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    Quote Originally Posted by candies View Post
    I just have one question: if you guys insist that this industry is hard work and not easy money at all, why do it? I have a hard time imagining that there are other motivations for entering this industry, other than money.
    Because it's a job I love and always wanted to do. Like anyone who ever wanted to do a job they loved. This one is mine.

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    Quote Originally Posted by candies View Post
    I just have one question: if you guys insist that this industry is hard work and not easy money at all, why do it? I have a hard time imagining that there are other motivations for entering this industry, other than money.
    Because if you're cut out for it, it's an awesome job. It's not easy AT ALL, but for me, it's fun, rewarding, and lucrative. For other people it's horrible, thankless and degrading. It all depends on your personality, skills, and where you are in life.


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    Quote Originally Posted by candies View Post
    I just have one question: if you guys insist that this industry is hard work and not easy money at all, why do it? I have a hard time imagining that there are other motivations for entering this industry, other than money.
    Because it's rewarding as hell. Yes the money is a plus, but working for yourself is the best. Honestly, I doubt I'll ever use my degrees. Also my confidence in myself and appearance is so high. I've never felt like this, and I never want it to end.






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    Quote Originally Posted by candies View Post

    I just have one question: if you guys insist that this industry is hard work and not easy money at all, why do it? I have a hard time imagining that there are other motivations for entering this industry, other than money.
    I do it cause Im a slut.


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    Quote Originally Posted by DeepThoughts View Post
    I do it cause Im a slut.
    That's right lay it thick baby girl!! lol, I love you girls.

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    Quote Originally Posted by candies View Post
    I just have one question: if you guys insist that this industry is hard work and not easy money at all, why do it? I have a hard time imagining that there are other motivations for entering this industry, other than money.
    The fact that you're even asking why anyone would do something that is hard work speaks volumes about your work ethics, or lack thereof. Hard work pays off. It's really that simple.

    Personally I got into it for the money, and I stayed for the creative freedom, personal expression, and interesting people. I've become more extroverted, it's helped me tremendously with my social anxiety, and it's allowed me to embrace myself and my sexuality, all while becoming more financially stable and independent than I've ever been. It's extremely rewarding to have so much control over my life and career path.

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    Quote Originally Posted by candies View Post
    But after much thought, I think I'm not strong enough to be in this industry. I think everyone else makes it seem so easy to be in this industry. All you have to do is take your clothes off and you get tons of cash thrown at you, but I guess that is not the case at all.

    Thank you to everyone who helped in making me realize the true world of camming.

    I admire you all for staying strong and I wish you best of luck.
    Thanks for listening to what we had to say and taking it into consideration in your decision. Maybe someday down the road, your perspective in life will have changed, and camming might be a better fit then.

    I just have one question: if you guys insist that this industry is hard work and not easy money at all, why do it? I have a hard time imagining that there are other motivations for entering this industry, other than money.
    I kind of feel awful saying this to someone your age, because I think it's an idea that will steal more of your innocence than any consensual sex act, but... being a grown up is hard work for almost everyone. Unless you are born into money, marry into money, or otherwise stumble into a large amount of money, LIFE is hard work. Some people work hard at things they love, and that makes it look easier. Some people work really hard to climb the ladder to a position where they get paid a lot compared to the amount of work they do. Those people make it look easy, but they are still working hard.

    People that find work that is enjoyable and meaningful to them, and/or people that are able to be highly successful in their careers, are usually going to be happier about having to work hard in life, compared to people that have to work hard at stuff they hate, don't find meaningful, or are terrible at doing. For a lot of career cam models, we aren't here for tons of fast, easy money - we do it because we have to work hard at something in life, and this is the thing that we genuinely like the most. For some of us, this is just what we are meant to be doing.
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    I'm not other models, its not slow.

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    When you work at a few jobs, you will soon figure out just getting a pay check & someone else is getting rich SUCKS.

    No matter what career one chooses only a few make the top money, there are plenty at the bottom & somewhere in the middle can be the sweet spot. Hard work, time, honing your craft, thinking outside the box, creativity are all apart of what it takes. Nobody is going to hand you a single thing in life, there is a price to pay for everything.

    I work when I want, from home, my imagination, my creativity, learn new skills, have fun. Money does get to be easier, once you put in what it takes to get to the top. Only for some it is a longer journey than for others, once they put their mind to it.

    Most importantly:
    I am a STAR!!!!! I get recognized everywhere I go by men & women.

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    Quote Originally Posted by audritwo View Post
    Also are you still a dependent? As in do your parents claim you on their taxes? Because you'll have to claim your income to them. So if you think you can keep this a secret from your parents, think again. You can be open and honest with them about it. But if they ain't cool with it, you might want to rethink.


    Here is a thread with at work home jobs: https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...ns-are-limited


    Seriously with that naive mindset, and how you "burst into tears at the idea because you feel like this is robbing you of your innocence" you are gonna have a bad time. You aren't ready for the bullshit these dudes will put you through. You can try, but you need to get a better mindset.


    Also this virgin talk is bullshit. You aren't pure because a dreadful penis has yet to enter your cunt. Okay, you are human who is sexually inexperienced. There is nothing wrong with that. Fuck, I didn't have sex with a dude until I was 20. Virgins were sought after back in the day because it was the only way for a man to know paternity. Now we have Maury to help us out with that.





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    Quote Originally Posted by candies View Post
    Okay, I actually don't know why everyone on this forum is getting offended over a statement.

    Yes, I am a virgin and I also do feel like I am very innocent - especially compared to a lot of people on this thread. And this innocence even goes as far to the fact that I am not open to shoving things inside of me. I never said that shoving things inside of you equals losing your virginity. Maybe you guys should read better before trying to jump at me for the littlest things. I just simply don't want to be doing that and that just happens to be my preference.

    To some extent, a virgin technically is more innocent than a non-virgin. And although I'm not religious, religion does make the argument that virginity equals to being pure.

    For years past, virginity has the connotation of innocence and purity. And I've even met men today that assume that virginity equals innocence and purity. There's nothing wrong with assuming that. Everyone has their own values and beliefs in life; their own ways of interpreting and looking at things in life.
    I'm not offended. I just know "virginity" = FULL OF SHIT. I lost my "virginity" when I was 22 years old. I didn't want things inside of me either but I still got guys off over the phone and sucked dick on the side when I felt the need to. If you want the ladies here to help you- hold off on the attitude and the "holier than thou" approach. You're a lost little cub coming into a den of lionesses trying to suckle from us so show some respect or we will throw you out to the wolves and let you starve. We've been doing this for a very long time but we're not going to help anyone if they're not going to heed to our advice.

    You don't have to shove things inside of you to make bank, but you do need to educate yourself on sex and how to please a man emotionally, mentally, and physically in this industry. If you do not; you will find yourself broke with a bad reputation and 1 star reviews. This is the big leagues. If you cannot bring these men to orgasm, you're in the wrong neck of the woods. Yes, some guys think it's sweet that virgins exist- in this industry THEY DON'T GIVE A SHIT. And they will try and snatch it from you. You're not a prize just because you're a virgin. You're just a small fish in a sea of hungry sharks who will do what they can to make sure that eventually you do dildo yourself, lol.
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    Quote Originally Posted by candies View Post
    I just have one question: if you guys insist that this industry is hard work and not easy money at all, why do it? I have a hard time imagining that there are other motivations for entering this industry, other than money.
    When has work ever been easy? Work is work in all industries. This is 100% a sales job. Sales is HARD, especially when YOU are the product. If everyone could be a cammodel and it was easy, they would. Instead, they come into the industry blinded by the bling and tricked by documentaries claiming that they'll make $10k in a week to flash their tits until it hits them. This. Is. Hard. Work. Yes, the money can be amazing but it doesn't come to you. This job is 100% commission based meaning you will not eat, if you do not sell. On top of it being solely on commission, you have to share up to 72% of your earnings. There's a site that only gives you 28%. Big box sites like SM only allow you to keep 35% of what you make, 35%!!!

    Some of us enjoy the power trip. Maybe a model has lost her confidence in men and this is her outlet to feel sexy and know that she is still desired. It's knowing that all we have to do is show up and 99.9% of the time we will make a sale. We enjoy putting on our make up, doing our hair, picking out sexy outfits, shaking our tits and feeling desirable. Some of us enjoy cultivating our interpersonal communications skills, discovering how to market in real time and seeing real numbers, using our seduction to get what we want (not just money, but perhaps attention), sharpening our hustling skills, communicating to get over anxiety issues, saving up for retirement or a vacation, etc. The list goes on.

    It can also be very rewarding to give someone else pleasure. Please understand that some of us actually enjoy pleasing others. When I'm in a show with a reg who can't get enough of me, it gives me great pride to satisfy him so much that I forgot he just paid me $90 for a 20 min strip show. I enjoy helping people in all aspects of life, including this job. When you show your gratitude, it gives back as well. Yes, money is important because if it wasn't, everyone would volunteer at every job out of the kindness of their hearts. However, the real world reminds us that bills are due, kids need to be put through college, or savings need to be stacked up. This job has taught me so much. It's taught me how to read and understand men, how to please others, how to communicate effectively to get what I want, how to market, how to listen, how to act and perform(I wanted to be an actress as a teen!), and how to hustle to survive and much, much more. Mainly, it's taught me how to depend on myself and be independent and take rejection (because you will get rejected DAILY).

    Before I got in this industry I was a scared little "Christian" girl (a virgin!) still swinging off of her mom's tits at 21. I didn't even have a friggin' driver's license at the time and was too afraid to. This industry has taught me how to rely on myself and years later I'm stronger, independent, self motivated and driven, and I live in a fucking 2,000sqft condo with the works. If it wasn't for this industry, I'd still be living at home with mommy or working a dead end job somewhere. This job is more than money- but money is the only way they'll get me out of my clothes, lol. Good luck!




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    If just "the thought" of shoving something in yourself and fingering yourself makes you want to cry this is not the right job for you.

    Men are going to constantly ask you to do this. It sounds like you might end up crying constantly thinking about it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kortneykay View Post
    I'm not offended. I just know "virginity" = FULL OF SHIT. I lost my "virginity" when I was 22 years old. I didn't want things inside of me either but I still got guys off over the phone and sucked dick on the side when I felt the need to. If you want the ladies here to help you- hold off on the attitude and the "holier than thou" approach. You're a lost little cub coming into a den of lionesses trying to suckle from us so show some respect or we will throw you out to the wolves and let you starve. We've been doing this for a very long time but we're not going to help anyone if they're not going to heed to our advice.

    You don't have to shove things inside of you to make bank, but you do need to educate yourself on sex and how to please a man emotionally, mentally, and physically in this industry. If you do not; you will find yourself broke with a bad reputation and 1 star reviews. This is the big leagues. If you cannot bring these men to orgasm, you're in the wrong neck of the woods. Yes, some guys think it's sweet that virgins exist- in this industry THEY DON'T GIVE A SHIT. And they will try and snatch it from you. You're not a prize just because you're a virgin. You're just a small fish in a sea of hungry sharks who will do what they can to make sure that eventually you do dildo yourself, lol.
    I agree completely with you as well. I myself am still a virgin. I am 25 years old and a virgin but I tell guys I have all this experience. I do make good money at times and some calls I get aren't as good or even on cam. Thats part of life. I agree with you as well with not needing to shove things inside you. Guys usually like the visualization if its on cams or over the phone. They like the dirty talk you give just like in phone sex and talking about certain things so in their brains they can imagine you there and just showing them things.

    In the industry you are so right. I have never ever told any guy that I was a virigin. I make a story to cover my ass and say Ihave had all these guys. Its about the talk. Can you talk the talk and walk the walk? Then if so any virgin can. I am a virgin and I work in the industry and I do great. I use porns to help me with my stories of when I did it and stuff. I lie my ass off so I can make money off my ass. I don't shove things inside I may fake it once and awhile and try to not show things and do them off camera or hide and angle myself in a certain way.

    If you have the mindest of a typical virgin then it won't work out. I talk the talk and people still think I've done all these things with guys. Truth is never happened. You don't want a guy to take that sweet side from you. Anyone who is to sweet for the job and may cry once they are seen on camera or talk on the phone won't be able to do it and won't be able to work out. Me specifically I have had the mindset of a nonvirgin and I just go in my role of that character who is that specific way and does these things. Once I log out then I'm plain old me and go into my sweats and shirt and just call it a day. They don't need to know that you are just show them a character that is different from you. Not you but maybe the you that you have been wanting to show for some time. I love getting complements from guys over who I am and guys will either love you or not. They are only human. If they don't like you then theres always 10 other guys who do.

    BTW I've been in the industry for about 4 years now and still a virgin to this day and still able to pull of the whole nonvirgin thing. So again know one needs to know just talk the talk and walk the walk.

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