Hi everyone,
Have you ever pitied your customers?
Just a few experiences below if you would like to read them. :]
There was I man who talked and talked about how he made his own beer, how it saved him money and how he didn't like to share it. I felt as if I couldn't escape the conversation by offering a dance. I was thinking. "You need to really stop spending so much time on people who may not even buy." (this is a pro and con topic because I have noticed some men like conversation before hand.) He started talking about death.....He talked about how his 2 friends and father died in a period of 2 months.. I felt terrible he almost started crying thank gosh my manager pulled me aside to do promotions for there shirts on stage.. buy two dances get a free shirt... who the hell wants to take home a shirt with the label of the strip club? Before going on stage they called each girl out to show the shirt they all had the shirt in their arm pit with a smug look on their face while walking off stage.. I wasn't trying to "stand out" but I sure as hell was not about to look like that. I showed off the shirt and smiled as if it wasn't killing me to be there. When I left the stage I went to the same guy that I spent forever on and said "will you do me a favor and buy two dances for the shirt." He did thank gosh.
There was one guy who I talked to the first day and he was very interested in what I had to say and not what he had to say which was weird for me but I didn't mind. After talking him and his friend up (while focusing on him) I offered him a dance and he rejected me and I excused myself.. He was there for my second shift on a different day and he tried to talk to me. I was very nice and made sure that he knew I remembered him. I decided to not waste time and offer him a dance. He rejected again and I excused myself once more. Before leaving I noticed how sad his eyes were as I left (what do you expect your very nice but I am here to work.. is what I was thinking) .. Later that night he tried to get my attention before going on stage handed me a wad of cash (all I saw was a 20 wrapped around cash) He said "You can stick around for awhile." I told him I would be back after I got on stage. After my set I spent time talking with him for a good 10-15 minutes and then told him that I had to go "say hi" to people in the club. After my shift I added up my table dances and lap dances and there was a unknown amount of almost 200 dollars and there is no way I made that off the pole. I should have checked before stuffing it into my garter.. Isn't it incredible how he just wanted to talk? Glad he got the hint that I need cash. I feel bad that I spent so little when he gave so much. I hustle but I don't rip people off.
There was one last guy who I felt bad for in my last shift. (This is when I realized all customers don't make your night only a few do) I walked past a table of two young guys and one pulled me aside. (YESS good timing!) He asked me to give his friend a lap dance and his friend looked embarrassed. I went over to his friend and started talking to him about dancing and he said only if its on my friend. I then went over to his friend to ask him to buy a lap dance. I told him the price of one which was 25 and he gave me two twenty's after saying "that's it?? come back to me when your done." He was now my target customer. I went back to give his friend a lap dance and after we sat down he said "Look ive never done this before and I don't know the rules.." I told him everything he was allowed to do. I began and half way through the dance he was basically doing all the work by bending me backwards and caressing me... I didn't mind because A he wasn't aggressive and B less work for me lmfao. I led him out after the dance looking for his friend only to see a girl dancing on him (shoot! oh well I will come back later) So I came back asking him if he wanted a lap dance and the friend checked his wallet for cash and told me he is going to get more and to wait in a chair..so I did and the guy that I gave a dance to before was talking to a waiter (who takes a liking to me) She introduced him to me even though we already met. I thanked her and him and I started talking. He told me he was asking about me all night etc.. he wanted another dance I told him I was waiting for his friend but if he wanted to steal me away before his friend got back he could. When we got back he told me how horrible his day went.. I would bring it up to target his weak spot and then bring up how he doesn't deserve that and he needs to have fun etc.. He bought 5 dances. While dancing he was obsessing over how he wanted to take me home or how he wished I met him outside the club. I didn't get a creepy vibe from him but I could feel his pain. I felt bad but then again this is a strip club...



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