any of you roadies. groupies, band members out there wanna give me any helpful advice on how to do so without him thinking I'm some psycho stalker chick?

    P.S This is all fun & games to me at this point & so I don't expect much out of it if anything
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    Is this singer on any social media, such as Facebook or Twitter? Maybe you can contact him through there and let him know who you are.

    I've written to a very successful female pop-artist on Facebook and she actually responds to my messages, although the subject of having sex has never come up. Some celebrity pages don't have an option to message them, but some do.

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    Hmmm... good question! I looked on twitter but I'm not real sure if it's really his page or an imposter lol I've def thought about that option though bc I could give him my digits & arrange to meet up but thats scary bc who knows with all the real creepers out in todays world :/
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    If you contact him on the twitter page, you could mention your encounter. If he doesn't know anything about it, then he's probably an imposter. Do you think he would remember you?

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    Possibly. I did kinda stand out from the other few ppl waiting for his autogragh & pics~ But him telling me that I don't look a day over 17 is kinda an insult coming from a 51 yr old man right? LoL I dunno
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    IME, Their roadies or body guards pick them out of the crowd. Look extra hot, and (I'm serious here), stand near the front back stage, and have an obvious plastic bag with tooth brush and spare underwear. That used to get it done for the girls at the venue I worked at in school.

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    Is he married, or does that matter?
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    If he wanted you then he would have hit on you or had a roadie, manager approach you to come back stage afterwards. Now, I know a few girls who have been successful at this & the most successful one of all time "sweet sweet Connie" many of songs have been written about her. She blows all the roadies, managers & such to get to the band members. On one tour bus for a famous band, they had 5 girls in there, once she showed up they were all thrown out. At 17 was invited backstage & to the hotel for Huey Lewis & the news, of course, once they found out I was under age, I was off limits. But they did pay $200 dollars for my cab ride home at the end of the night. She was there, they all called her, loved her, gave her free tickets, places to stay.

    Moral of the story, you might have to suck many dicks to get to him. Sometimes fucking a fantasy ruins it. Your imagination always will be way better than reality. They have talent scouts aka roadies/managers to pick out the girls they want to fuck. If you weren't invited back stage or the after party then you aren't their type. They kind of sex they have with groupies is to fuck her & get off, not about your pleasure at all.

    At this point, after all these years of females throwing themselves at them, they prefer a girl who is hard to get, the Chase is more fun for them. Find them on social media. when they post something you can leave a smart of funny response do so. But don't post everyday, just every once in a while, if he wants you he will chase you from there. Really, isn't all that hard to do these days. But his age group is rarely on social media, go for a younger one.

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    You can try to make contact with him and make it clear that you want him. And just try to make it happen.and who cares if you look like you're chasing him because you are!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nyla19 View Post
    You can try to make contact with him and make it clear that you want him. And just try to make it happen.and who cares if you look like you're chasing him because you are!
    How many rock stars have you fucked?
    Me, about 1 rock star, 10 tv stars, 5 movie stars and a one boy bander. All hunted me down on social media.

    Two of my best friends about 30 between them both, one girl I used to dance with about 100.

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    It's worth a shot. What is the worse that's going to happen? He say no? Just shoot him a message on social media. Go again to the concert if you want to, because you're a fan.


    I've only fucked one musician my sophomore year in college. When I met him, we talked a bit after his show. And I asked him if he wanted to fuck because I thought "Hey, why not? Bucket list." He said yes. Total disappoint. Asked for my number afterwards, I ignored all his texts. Because it wasn't as great as I thought it would be. I didn't even cum. He didn't deserve a callback in my book, I don't care how famous you are.

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    I don't kiss and tell sam38g. However, if I want a guy, I have no problem going after him. And from past experience, they loved it.

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    Losing a great fantasy just for sex isn't worth it. Rarely do fantasies live up to real life experiences. Do you really want to find out if he has a little dick? Besides at 51 he may not have what it takes physically to stay hard enough for sex anymore. Especially, if he did a lot of drugs & alcohol back in the day.

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    I do find that with rich men / celebrities you have to be a bit more aggressive and strategic without making yourself look desperately thirsty and obvious. But to have some sort of dignity and respect in tact don't do ALL of the work, let him show some interest in wanting to get with you.

    I had an opportunity to meet a well known singer a few years back. He was performing in my city, I love his music, and I figured I would check it out. Turns out it was a nice intimate venue and I was close to the front. I was singing along with the music and noticed him noticing me a couple times but didn't think much of it. After he finished performing, he kind of mingled a bit with the crowd and next thing I know me and my two other girlfriends were being summoned to join him on his tourbus. None of this is my kind of thing but the girls I was with were starstruck and wanted to see him. I should have ditched them all and went home but like a true 'groupie' I went along and got on the tourbus.

    When we got on the bus we discover his entourage is there. I guess they were screening us or trying to get us wasted and loose IDK. I get inpatient like where the hell is the singer dude? finally after what seemed like forever he comes onto the bus all cocky and sh*t. Asking dumb a$$ questions like 'how many kids to you have?' WTF?!? Then he starts trying to slick seduce me and get me alone.

    Basically once you behave like a groupie, then they are all about sex and what you will do for them. It was disappointing to love a persons music but hate their personality once you discover how they act. I googled his a$$ after that encounter and found out he had a girlfriend and baby on the way...WTF?!?!?

    Me personally I wouldn't travel to a dude unless he payed for transportation and made it worth my time. But you probably are curious to see how this will turn out and willing to take a chance. Just be very cautious and wear a condom no matter what.
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    Yes I am honestly just doing this for the fun & experience , not to mention the crazy story to tell after. When I lived in LA all I did was fuck rock stars & hot boys in well known bands. I know they aren't THAT picky when it all comes down to it after the show. It's all part of their ego as a musician, they want girls to try to fuck them. If I were a guy in a band 51 or 21 I'd want the same thing. I've been doing my research though about him & watching tons of youtube interviews with him just to see his character & try to read him as best I can. He doesn't come off as one of those "Brett Michaels" or Axel Rose types at all. He's def got a more punk rock / down to earth like attitude about shit but who knows. I'm going to that show looking like a queen & I'm gonna own that shit & hey I'm gonna give it my all & if I get rejected for whatever reason then oh well big deal, I prob wasn't missing out on anything anyways. I remember a show my gf & I went to where she was just dying to meet Sebastian Bach from Skid Row & somehow or another I got both of us backstage in his dressing room simply by talking & schmoozing with the right people WITHOUT giving BJs or whatever some groupies might do or feel they must do in order to get back where we were. She got to meet him & hang for a minute as well as got her pic taken with him & she just glowed afterwards. I've also slept with rockstars, celebrities and I know that they are just looking for fun in the end, same as me. If he asks for my number cool, I'll give it, but I have no expectations whatsoever.
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    Sam I actually met sweet Connie in North Little Rock, and she was quite attractive and genial as a person. It was a non-hustle situation so I saw the real her; or at least I think I did. She seemed very at ease with herself and confident, I can understand why bands scheduled their tours to pass through Little Rock.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sam38g View Post
    If he wanted you then he would have hit on you or had a roadie, manager approach you to come back stage afterwards. Now, I know a few girls who have been successful at this & the most successful one of all time "sweet sweet Connie" many of songs have been written about her. She blows all the roadies, managers & such to get to the band members. On one tour bus for a famous band, they had 5 girls in there, once she showed up they were all thrown out. At 17 was invited backstage & to the hotel for Huey Lewis & the news, of course, once they found out I was under age, I was off limits. But they did pay $200 dollars for my cab ride home at the end of the night. She was there, they all called her, loved her, gave her free tickets, places to stay.

    Moral of the story, you might have to suck many dicks to get to him. Sometimes fucking a fantasy ruins it. Your imagination always will be way better than reality. They have talent scouts aka roadies/managers to pick out the girls they want to fuck. If you weren't invited back stage or the after party then you aren't their type. They kind of sex they have with groupies is to fuck her & get off, not about your pleasure at all.

    At this point, after all these years of females throwing themselves at them, they prefer a girl who is hard to get, the Chase is more fun for them. Find them on social media. when they post something you can leave a smart of funny response do so. But don't post everyday, just every once in a while, if he wants you he will chase you from there. Really, isn't all that hard to do these days. But his age group is rarely on social media, go for a younger one.

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    I agree with the social media suggestion. Apparently Trent Reznor met his current wife through Twitter but they don't like admitting it to people.

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    I think "not looking a day over 17" is his idea of a compliment, so, no worries.

    There are several ways you could approach this. I used to be in a band that had groupies. As the only female, and not even a lead singer, I got groupies too - who I would hide from while the guys protected me and found this all quite hilarious, like they'd only just realised their drummer might be a lady.

    Different for the guys. Their main concern was gold-diggers wanting to get pregnant, not safety.

    I also used to work in a venue as a lighting engineer long before being in a band. I found you could get to meet anyone you wanted that way, but if I had to give a tip for meeting musicians with small to medium followings it would be 'give the drummer a hand getting the gear in the van'. This then makes you a roadie, not a groupie, and you might not think that enhances your social status exactly, but in the eyes of the crew and band it certainly will. Beats giving out free blow jobs too. Also, have a beer bottle opener with you.

    So, how to approach this.. I think if this is some big star I'd email his manager, say you met the guy and when, enclose a cute but non-desperate looking photo (that is sophisticated and clothed and not mistakeable for 17) to jog his memory, and say you are in town and would love to meet up with Mr Singer after the gig or for coffee after the sound check if he has time, and does he or she think Mr Singer would be free for that? There are usually a couple of hours between the headline band sound check and the opening act being on.

    It is the managers job to communicate with the outside world on his/her clients behalf, so don't be shy. If you get no response from the manager, then hanging out near the backstage area isn't a bad idea. My friend got to snog Bowie that way at the Rainbow in 71.

    Also.. I would caution you that this is just a guy. If you think there is any possibility whatsoever this could turn into a relationship you have to be DIFFERENT. That means coffee only or dinner before the gig then MAKE HIM WAIT FOR SEX (while still letting him know you find him attractive - I like to do a nice long kiss then walk away). You might be surprised how often gigs get booked in your town

    He is just a guy and everyone wants a piece of him. Treat him like a normal human being and you will be ahead of 99% of the competition. As an example this is what happened one time when I happened to be in a sauna in Chelsea..

    I'm with a group of older friends. We go to the sauna after a lively evening eating and drinking. We get inside the sauna and everyone goes dead silent. There is already a guy in there. Everyone avoids sitting next to him until the only space left IS next to him. I say 'Hi, mind if I sit here' and he nods and makes space'. I go sit down.

    It is still deathly quiet.

    After about three minutes, the guy gets up and leaves. At which point everyone is like 'do you know who that was? that was George Michael!!'

    And then I remember something he'd said in the press a couple of weeks back about the problem with fame - "people are either all over me or cool to the point of pain!" Well I wasn't. I'm bad with faces. But I could see what he meant :/

    These people aren't unattainable gods, but there's an etiquette. "Hey man I loved your last album, that middle eight on track three was awesome!" Then forget it. He's just a guy. Let him try and impress you.
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    It depends. I have met this well known band through a friend and know things like where they stay, hang out etc. Not that I'm interested in sleeping with them now, but most of them are faithful except the lead singer. Even though he's married to a supermodel he does cheat on tour (though have heard his wife knows). There are a few ways to get to certain bands. For example when I worked in radio I met bands related to the genres I worked in. There's also message boards, Facebook etc. Not recently but I do for awhile email a member of the band I mentioned. Just for the record I never slept with any of these guys but didn't act obnoxious. I saw many acting nutty and that scared them.

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    I ended up having to skip the show unfortunatley last night due to getting my period (tons of cramps) so I figured that I'd make a Twitter account post cute pics of me & then follow him & sometimes tweet a cute or inviting comment on his page saying something like "oh, you should play here at such & such" so that maybe overtime he'll remember me & see that I'm not some piece of psychocandy haha I ended up remaining friends with the musicians from LA that were in pretty well know bands, once I lost the "spark" for them they def came around me more & tried to add me as a repeat offender on their list.

    Also I will add that social media is how i met my ex from a few years back that was a child star celeb from the 80's that I ended up with. Social media def has it's perks.
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    Hey! I'm in a band. LOL
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    She seemed very at ease with herself and confident, I can understand why bands scheduled their tours to pass through Little Rock.
    I want to have that type of power.

    Thanks ladies, even though I am not a groupie myself, these are still good tactics to get to the people I want to get to.


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    Get in line. Nothing I could ever do, not for the hottest woman in history. Not to rain on your parade, sorry, but why not pick a man who will show you some small shred of respect as a woman, to give you a memorable night of pleasure?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sam38g View Post
    If he wanted you then he would have hit on you or had a roadie, manager approach you to come back stage afterwards. Now, I know a few girls who have been successful at this & the most successful one of all time "sweet sweet Connie" many of songs have been written about her. She blows all the roadies, managers & such to get to the band members. On one tour bus for a famous band, they had 5 girls in there, once she showed up they were all thrown out. At 17 was invited backstage & to the hotel for Huey Lewis & the news, of course, once they found out I was under age, I was off limits. But they did pay $200 dollars for my cab ride home at the end of the night. She was there, they all called her, loved her, gave her free tickets, places to stay.

    Moral of the story, you might have to suck many dicks to get to him. Sometimes fucking a fantasy ruins it. Your imagination always will be way better than reality. They have talent scouts aka roadies/managers to pick out the girls they want to fuck. If you weren't invited back stage or the after party then you aren't their type. They kind of sex they have with groupies is to fuck her & get off, not about your pleasure at all.

    At this point, after all these years of females throwing themselves at them, they prefer a girl who is hard to get, the Chase is more fun for them. Find them on social media. when they post something you can leave a smart of funny response do so. But don't post everyday, just every once in a while, if he wants you he will chase you from there. Really, isn't all that hard to do these days. But his age group is rarely on social media, go for a younger one.

    Smooches,
    Sam
    Yep. I was in love with the bass player for ratt( I was 16). I went to an event they did with 98 rock ( ratt ball) and was called over by Waun. He wanted me to come to chi chis ( anyone remember the mexican restuarant)? Well I begged my dad and my dad ended up knowing the manager at chi chis) they weren't there they were at the one across town( he called) LOng story short I went to the concert and saw him( he gave me a backstage pass) black said cellar door on it. I had it stuck on my leg under my dress. I was right up front. I saw all the girls older , dressed provacative getting let back. I was naive ( had only been with one guy but knew what they were doing. I lost my friend and was so excited I showed some girls and I could tell they were plotting to take it from me so I got lost in the crowd. Bon Jovi opened for them. In the end it was stupid! All like 5 of us with backstage passes got let back and he wasn't even back there. My gf and I did know the hotel they were staying and tried to get in but I didn't know the password. Lmao. I did have the pass but he said that didn't allow me in. Probably for the best since I was 16 and naive. Edit to add" I did have a threesome with the lead singer and bass player of a band ( famous in orlando and had a record deal). I was 25. They were playing at a local bat and my gf and i were dancing all sexy and they invited us back to their hotel. It was very unmemorable.
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    LOL I have the saddest "met a rock star" story. I met him & didn't believe he was who he said he was. Then I Googled him & behold, he was telling the truth.

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