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    I understand why guys ask for pics because of all the bait and switch but I do not send them. Is that wrong of me? I do it for my own safety and protection of my identity. I even joked about how the only fake thing is my hair.

    Why guys see ladies with obviously fake pics when it is so easy to search to see if they are real or not.

    Why do ladies use fake pics? I would hate to be turned away because I did not look like my pics.

    I wish there was a trusted agency near me for bbw girls. I do not mean to rant.

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    I don't send photos! The photos on my showcase (eccie), my ads AND my webpage are more then enough. If you don't want to send photos, then don't. Do what makes YOU feel comfortable and safe. If a guy keeps persisting then he isn't respecting your boundaries. And if he isn't respecting your boundaries with a simple photo he sure as hell won't during the appointment.
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    ^^^ What Nocturnelle said. Do you have accurate, up to date full body photos on your website? If so say it, and also say if you have tattoos, etc. - Some guys are turned off by them, so if you blur or cover them up be sure to note it so clients aren't surprised. (You never know how picky they can be...) But yeah, there is fine line between asking pertinent questions about a luxury 'fantasy purchase' and a time waster. Most questions should be answered by your website, so do update it if you get asked the same question alot.
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    I do. I try to make sure all my pics are updated even when I gained weight I had new pics taken. I have no tattoos. I do have natural hair and I even say that because in some of my pics I am wearing extensions. Its crazy how many times I show up and they are surprised that I look like my pics. The ladies in my area have set some standards low.

    I have started to just ignore the ones that cannot read. I have gotten requests for things I do not offer. I try to be as informative as possible. I think my patience is starting to slowly wear thin from time wasters or people who tell me that my services are too expensive for a woman like me.

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    First F the loser who said you're to expensive for a gal of your type of beauty, apparently some men don't mind paying it.YOUR time you're spending is YOUR price.In this industry you will have quite some bs especially if you're just starting out,new or even independent to deal with.Always stick to your guns, remember if he's weird or pushy on the phone or via email he will be that much WORST in person.I think all the ladies at some point have practically lost their patience in the industry, but try to be as optimistic as possible.

    The longer you hang in there, there more you'll get a better hand of things.I don't know about your finance/budget but some girls do hiring booking agents, they take care of the screening & booking for you so you don't have to deal with any bs .
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    I do. I try to make sure all my pics are updated even when I gained weight I had new pics taken. I have no tattoos. I do have natural hair and I even say that because in some of my pics I am wearing extensions. Its crazy how many times I show up and they are surprised that I look like my pics. The ladies in my area have set some standards low.

    I have started to just ignore the ones that cannot read. I have gotten requests for things I do not offer. I try to be as informative as possible. I think my patience is starting to slowly wear thin from time wasters or people who tell me that my services are too expensive for a woman like me.

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    ANY type of looks, ANY price bracket, ANY area of the world...there are always people who ring before reading thoroughly.
    It is about developing your craft to end up a level above the hoards of clients who are not your target market.

    BBW is worth a fuckload of money.
    You need a better web presence and to play up your BBW status in a high class way.

    The pool of wild and untamed customers calling girls willy nilly is HUGE, but once you take control of your own client base you will find that the timewasters stop.

    xo

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    Quote Originally Posted by sophianz View Post
    BBW is worth a fuckload of money...
    I knew this rang true in the world of camming, but I was led to believe the opposite was true of escorting. As a BBW, I've been admittedly selling myself short as an escort because I had an agency turn me down because of my weight once. As confident as I am, I just didn't figure that a BBW escort in my area would have a huge following (although I do well with the ads I do post).

    Glad to hear that I'm wrong.

    Now, with that being said, would you suggest a BBW to sign up with Eros? I would be the only BBW in my area on Eros, but I also don't want to make an ass out of myself by placing a $100 ad that won't be responded to.

    OP, I apologize for the thread hijack. Miss Sophia's comment just struck me!

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    BBW is an untapped market.
    Dont ever listen to people who run agencies they are the "fast food providers" of the escort market-they dont know how to create their market, they only know how to fill a need...young thin and blonde.
    Sticking to the status quo will mean you always end up feeling bad and missing out on YOUR market.

    Put it this way...10 clients a month at $300phr is $3000 per month...$36,000 per year.
    Your goal is to meet and retain 10 customers...thats nothing in a big city....and you are the ONLY one filling the need for BBW.

    Perfect opportunity.

    **Get a website.
    **Get your photos done..here is one of the most gorgeous BBW marketers I have ever seen (dont copy her It is just an example for you) https://scarletblue.com.au/escort/cleo-divine/
    **Get those ads up all linking to your website
    **cultivate regulars...Keep them and bring in new customers.

    That would be the first steps I would suggest.

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