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    Default Questions/convo starters besides the usual "oh you're from ...? Awesome" ugh

    I'm so tired of the standard

    where are you from
    what do you do
    bla bla shoot me.

    what are some questions or things to say to keep them excited? Cause trust me, they don't wanna have that convo either.

    some sexy stuff that keeps them interested, anyone?

    obviously I'll still try to find out some stuff about them to determine how big their wallet is etc.

    but maybe some stuff to find out their fetishes/what they're into without wasting too much time

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    Default Re: Questions/convo starters besides the usual "oh you're from ...? Awesome" ugh

    I ask what their name would be if they were a stripper: male and female. They always ask what mine would be if I was a guy, and my go-to is Manaconda because it makes them laugh and gets us talking sexy things and club talk and so on. Plus, the laughter is an excuse to lightly touch a shoulder, arm, leg.
    If conversation slows down before it's selling time, I usually go back to "So you never did tell me your sexy stripper name!" and it gets going again.

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    Default Re: Questions/convo starters besides the usual "oh you're from ...? Awesome" ugh

    I usually open with "what brings you out today/tonight?" Right off the bat, it gives me good info for deciding if I want to take a seat and, if so, how to tailor my hustle. If they're killing time before an appointment/meeting, I know to do a quick hustle. If they're celebrating something, I know to play the upbeat party girl angle. If they're in town on business, I know I can push selling a block of time more easily. If they're unwinding after a long day, I go more sensual GFE. etc. etc.

    I avoid asking what they do for a living but will often ask what they do for fun. It also gives ideas for tailoring my hustle and creating rapport. You can make most activities sexy enough to hustle a dance. If they like to travel, we can swap travel stories and I'll ask where the sexiest women are or if they've visiting strip clubs abroad. If they like to ride horses, that easily segues into talking about sex positions (cowgirl, riding, etc.). If they're a workaholic, I can remind them of the importance of playing just as hard and maybe swap wild stories.


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    Default Re: Questions/convo starters besides the usual "oh you're from ...? Awesome" ugh

    sometimes when i ask their name they will say 'guess' or 'what do you want it to be?' and i will say 'lollipop'.

    it's super cheesy but it gets a laugh and some of them start thinking about oral sex lol.

    or i'll say it to a guy that says 'you don't remember my name?' when i've met them before.

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    Default Re: Questions/convo starters besides the usual "oh you're from ...? Awesome" ugh

    After I say hi and introduce myself, I ask him if he's in the mood for some fun today. If he says yes, I'll ask him what he likes to do for fun. It gives him a chance to tell me about himself, and for me to get to know him and what he likes. Of course, I try to keep it sexual in nature. I'll be like whats your idea of a fun night in bed? How do you like to have fun in the VIP room? I'm being friendly while subtly pushing him for a VIP at the same time. And I'll tell him what my idea of fun in the VIP room is to get him excited

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    Default Re: Questions/convo starters besides the usual "oh you're from ...? Awesome" ugh

    Quote Originally Posted by EastCoastDancer01 View Post
    After I say hi and introduce myself, I ask him if he's in the mood for some fun today. If he says yes, I'll ask him what he likes to do for fun. It gives him a chance to tell me about himself, and for me to get to know him and what he likes. Of course, I try to keep it sexual in nature. I'll be like whats your idea of a fun night in bed? How do you like to have fun in the VIP room? I'm being friendly while subtly pushing him for a VIP at the same time. And I'll tell him what my idea of fun in the VIP room is to get him excited
    what do you say what you do in vip?

    i tend to be too funny and not sexy enough and lost a sale last night because of that.

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    Default Re: Questions/convo starters besides the usual "oh you're from ...? Awesome" ugh

    I try to find something about them before/as I'm walking up to them. Do they look serious/upset? Having a blast? Wearing anything interesting that I can comment on? With a group of friends? Walk up with a smile and make some flirty comment about whatever it was you noticed. From there, if there's not a natural conversation progression available, I use the opening to sit down/ask if I can sit down. Usually from there, I look at whoever's on stage and compliment how beautiful she is. It opens the door to start talking about the club/girls, what he likes/is into, the VIP setup here, etc, and definitely feels like a safe bet, conversation wise. If there's something else that pops up to keep up the flow of the conversation (You comment on his jewelry, and he says he makes it -> talk about jewelry making if you know enough about it to do so, or, even better imo, ask him about what all that looks like/what all goes into it. Lets him talk about himself and feeds his ego a bit/helps him think you're actually interested in him and not just fishing for his wallet, etc) then by all means, continue down the flow of conversation. Just don't forget to hustle for dances, too.

    If a guy "flags me down" by looking at me as I walk across the room, I just jump straight into flirtation mode. Usually in that case I just walk over to them and bend over so I'm eye level. "Hey, you," I'll say, running my hand over their head/down their cheek/behind their ear/whatever, "What's your name?" From there, compliment his name or just say the first thing that comes to mind if you can pull off being silly and quirky. Your hustle may vary. But yeah. Maybe make a comment/ask a question about the origin, give him your own at some point, and either flirt some more, talk about the club/the guy, or just jump straight to "wanna dance?"

    The hustle conversation is definitely harder for me if a guy flags me down because I haven't had time to scope him out and find a couple conversation topics. But it's also a lot shorter, because *he* sought *me* out, so I already know he's interested, and I can just focus on getting him into the dance area. Otherwise, it's just a trick of working with what they give you/what your eyes can see from across the room. If you run low on stuff to talk about, just transition into "Need to make money, wanna dance?" I try not to spend more than a couple songs talking to guys anyway. If I can get them in one or less, even better. But unless I'm shooting for a CR/big VIP room, I don't need/want to fill that much time with conversation anyway, so I don't generally need that much to talk about. What they have on/around them is usually more than enough.

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    Default Re: Questions/convo starters besides the usual "oh you're from ...? Awesome" ugh

    Quote Originally Posted by crystalize View Post
    what do you say what you do in vip?

    i tend to be too funny and not sexy enough and lost a sale last night because of that.
    Oh no sorry to hear that! I tell them there will be lots of touching and he'll get to see every inch of my body up close and he can feel me up if he likes. Whatever style he likes, hard or slow and sensual. Of course I don't let him touch everything, only my boobs and butt, not anywhere near my crotch. If you're more funny than sexy though, you should come across more playful and upbeat than sexy.

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    Default Re: Questions/convo starters besides the usual "oh you're from ...? Awesome" ugh

    These are all great! I struggle with the whole convo hustle part.. I'm soo going to use all of these Friday night ^_^

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    Default Re: Questions/convo starters besides the usual "oh you're from ...? Awesome" ugh

    Along with what you've ladies have said i also like to ask what their secret special skills are, this easily leads to something flirty n sexual. Definitely try to mix the sexy stuff into the funny up beat you, because most guys want even a little bit of that stuff, or they usually struggle with the stripper fantasy and dont get lots of dances. I too have this problem im way too goofy most of the time adding even tiny bits of flirty, sexusl stuff helps imensely to keep them longer.

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