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    Hi everyone,
    Have you ever pitied your customers?

    Just a few experiences below if you would like to read them. :]

    There was I man who talked and talked about how he made his own beer, how it saved him money and how he didn't like to share it. I felt as if I couldn't escape the conversation by offering a dance. I was thinking. "You need to really stop spending so much time on people who may not even buy." (this is a pro and con topic because I have noticed some men like conversation before hand.) He started talking about death.....He talked about how his 2 friends and father died in a period of 2 months.. I felt terrible he almost started crying thank gosh my manager pulled me aside to do promotions for there shirts on stage.. buy two dances get a free shirt... who the hell wants to take home a shirt with the label of the strip club? Before going on stage they called each girl out to show the shirt they all had the shirt in their arm pit with a smug look on their face while walking off stage.. I wasn't trying to "stand out" but I sure as hell was not about to look like that. I showed off the shirt and smiled as if it wasn't killing me to be there. When I left the stage I went to the same guy that I spent forever on and said "will you do me a favor and buy two dances for the shirt." He did thank gosh.


    There was one guy who I talked to the first day and he was very interested in what I had to say and not what he had to say which was weird for me but I didn't mind. After talking him and his friend up (while focusing on him) I offered him a dance and he rejected me and I excused myself.. He was there for my second shift on a different day and he tried to talk to me. I was very nice and made sure that he knew I remembered him. I decided to not waste time and offer him a dance. He rejected again and I excused myself once more. Before leaving I noticed how sad his eyes were as I left (what do you expect your very nice but I am here to work.. is what I was thinking) .. Later that night he tried to get my attention before going on stage handed me a wad of cash (all I saw was a 20 wrapped around cash) He said "You can stick around for awhile." I told him I would be back after I got on stage. After my set I spent time talking with him for a good 10-15 minutes and then told him that I had to go "say hi" to people in the club. After my shift I added up my table dances and lap dances and there was a unknown amount of almost 200 dollars and there is no way I made that off the pole. I should have checked before stuffing it into my garter.. Isn't it incredible how he just wanted to talk? Glad he got the hint that I need cash. I feel bad that I spent so little when he gave so much. I hustle but I don't rip people off.

    There was one last guy who I felt bad for in my last shift. (This is when I realized all customers don't make your night only a few do) I walked past a table of two young guys and one pulled me aside. (YESS good timing!) He asked me to give his friend a lap dance and his friend looked embarrassed. I went over to his friend and started talking to him about dancing and he said only if its on my friend. I then went over to his friend to ask him to buy a lap dance. I told him the price of one which was 25 and he gave me two twenty's after saying "that's it?? come back to me when your done." He was now my target customer. I went back to give his friend a lap dance and after we sat down he said "Look ive never done this before and I don't know the rules.." I told him everything he was allowed to do. I began and half way through the dance he was basically doing all the work by bending me backwards and caressing me... I didn't mind because A he wasn't aggressive and B less work for me lmfao. I led him out after the dance looking for his friend only to see a girl dancing on him (shoot! oh well I will come back later) So I came back asking him if he wanted a lap dance and the friend checked his wallet for cash and told me he is going to get more and to wait in a chair..so I did and the guy that I gave a dance to before was talking to a waiter (who takes a liking to me) She introduced him to me even though we already met. I thanked her and him and I started talking. He told me he was asking about me all night etc.. he wanted another dance I told him I was waiting for his friend but if he wanted to steal me away before his friend got back he could. When we got back he told me how horrible his day went.. I would bring it up to target his weak spot and then bring up how he doesn't deserve that and he needs to have fun etc.. He bought 5 dances. While dancing he was obsessing over how he wanted to take me home or how he wished I met him outside the club. I didn't get a creepy vibe from him but I could feel his pain. I felt bad but then again this is a strip club...

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    I once gave a guy a free dance because his cat died.

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    Aw yes I totally feel you. Last week this guy pulled me over and gave me money to do a dance with his friend. He said his friend needed me. I grabbed his friend and went to do a dance. I noticed his friend looked sad as we were beginning the dance. I asked if he was ok. He told me his girlfriend died recently of a heart condition and she looked exactly like me, that he couldn't stop staring at me all night because of how much I reminded him of her and his friend thought it would help if he bought him a dance with me. I apologized to him and gave him a hug. But then I just went off because it was a Friday night and I was trying to earn more. Later on he found me again and asked me if he could give me his number and we could hang out. I took down his number but I never called him. I felt bad but I barely knew him and really never hang out with anyone outside of the club. Then his friend later came over to me again and asked if I could come back with him when I got off (around 3 am) because his friend was sad and "needed me." That made me feel a little less bad about not hanging out with him...

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    Quote Originally Posted by catlover0106 View Post
    Aw yes I totally feel you. Last week this guy pulled me over and gave me money to do a dance with his friend. He said his friend needed me. I grabbed his friend and went to do a dance. I noticed his friend looked sad as we were beginning the dance. I asked if he was ok. He told me his girlfriend died recently of a heart condition and she looked exactly like me, that he couldn't stop staring at me all night because of how much I reminded him of her and his friend thought it would help if he bought him a dance with me. I apologized to him and gave him a hug. But then I just went off because it was a Friday night and I was trying to earn more. Later on he found me again and asked me if he could give me his number and we could hang out. I took down his number but I never called him. I felt bad but I barely knew him and really never hang out with anyone outside of the club. Then his friend later came over to me again and asked if I could come back with him when I got off (around 3 am) because his friend was sad and "needed me." That made me feel a little less bad about not hanging out with him...
    AHH! He sounds like he would be extremely needy!!! >.<
    I wouldn't feel bad about not calling him. lol that's just too much work and the potential drama….. I dunno. I feel like he wouldn't know that it was an in the club relationship only. I had a regular who I had to block for that reason! He was "in an unhappy marriage," and he said they he was in love with me. He would blow up my phone, then get mad when I wouldn't respond, even after explaining that I wasn't interested in an OTC relationship. ugh. Headache central right there! I'd say you dodged a bullet on that one. lol

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    Lol I have a similar regular who "loves me." Only difference is mine was not ever married, I think he has mental issues because he still lives with his parents in his 50's, told me he just recently lost his virginity last year (to a stripper), and writes songs about me. Always tells me he loves me and wants to marry me, he spent money on me but would blow up my phone like 20 times a day. I ended up blocking his number because of it. I ran into him at the club after that and he asked why he couldn't get through to my phone anymore. I just lied and was like "umm I couldn't afford to pay my phone bill." He was questionable about how I couldn't afford to pay my phone bill with all the money I was making, but I just lied some more that I had tons of bills "rent, school, car, food" etc. Then told him if he got a private room with me perhaps I could afford to get my phone turned back it, which actually worked. I ran into him again last week and he asked why I still hadn't gotten my phone back on. I lied and said my car broke down and I needed money for that. Then he got a few dances with me to help get me money to get my phone turned back on. Another instance I feel really bad and guilty, perhaps I took the stripper thing too far, if he weren't special he probably would have realized by now that I'm full of shit....

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    Quote Originally Posted by catlover0106 View Post
    Aw yes I totally feel you. Last week this guy pulled me over and gave me money to do a dance with his friend. He said his friend needed me. I grabbed his friend and went to do a dance. I noticed his friend looked sad as we were beginning the dance. I asked if he was ok. He told me his girlfriend died recently of a heart condition and she looked exactly like me, that he couldn't stop staring at me all night because of how much I reminded him of her and his friend thought it would help if he bought him a dance with me. I apologized to him and gave him a hug. But then I just went off because it was a Friday night and I was trying to earn more. Later on he found me again and asked me if he could give me his number and we could hang out. I took down his number but I never called him. I felt bad but I barely knew him and really never hang out with anyone outside of the club. Then his friend later came over to me again and asked if I could come back with him when I got off (around 3 am) because his friend was sad and "needed me." That made me feel a little less bad about not hanging out with him...

    I bet he made that dead girlfriend up. Some guys get their entire pussy allowance from tricking soft hearted women into pity-fucking them.


    Ladies, beware of any George Costanza-like motherfucker crying about a dead lover in the club. Usually a fib.

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    I think there's a good chance he did. Or at least played it out really big. The line he said about how he "held her hand as she died," seemed a little fishy, but I wasn't about to question something like that in case it was true.

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    Quote Originally Posted by catlover0106 View Post
    I think there's a good chance he did. Or at least played it out really big. The line he said about how he "held her hand as she died," seemed a little fishy, but I wasn't about to question something like that in case it was true.
    He could have been truthful, but I have met completely insane pathological liars & not just in stripclubs. Milking someone's kindness by feigning a loss is a disgusting but classic tactic used by many scammers. Also on par with pretending to have cancer...

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    Quote Originally Posted by SnuffleUffleGrass View Post
    I bet he made that dead girlfriend up. Some guys get their entire pussy allowance from tricking soft hearted women into pity-fucking them.


    Ladies, beware of any George Costanza-like motherfucker crying about a dead lover in the club. Usually a fib.
    Yep...used to have a customer with a "dead fiance." Turned out to be another dancer who was his atf for a couple months and died from heroine OD..Fiance though?. They never even had contact outside of the club. I always take what customers say with a grain of salt. If they want to bring up personal crap they can buy a long VIP and I'll play therapist. Otherwise I try to sway the conversation to lighthearted subjects. I don't want to hear their sob stories.

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    Quote Originally Posted by wednesday86 View Post
    Yep...used to have a customer with a "dead fiance." Turned out to be another dancer who was his atf for a couple months and died from heroine OD..Fiance though?. They never even had contact outside of the club. I always take what customers say with a grain of salt. If they want to bring up personal crap they can buy a long VIP and I'll play therapist. Otherwise I try to sway the conversation to lighthearted subjects. I don't want to hear their sob stories.
    Horrifying true story- while investigating a robbery/murder case at a strip club in Texas, police detectives discovered a club regular claimed to have a real life LTR with one of the murder victims (her friends proved he was lying, as the murdered woman actually was dating other people during the time the infatuated regular claimed to have been with her in an LTR.) IN HIS MIND this guy was having a "real" relationship with the woman, even though she was just a hostess (her relative got her a job there but preferred she not strip.)

    This is kind of why cops are so cynical, some people's idea of what is "real" is often so far from reality....That it's not true to other people but it's very real to the person experiencing their personal reality (read: insanity.)

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    Quote Originally Posted by catlover0106 View Post
    Lol I have a similar regular who "loves me." Only difference is mine was not ever married, I think he has mental issues because he still lives with his parents in his 50's, told me he just recently lost his virginity last year (to a stripper), and writes songs about me. Always tells me he loves me and wants to marry me, he spent money on me but would blow up my phone like 20 times a day. I ended up blocking his number because of it. I ran into him at the club after that and he asked why he couldn't get through to my phone anymore. I just lied and was like "umm I couldn't afford to pay my phone bill." He was questionable about how I couldn't afford to pay my phone bill with all the money I was making, but I just lied some more that I had tons of bills "rent, school, car, food" etc. Then told him if he got a private room with me perhaps I could afford to get my phone turned back it, which actually worked. I ran into him again last week and he asked why I still hadn't gotten my phone back on. I lied and said my car broke down and I needed money for that. Then he got a few dances with me to help get me money to get my phone turned back on. Another instance I feel really bad and guilty, perhaps I took the stripper thing too far, if he weren't special he probably would have realized by now that I'm full of shit....
    I have regulars like this. I feel bad about ripping them off sometimes, but then they do things to remind me how f-ing creepy they are and that assuages my guilt. Like, there's this one really old guy who always tells people this pity story about his wife dying and how he just needs some company and someone to come help him clean up around the house since he's an old man and has a hard time doing it by himself. He never gets dances but if you sit with him for a minute and let him brush your hair, he'll give you some money (anywhere from $40 to $100 or so) if you promise to call him and come clean his house. He also always offers to take me to a casino for the weekend and pay me a whole $200 (HAHAHA) to make the trip with him. He always gives this spiel about how he just wants company and he's too old to do anything physical, anyway, he just likes to cuddle and feel close to someone since his wife died.

    But I've known girls who have taken him up on the "house cleaning" offer. They go over to his house and he offers them drinks and asks them to watch a movie and then when they're sleepy he tries to grope/undress/force himself on them. And when one girl demanded money when she was done, he refused. AND he's been giving strippers extravagant gifts and trying to get them to meet him at hotels since before his wife even died, apparently.

    And he is so weird, when I first met him he was so infatuated with me, he was like, "Oh, I just want to help you out, let me buy you some food and I'll bring it by your house!" And of course, I was like, "Uh, nah, I can feed myself and all" (I mean, I said it in a much nicer way, but that was the gist of it). So he waited out in the parking lot for me in his car so I wouldn't see him, and when I was walking to my car (obviously he waited until I got to the car so he could see which one it was), he drove up to me and handed me a fucking frozen pizza and a TV dinner! It was the most bizarre thing. Needless to say, I waited until he had driven far away to drive home, and even then I took a circuitous route. I did eat that frozen pizza, though (hey, it was sealed!).

    What's great about him, though, is his mind isn't all that it used to be, so he never remembers that I've promised to come help clean his house or go on casino trips with him like twelve times in the past year. Sometimes I feel bad for taking advantage of that, but then I'm like, Nah, fuck this dude.

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    I only pity guys and show them support if they pay me to. I'm not gonna listen to their sob stories and give away freebies just because I feel sorry for them. If a guy is a good regular of mine and spends money, then I'm happy to offer him some support and help. However, none of my good regulars have been the needy type. Its always the losers who dont spend much and like to take more than they give who try to make us feel pity. Those types of guys disgust me.

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